• @josqi a man or a woman's promiscuity has nothing to do with how good of a parent they are not to mention as outsiders, we don't even know if those pictures were taken when she was with Nic or not. I personally don't believe that they were and have always found Cecilia to be the one who loved Nic more than the other way around. Doubtful that she would throw that all away if she was indeed still with Nic during that time. Would not be surprised if Nic really is an absent father. Aint no brainwashing needed for a 12-year-old to feel like his father doesn't care to be in his life. Technology is so advanced now and even babies know how to use smartphones. No excuse for Nic not to be in touch with his kids despite the distance.
  • @josqi i thought the fling between cecilia and edison happened before the marriage while nicolas and her were on a break. true that they are divorced and she probably gets good payments from nic. doesn't mean that he had to be completely absent. a phone call few times a week. family time once or twice every few weeks to stay in the kid's life. sleepovers or ask ceceilia to be closer to him.
  • @josqi Sorry but I don't understand this logic. So, the kids not supposed to expect the fathers (who supports them financially) to be present fathers in their life especially in time of sickness? This is a poor excuse. A father's job is not only to provide for money. Does it make it OK and acceptable for kids with moms as housewife to have absent fathers if we use this logic? Like someone has stated above. In today's technology, one doesn't need to meet in person to be keep in contact with each other. How many of us here who lives in different cities/countries from our relatives or closest friends yet still maintain close relationships? All it takes is the willingness to spend time for it.
  • @josqi Not saying he completely dismisses his sons. He's paying because those 2 are still his sons, but just doesn't take the effort/time to care about them.
  • When Lucas said "dad always busy with work and mom always by ourside" I have to say.... yah. Because your mom take money from your dad, she don't need to work to have money, for sure have time by your side. Somemore ur dad is too kind to pay her after divorce. When he can actually refuse to pay her any cent. By using the photo of she wearing engagement ring had affair with his best friend.
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