@dramas4me good luck to him from me too. Let us assume first love is his so called lady love, I assume she moved on so long time ago. That is a really weird excuse for not finding a gf. Who buys an excuse like that. Eddie should keep quiet. He is only making the rumors look more real with an excuse so far fetch.

Good luck to you!

@birdy It should be 3rd not 3th. There is no such thing as "3th". Certainly i hope there is no marriage problem for them. Hopefully the rumor is incorrect, but it seems like there is problem there.

@dramas4me Yes and that would make look and seem desperate.

@dramas4me Thanks and I need to get away from my siblings and relatives as they are annoying. Yes, hopefully, karma will do its work. I wish you lifelong happiness as well since you deserve it.

Good luck to the whole family. I wish they can share one picture of their son, Bu Bu with us. I know it's not a good idea.

@hetieshou Just live your life to the fullest and be a good person. Karma will take care of bad people. Best wishes to you always!

Godfrey Gao made the list of "TC Candler's 30 most handsome faces of the decade". There are 5 Asian guys made that list. He is so deserved it. Congrats to him and his family. RIP! https://youtu.be/vyno8jtHjVw

@dramas4me Thanks and yes that one aunt of mine is so evil and mean to say that. Maybe she is experiencing karma now as she is partially paralyzed now. But she is 83 already so she is still luckier than most people. I had another aunt that was worse than her but she passed away now too. I will forget it as it is my life and life is short so I must work towards my own happiness as that is what my mom would want. Thanks again and always wishing you the best!!

@hetieshou Yes, exactly. If he takes her back than something is very wrong with him.

@hetieshou I meant to say about your aunt’s curse - that was an awful thing for her to do that. Just forget it. Think positive and enjoy your life. Just believe that good things will happen.

@dramas4me I agree and he deserves better. After what she did, I doubt he would and his parents would not approve. Is she cheated on him once then there is a definitely a chance that she will do it again.

@dramas4me Thanks for your wonderful message! I appreciate it and am trying to work towards happiness. I am the same age is Joe Chen the actress. It is not that I am not brave and have tried finding a boyfriend/ partner but nothing came out of it. It is based on fate and I realize that there is more to life than romantic love. I am glad and happy that you are happily married and hope you always will be. Everyone that reads my palm said that I will marry late in life but will have a happy and stable marriage. However, let’s see how true it will be. My late father was physically and verbally abusive of my late mom and us too. Honestly, the day he passed was bittersweet for me as he was my father after all and I was sad but I was also happy that we can be free of his abuse and threats. Thanks again for everything and hope you are happy always!

@dramas4me Totally agree. And Kenneth strikes me as someone who is traditional and very filial. I doubt he would take her home to his mom.

I would think she wants to go back to him. If I were him - I don't want to have anything to do with her. He deserves someone who loves, respects, cares and shares a happy life with.

@hetieshou I'm sorry to hear about the unfortunate things happened in your life. Be strong and be happy. You can do it. Don't allow all that from pursuing your happy life. My sibling sometimes was physically abusive to me when I didn't give the person money to gamble before. I don't know what age range you are, but you should be brave and find your soulmate or a lifetime partner. Trust yourself and take time to know someone. Life is too short. You can enjoy life, but never settle for less with whatever important to you (it's different for all of us). While I was barely dating my now husband than I learned one of his parents was a compulsive gambler before. I had a very upfront, honest talk with him about the issue. I told him I will NOT tolerate any of that because I don't need another gambler in my life. He said the whole family suffered badly because of that parent and he learned from it. We are happily married for years now. Thanks and take care! Your mom would be happy to see that you are happy also.

@dramas4me Thanks for your kind words but I am ok in that sense now but I am depressed as I lost my mom too. Basically, I am an orphan now but I promised my mom to take care of myself before she left me. Yes, enduring 2 addictions was hell. I was unfortunate to have a bad father but he has passed away so I try to let bygones be bygones but it is harder than you think as those bad memories and years of suffering scarred me for life. I have never dated but told myself the same thing that I would runaway from anyone that gambled or did drugs since I suffered through that first part of my life already. I never want to endure it in the later parts of my life. My aunt once cursed me and said that I may end up with a person like my father which made me angry. I told her to her face that I would rather be single for life than end up with a person like that. Hope you married a good spouse though and hope you are now happy and free from all that pain.

@llwy12 Thanks for sharing that article. It's hard enough for us Asians to break into Hollywood - it's even harder to get recognized for the work. How many movies that made in Hollywood with total Asian casts? We probably can count the fingers on that. I just wish that WE, our own people will support and cheer on our own Asian artists - those who deserve the recognition instead of bashing them.

@hetieshou Thank you for your understanding. I hope all is well with you all now. To have one addiction is bad enough and your family had to endure two addictions from your father. I'm sure it made you all stronger. When I was younger and dating - I ran away from anyone who showed any sign of a gambling habit. I rather stayed single than getting into that never ending mess.

@dramas4me Glad that you understand but feel bad that you had to suffer through a gambling sibling. I had a chronic gambling late father so know how bad it was. My late father gambled and did drugs so our life was a living hell. Yes, they can blackmail and threaten you which was what my late father did too. I think it is worse when it is a parent as they keep on saying we as children owe them and are unfilial if we do not listen to them. Luckily, I had a good mom and overall good siblings and a good uncle who was a positive father figure to us as we had a bad father. But our life was hell due to my late father’s gambling and alcohol addictions. Outsiders say that we should have cut ties with them but it is way harder than people think. But we get to a breaking point that we have to for our own good and their own good.