• @cassiemissy totally agree! It takes a very strong person to be able to face this in public and at the end of the day, if she feels that their marriage is worth fighting for, the only way to do this is in private so her message i agree was to get the media and fans to leave them alone and work things out in private. She looks pretty focus still on her work and she is still posting on her IG so lets hope her work will help her and keep her mental state positive, as she will need this to face the next path of her marriage.
  • @mike not sure about I agree about the religious influence, however, maybe some aspects is right as being Christian it does deliver the message of forgiveness and maybe that just gave her a bigger perspective on how she could use that to help her get through this. But 100% agree that we should respect her personal decision.
  • @karina a person taking their marriage seriously doesnt make them them brainwashed or weak! staying positive is probably her way of coping with her personal life at the moment. if anyone can chose to either be a bitter person or a happy person, then I am guessing she is chosing the happy person. if their process of trying to rebuild or mend their marriage doesnt work then no can say that they didnt try. But trust is a hard thing to get back when its been broken so hopefully he does love her as much as he has indicated in public he does, as he will need to work very hard to get it back over a long period of time.
  • @moseenaddict No that is not what i said. I said its not easy being married to Sammi because she is so focused, training and she is very hard on herself when preparing for her films and concerts that focus on their own person life can be lacking at times. It takes two people to make a marriage and it take both parties to work for the marriage. Just because someone is busy does not mean they can take things for granted that their partner is as focused and on the same lines as them. Getting married is the easy part, it the keeping a marriage that is the hard part as it takes a lot of hard work. Being bitter and twisted about the whole thing and also blinkered to reasoning doesnt make a healthy person. When marriages breakdown it is not always black and white, of who is wrong and who is right, as it is more than just because the other went and had an affair. I mentioned that my comment didnt not mean that Andy's actions was right, as totally was not not. But too many people are over analysing the video and also making judgements that are pretty harsh and condeming. No one is 100% and just because they are public figures doesnt make them any different. Putting up positive comments is not a bad thing for Sammi as I am guessing she is trying to stay that way. Whether or not she has forgiven him now or later, thats her private business, she obviously loves him very much and feels its a marriage that is worth fighting for, lets just hope Andy feels the same, as he has put his wife through this and he has let her down and himself too. I do not think someone who wants to try and heal her marriage is weak, the person who is tested and caught by temptation is the weak one! Didnt really matter if the affair was a one night stand, recent or a long term one, he was wrong and he will need to rebuild his marriage if he still wants it, if not if he ever loved his wife, he needs to let her go and find happiness else where. If every marriage was judged by some of the comments on heren and other blogs, then divorce rates would be sky high and marriage counciling would be non existent.
  • @m0m0 i totally agree with you! Being bitter and resentful doesnt do anyone or Sammi any good.
  • @shorty Sorry Shorty, but that is some BS excuse! So, you are saying that because Sammi is so busy with work and left poor Andy home alone that he can go and find comfort and companionship with other women in BED? Come on... Watch the video, BOTH parties had been doing this for a while and they feel NO SHAME! It's one thing if he had a lonely night and she was all over him and he couldn't resist... OK forgivable. But this was a long time AFFAIR! You can't dismiss that and IF forgivable, not THIS SOON.
  • @gobbie She obviously really loves her husband and just because you want to work through the problems of a marriage doesnt make someone weak. No marriage is 100% and all glossy that is wonderful. Not standing up for Andy Hui's behaviour but being married to Sammi Cheng cannot be the easiest thing and with busy schedules and her focus on work, it is easy to forget the important things in a relationship because as we are all humans we take things for granted. I think Sammi has a clear mind and accepts her part in why her marriage temporary broken down in such a way that her husband had to find that missing part with someone else. It takes two to be in a marriage, and if she is willingly to work things through with him, then we as the public (watching bystander) shouldnt judge. Media, so called friends and public should just give them space and whether it will work out to repair the damage of their marriage it is their business.
  • @shorty Why is she hiding in HK? She can go back to Canada with less agressive chinese reporters there. If Vancouver has too many chinese, she can go to other places. Toronto's reporters are not as crazy as HK's. Sorry, i forgot that Canada has less people to help her become a mega star., but she can still meet some rich, older guys with career and wealth.
