• @orchid123 yea, I have friends who is well over 50, and his son is my friend’s son! Lol. But he’s like so sporty, playing sport every day of the week, and because of it, his son loves it: tennis, gym, basketball. And then I have another couple who just reached 40, and they always out of energy to do stuffs with the kid, and their kid is the high energy type lol. And then there is us, who should have more energy, being younger than them, and while we go out a bit more for our kids, we are not much better in term of sporting lol (if we try sporting, our child just go nope >_<). Though it’s not bad to stay indoor, if it means for the kids to be more independent and able to play by himself lol (the last couple’s child can play by himself whereas my child always needs one of us for like 95% of the day lol). So it’s really the child, the parents and what works really :)
  • @littlefish Exactly, nothing wrong with shotgun if both parties are single. No wonder I see many C-netizens commenting on her being a third party, now I know why.
  • @littlefish couldn't agree more. No issue with shotgun marriage. It's actually the possibility of infidelity on his part and her possible role of breaking up someone's marriage and family that is disturbing. Although she has denied being a third party, the timing was too suspicious. Besides, there were rumours prior to his divorce of their closeness.
  • @littlefish I agree that due to current day's technology, it is a lot easier for a woman to get pregnant at older age. However, if the couple have their baby after age 50, they may not be able to enjoy their child as much, liking playing sports with their child, attending their child's university graduation, seeing her/him married, and welcoming their grandchildren.
  • @lynn90 yup. Having kid, and a husband that treasures the kid above all else, my husband would rather pay people to dress up, and then hold the boy for the entire birthday party (which he always did the past 2 birthdays! ) than dress up and have to entertain other kids! I don’t buy this unless there’s a photo of HXM with the mask off. And yes, after surprise his son, he should just change out and be with his son, while someone else takes over. That would be the best of both worlds!
  • When many focus on the nature of the wedding (shotgun or not), I found it’s more troubling that the man was in a married with kid, and then divorced his wife for Nikki? It’s a lot more troubling than shotgun wedding?
  • @coralie they can’t be shotgun if they married late 2018? Pregnancy is only 9mo, and if the baby is gonna to be a rat baby, it’s impossible to be a shotgun wedding? Unless she had a miscarriage?!
  • @m0m0 it’s because you don’t know how many use fertility treatments as well as pills (hormones/supplements, I used folate tablet regularly for 1 month and bam, got pregnant, whereas before I tried for a whole year and nothing!). It’s true there’s a lot more 40s having babies now, but that mainly because back then people don’t attempt at all because there’s no fall back. Now we have IVF as a fall back if failing at 40s, so no stress lol. So the whole age affects fertility is still true, it’s just our science is much better. My OB 17yrs tried for second baby using IVF but she wasn’t getting any result because the current IVF is really good compare to back then, she said it’s like Stone Age Vs age of technology! Main thing about age though is you won’t have the energy to run after your toddler xD
  • @littlefish Thanks for the news and I had a good feeling they would not last a lifetime. Even from the beginning, I did not feel they were a sweet couple. HXM had to constantly surprise and pamper her which maybe he got tired of doing? I felt a girl that is more down to earth and simple seemed more suitable for HXM. Angelababy does not seem like the down to earth or simple girl at all. She seems more suitable as a girlfriend type but not wife in my opinion.
  • @hetieshou latest news: they celebrated their son’s birthday separately, I think it’s true that they are separated, possibly staying together for sponsor and their son’s sakes. I wonder how it fell out considering HXM seems to be pretty heads over heels for her, and they don’t seem to be much in discord? Strange to kinda just separated
  • @littlefish You are so right as I have many siblings and we have problems, especially the ones that are married and only listen to their wife. I have plenty of annoying uncles from my mom’s side too. But since my parents passed away, they do not bother us as much as before. Yes, I cannot imagine the guilt he felt towards his sister in law and nephew. I am sure Ming Dao would have taken good care of them if they were spared.
  • @littlefish They kill their family so the debtors will have no one to go after for money. And they don't want their family to emotionally suffer; that's why they kill them too.
  • @littlefish there are probably many others with poor education in showbiz. in fact, there are definitely more with poorer education. look at andy lau, he started at 17, how much education u think he received? anita mui?
  • @m0m0 I think the article implying their poor education is a stark contrast to their high income and popularity, not the other way around lol
  • @littlefish Yes, a spade should be called a spade. "Intimacy and respect" is subjective. It assumes that he respects his victims, which is a positive view. Objective reporting would be, "he placed a blanket over their bodies", the end. The reader can fill in their own interpretations - "he did it because he hated them and didn't want to see their faces", etc. But perhaps as @hetieshou said, there is something lost in translation.
  • @littlefish Actually, when I was a gamer, I bought gacha boxes to sell to other players for in-game currency. I never bothered to open them because I calculated how low the statistics were. Easier to let other whales keep buying and opening gacha boxes till the item floods the market and pushes down the price, I will swoop in to buy the item I want using in-game cash. At least, the result is guaranteed. xD But as you said, I was aware of other players who would spend up to thousands to get certain items. Most of these players aren't exactly high income earners either; some of them were working in fast food restaurants only. There were a few I knew who were practically living paycheck-to-paycheck but wouldn't mind spending all their earnings on gacha boxes or upgrading their PCs for better graphics or performance. I always felt that these people have low self esteem in real life and they only get their momentary feeling of control and power from games itself when they show off to other players of their OP weapons and costumes.
  • @hetieshou lol, no need to say sorry xD thing about siblings though is that if one is creating trouble for so long, the relationship isn’t as good. And this is from my experience as I have trouble uncle from both my mum and dad’s side, and each has different way of dealing with it, but amount to the same thing: avoidance and no talking about them, and no invitation to family dinners lol. That’s why I don’t think the sudden being the only child is that bad, comparing to the guilt ridden fact that he must have felt for his sister-in-law and nephew
  • @yoyo even if this is fault, we all know that their wedding will have to be on some grand day lol, because they are really that attention seeking
  • @rika idk what they call but yes :p the thing about those is you might be pretty good at self control, but something happens and you might slip, since you play the game, willing to spend X amount, you are so used to this that to you, it’s normal practice. So say now and then you just want to splurge out, and that when it can become a problem. Also different people react to this very differently, like it’s well known that the aboriginal’s genetic is prone to be an alcoholic. Our society is now heavily into these gacha game concept, because we in large part vulnerable to it lol
  • @littlefish Oh sorry and I did not know you were an only child. I had a late father, uncles and relatives that were addictive gamblers too. However, they never accumulated such a big debt. I agree that MingDao and his parents must be guilt ridden, heartbroken,etc... I just feel so bad for him and his parents. I hope they stay strong through this difficult time.
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