Raymond Lam Cried, “I Am Willing to Accept Mavis Pan’s Revenge!”

By on April 13, 2011 in Hot Gossip!, NEWS

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Raymond Lam Fung was originally scheduled to attend the praying ceremony for TVB series, Return to the Three Kingdoms <回到三國>. However, due to [music] recording requirements, Raymond could not appear at the prayer ceremony. Afterwards, while accompanied by his manager, Virginia Lok Yi Ling, Eric Tsang Chi Wai, and Return to the Three Kingdoms’ producer, Lau Ka Ho, Raymond appeared at TVB City. 

Regarding claims that Raymond’s sexual video was circulating, he responded, “The incident has progressed to this stage…. I want to state that if I had hurt her [Mavis Pan Shuangshuang] while we were dating and if this were her revenge, I am willing to accept it. She is still young, I hope she can collect herself together.” 

Did Raymond consider that his private photos were stolen? His eyes wet with tears, Raymond said, “I did not think of it. If two people truly loved each other, there is no need to reach this point. I am heartbroken.”

Source: Orientaldaily

Jayne: Raymond believes that Mavis is behind the release of Mavis and Raymond’s bed photos, recent onslaught of his cheating rumors, etc.

From Mavis’ Next Magazine interview last week, she sounded like she was still pining for the lost love.   “Revenge” is also such a strong word. If Mavis was truly angry at Raymond and this was some elaborate revenge plan, why does she still wear the Hello Kitty watch that Raymond gave her? Why keep reminders of Raymond close and hurt herself more? To remind herself of the pain, to hurt Raymond and go down the destructive route together?

Love is full of hypocrisy, where a person who loves deeply can hurt their lovers just as deeply. I suspect it’s usually the people who like to keep score, who’s done more in the relationship, etc. to bear these grudges.

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  • 153 comments to Raymond Lam Cried, “I Am Willing to Accept Mavis Pan’s Revenge!”

    1. luci says:

      He didn’t deny the existance of the tape…so does that mean it’s true?

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @luci, I don’t think it’s true. Given that he didn’t deny the tape but he also didn’t respond to it. He probably feels hopeless and don’t know what else to say. I’m pretty sure that he just want this whole ordeal to be blown over.

        But if the tape is true, it will definitely ruin his image. I can vouch for that as I’m a fan of his singing and acting. Right now it just makes me feel “yucky” towards him and feeling disappointed too.

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        • YanYanKong replied:

          I like his singign and acting too, but these news about him won’t affect my liking of his acting and singign unless he suddenly acts horribly and sings off key (but that prob won’t happen). Hopefully he continues to work hard despite the news but if he’s recording sad love songs for his canto album, then these news might help him sing out emotion.

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        • Melody replied:

          @YanYanKong

          Agree with you, the news doesnt affect how I see him. I actually think he will sing those sad love songs better.

          Generally, men are programmed the same way. Majority of men have cheated at least once in their lives, even people around me have hence I dun see it as a big deal since he’s young, rich and famous.

          In fact, before the scandal, I found it unbelievable when he kept on claiming how “dry” he was.

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        • Kaytie replied:

          @YanYanKong & @Melody, I agree with you guys. I don’t deny his singing and acting abilities one bit since I fell in love with his singing when he sang the sub theme song for the series “Eternal Happiness.” Love that sub theme song a lot!

          I just hope that this will get all blown over and that he’s not affected by his work. It’d be sad that everyone puts their focus on his personal life rather than his efforts. People would be overlooking his talents and that’s not fair to him as a professional actor.

          You guys are right! He’ll put more feelings into the song but let’s wait and find out.

          Would it have been better if Raymond said that he’s been on dates but no further development rather than saying he’s “dry?”

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        • Kaytie replied:

          I mean at least it would make him sound like a normal guy who goes on dates rather than saying he’s “dry” and not go on dates.