  • @symbolic its a media skill, making it up as you go along. However who knows if they do not use under hand tactics and intercept messages, in the UK the main newspapers did things like that and have been fined and editiors going to prision of their part in it as they were in charge of the news paper at the time. Some papers closed down, namely some of Rupert Murdoch's papers due to this.
  • Those pictures if they are real were definetly taken with long range lens etc. Yes she has done wrong but i do not think it is right to take photos like that just to sell a story, she is in her apartment and it is her privacy. Also the taxi driver or company who exposed them clearly sold the video to the media. Even though the whole thing was totally wrong from both parties, but its the ethics of the media and people that sell other peoples private lives to make a quick couple of bucks that I find absolutely disgusting. She has learnt a very hard lesson now just let her be and she knows her career and her personal credibility is self damaged so the best thing for her to do is to get away and rebuild a new life out of the lime light.
  • @shorty I think you posted the comment under the wrong article. Based on your response, I bet you have not followed Sammi or her news and all. I admit that I am not her biggest fan, but do follow her news from time to time and HK pop music. I must say that from what I know, Sammi does not work that much in these past years. She does but not much so for you to say that Andy cheated because she worked too much and neglected him is not accurate or true. Even if she did work a lot, it is still not an excuse for him to cheat. He should have told her about it if it bothered him that much. I agree with you that with any marriage, it takes a lot of work to make it lasting and blissful. Maybe since Sammi had forgiven him, they may work it out or that may not. It is up to them. Please do not talk to about Jacqueline and Kenneth! Kenneth dodged himself a bullet. Jacqueline does not deserve him. I cannot believe that he even considered marrying her. This scandal is a blessing in disguise for him because if he married her and she cheated like this, it would have been a double whammy!
  • Its easy to comment when it is not you that its happening to. It takes two to make a marriage and this is not backing up Andy's actions, but it cannot be easy to be married to Sammi Cheng, as she works very hard and is so focused on her projects that I am sure she neglects her family life to ensure she does her 100% on all her work, which is okay when you are single, but when you are married something will give and this is it. Andy must take full responsibility for his actions, but then Sammi also needs to balance work and private life. Getting married is the easy part, its keeping the relationship and marriage for a life time is the hardest. Hope that this has woken them both up and they can find a way to walk the same path and work on their realtionship, if not then to let each other find happiness somewhere else. As for Jacqueline if she feels she cannot be with Kenneth anymore then if you love him, then release him to find happiness with somebody else. He has been very supportive but she needs to question herself to whether its his support she wants. All these so called friends and other actresses commenting about cheating, well its easy to comment when it is not happening to you. Think about the people this is hurting and it might be better that they keep their opinions to themselves, also to concentrate on their lives rather than others.
  • @shorty Just because she was born in Canada (actually USA) it can be considered a norm? I am sorry even in Western societies these kind of acts are frowned upon. Chinese and Asian tradition values are high but Western tradition values are not obselete. In any societies messing with people’s marriages is a no no. This is one of those arguments used time and time again claiming Asians are making a molehill out of things. There are just as much consequences that affects your public image in Hollywood. Otherwise celebrities don’t churn out amicable separation and we are still very good friends in their PR message to the public.
  • @shorty To be honest, I’m a bit offended when people say Sammi was too focused on her work and perhaps that’s why Andy strayed. I’m not her fan, but I’ve followed her career since she debuted 30 years ago and she has definitely changed A LOT since then. In the past, she did use to be focused on her work, but her mentality and outlook on life changed a few years ago after she reunited with Andy and decided that work is no longer as important as it was in the past. And if you look at her workload the past few years, she actually has not been working as much as she used to – aside from the occasional concert or movie or attending an event, most of her time has been spent exercising, hanging out with family and friends, attending church and doing things related to her faith, etc. As Sammi herself said in an interview not too long ago, she came to realize the past couple years that her current way of life is what brings her the most happiness…. So basically, saying that Sammi was too focused on her work and career is actually a false statement given she HASN’T focused on it in recent years. Andy having an affair has nothing to do with any shortcomings on Sammi’s side – he was a jerk for being unfaithful and the sole responsibility should rest on him, not Sammi.