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        • Melody replied:

          @Kaytie

          It would have been better however if he declared that he went on dates,reporters would stalk him continously esp for Ray whose popularity is quite at its peak.

          However he always did mention that he see girls which fulfill his requirements but he had no time so I took it that he did date, and last year when Mak Ling Ling (the fortune teller) told Ray if he is dating, he will definitely break up in 2011 to which he replied with a big astonished huh?! So all those signs were sort of a giveaway.

          I hope this will blow away soon cos I find him to be quite multi-talented among the batch of those below 35.

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        • HeTieShou replied:

          I think maybe one of the most negative things that came out from this was that he was lying the whole time about dating Mavis or anyone. I think IF Raymond told the truth in the beginning, then things may not have been as bad as they have become now. Therefore, we must all learn not to believe many things that celebs say when it comes to relationships because most of the time, they are lying. Then the truth comes out… Which is why I always think that it is best for them to tell the truth since things will become a big mess for them when the truth comes out.. Their image, crediability and everything else will be ruined…

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        • Kaytie replied:

          @Melody, True. I think no matter what Ray says, he’ll still be stalked by papparazzis. Like you said, his popularity is at its peak compare to those who came in the industry at the same time as he did.

          Yes, Mak Ling Ling did say that those who were born under the year of the Ram will have some trouble in their relationships. I even read a magazine about each zodiac signs and it’s pretty legit. These giveaways were warnings but it’s better not be too superstitious about it.

          @HTS, I agree with you and Melody. If only artists would be more honest about their relationships, but they chose not to. Papparazzis will always be on their tails about who they date etc. They chose not to reveal it and lie about it is because 1) they want to protect the ones they love and 2) they don’t want their love life to be in the limelight and being overshadowed by their true talent. It’s always a personal choice just as long as they know the consequences of what’s gonna happen and what they have to endure.

          I think it’s best to let it out in the open rather than hiding away your happiness. I honestly have to say that happiness cannot be hidden. It’s something you’d want to share and let everyone bless you w/ their blessings. It’s a good thing.

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        • HeTieShou replied:

          @Kaytie,
          Did Mak Ling Ling really say that those born in the year of the goat/ram will have problems in their love life? I honestly don’t believe that. I am goat/ram(yes I am the same age as Raymond) and never heard that.. I have always heard that it is tigers that have unstable relationships, not goats/rams. It varies from person it person I guess.

          I know that artists have reasons to lie about their relationships. As long as they have good reasons and don’t make empty promises in advance, then it should not be that bad. However, I still believe that it is best to tell the truth and be open and honest or else it will come back at them. I also totally agree with you that being in a relationship should be a happy thing so they should share it with everyone. What is the point of hiding it and then when things spill out(like in Raymond’s case)everything becomes a big mess….

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      • Judy replied:

        I wouldn’t be surprised if there was a tape. If there wasn’t, why wouldn’t he just outright deny it. I’m guessing that he won’t comment on it unless he’s sure it’s coming out. Given the photos that Mavis enjoys taking of herself, I’m sure she wouldn’t be opposed to taping herself nekkid and getting it on.

        When he says “this stage,” I think he is referring to Mavis’s actions (being very pro-active in giving interviews and pictures about their relationship).

        Raymond just needs to own up to his actions.

        1) Break up properly with a girl. If you truly loved or even really liked her, you owe her the respect and dignity she deserved by doing it in person.
        2) DO NOT take cutesy pictures with another girl while you are in a relationship with another.
        3) STOP trying to make people feel sorry for you. You are just making me dislike you more n more.

        Hey, i’m not against Ray being a player. But if you are, own up to it. You’re young, handsome, rich, and successful. If you wanna date around, Do it. No need to hide it.

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        • Fox replied:

          Maybe it’s my own opinion but I dun understand why the guy has to say clearly to mouth that “I want to break up”. I’d rather

          (1) Let the love died itself
          (2) Say goodbye to him.