  • @shorty I also disagree with pointing the blame on Sammi here. It likes blaming a broken marriage because you can’t have children. He slept around, this might be the first time he got caught, but that doesn’t mean he hasn’t done it before. And if he was so unhappy, he can divorce her? Blaming it on Sammi is just cheap and low. I like Sammi enough, but I’m not a fan of her, I don’t think I follow her news at all in the past 10yrs, the last movie/songs from her were when 2005! But she, like any other women that are victims of the affair, should not be blamed for whatever their husband did. They have a choice of breaking it off if they are so unhappy!
  • @coralie @shorty I think your two comments are some of the most level-headed I've seen so far. Was this terrible judgement on the part of the cheaters? Absolutely. Does it show a lack of empathy and loyalty to their other halves? Yep. But the amount of venom being written the past two days has been incredible. I think both Jacqueline and Andy are tremendously lucky to have partners that aren't vengeful. No one would blame them if they were. Gawd knows I wouldn't be so classy. But in the end, I agree with you. They're cheaters… they did something bad, but they themselves are not inherently evil. They are both very very selfish though.
  • @lv3saiyan totally agree, also the media doesnt help, as Kenneth said already many people are hurt by this and he doesnt want anymore people getting hurt and asked the media to stop using their tactics to get the answer they want even if its not true. I have never seen Jacqueline's work and no real idea who is was until this happened, for a Chinese girl being bought in Canada, this is probably no really a big deal, however in Hong Kong people are still very traditional in their thoughts and find this absolutely terriable. She is very lucky to have Kenneth whether it is true love or not, if it is not she needs to be truthful to herself and let the guy go and find someone who will love him for what he is. Bit like Mose Chan and Bearnice Lui all those years ago. Stringing someone along just to get popular is just not a nice thing to do. As for Andy and Sammi, they need to reflect in private their own relationship and I am not standing up for him at all, as his bad judgement was totally wrong. But being married to someone who is totally focused on her career where it be her music or filming cannot be easy. Also she has pressures which sometimes you can see she is probably pretty hard on herself, can actually blind the fact that they are neglecting the other half. I think in their own world it was never about who was more successful, but the media like to write about it and it cannot do much for anyone, as at the end of the day we are all human. Either way, hope the media and public gives all parties involved the time to reflect on whats happened and find their true selfs to either work throught this or let the other go if they are not happy together. I do hope Andy and Sammi sort things out and go back to doing what everyday couples do and forget about work and media for a while, as 28 years of a relationship is hard to find and if Sammi is true to herself she too needs to see where her responsibility is within her relationship with Andy, as it takes two people to make a marriage.
  • @shorty though I agree it takes 2 for a marriage but that is NEVER an excuse to cheat on your partner. This is morale. Imagine the hurt it puts not just on your partner but also on both immediate family. Yes you can be tired of your partner. Love can come and go. When there’s no more love, be civilise and get a divorce, not flirting around and get into another relationship just because your partner doesn’t excites you anymore. When a woman puts career as her priority, people say she’s neglecting the family or the marriage. When men puts career as his priority everyone praise such a dedicated man. Life isn’t fair. Furthermore, I don’t see how Sammi is just all about work and not family.
  • @shorty I'm not dissing KM but he himself claimed to be boring and mot-tot lol. That's why I originally thought both odd and impress that he and JW got together. They seem opposite and as they say, opposite attracts (obviously the attraction wasn't for that long in this case.) JW is barely 30, her partying days are long from over if she's indeed a party girl. I mean look at Andy, 50s and still think with between his legs. Meh.
  • @shorty I dont think having stayed together for a long time automatically warrants the need to keep staying together. The question would be, If they have stayed together so long and the love is so precious, why would Andy Hui have done what he did? If he's willing to have a small fling for momentary satisfaction, then what value does that love hold, no matter how long term? The years together basically have not meant enough for him to resist fickle temptation. Tired of women always having to give the men second chances and then the guy ends up cheating again anyway. I know most think she would probably forgive him based on her faith and the years together. Personally I hope she divorces his ass.
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