          Who wanna have to hear “I want to break up with you”?

          It’s his job to take cute pictures with another girls. Nothing wrong about it. Look at the pictures, they don’t kiss, don’t make love, just take pix with each other like friends. In a relationship means you can’t take pictures with friends?

          Uhm, “trying to make ppl feel sorry for you”? Actually watever he does will make you dislike him more and more, if you dislike him. He cries, he laughs, he goes, he hides, anything can cause to the hatred.

          Reason why he has to hide his relationship is here – when his relationship is revealed, it’s not the business of himself but the business of everyone and media, curious ppl will join the relationship.

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        • Melody replied:

          I’m not surprised if there is a sex tape too but I’ll be surprised at his lack of intelligence to make such a tape cos if the tape gets exposed, it will not only affect him but his family esp his father.

          I agree on the part of breaking up properly, no girl likes to be hanging in mid-air not knowing what is happening next.

          Not surprised if he a player since Saggis are known to be players also. This could be one of his flings that went wrong too, no one knows except him.

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        • sehseh replied:

          @Fox

          Maybe for you (or Raymond).

          Ray should be responsibility, man up and told her clearly that he is breaking up with her. No one should hear that they are being dumped over the air/press/3rd 4th 5th party.

          Not going to comment on Mavis action, that girl is hellbent on revenge so no logic can explain.

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        • sehseh replied:

          I mean Ray should be *taking* responsibility

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        • Fox replied:

          @ sehseh: Different views on breakup.

          To me, if my partner dun contact with me for a long while, I know it’s a sign of break up. No need to say clearly to my face that: “I want to break up with you”. It’s more hurt to me. I’d rather my partner dun do that.

          I don’t get why anyone must be desperate after a break-up, as long as he/she dun do anything wrong.

          Uhm, I checked the horoscope and find it’s quite true (on the view about love). Some zodiac will get mad after a breakup and some will take it easier.

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        • Funn Lim replied:

          I disagree. If you want to break up with someone, better just tell to their face or at least write a fax or something. To just ignore and then announce to the press is cold and therefore sure to attract your GF kicking your porsche or your BF stalking you. A clean break is the best. You can’t assume. Be responsible; say what you mean and mean what you say.

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        • Fox replied:

          @ Funn: Once again, different views.

          And the point here is: He has never said “breakup” – this word to her. None of us can know that he said wat to her to make him (and her in the beginning) believe that it’s a peaceful breakup.

          And another point is her posts on weibo on Jan 2011. She said like she has just ended a relationship (by saying something like “Everything gone”). As her stories changed everyday, actually can’t guess what is the true story between them. Guess only.

          BTW, it’s the last time I state my view on breakup. It’s my own opinion so you can agree/disagree. To you “a clear breakup is the best”, to me it’s not.

          Somehow reminds me of Transformer 3 when this guy can’t tell the girl the word “love” and he tries to say something like that “I adore you” and he thinks tat’s ok but the girl disagrees and requests him to say “I love you” to her. I laugh at this scene. Everything if too clear, there is no mysterious and then, boring.

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        • Funn Lim replied:

          Fox, let’s talk about real life. don’t you want a guy or girl to tell you whether they are breaking up with you rather than disappear for 1 month, came back with another guy or girl in his or her arms? Don’t you want certainty? Inability to say I love you is very different from inability to make a clean break. You don’t want to drag your old flame, new flame, potential flame into a very confused area. Clear break will hurt but at least not as worse as uncertainty. Don’t you want that?

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        • Fox replied:

          I said that. If have someone to say goodbye, then it’s me, not my guy. Ok? I’d rather he disappears than say goodbye to me.

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        • Judy replied:

          @fox,
          1)I like clean breakups… it’s not so much that I need to hear the words “break up with you,” I just feel like it’s a form of respect. If he respects me as a person, then he would tell it to my face.
          2)It’s different taking pictures w/ friends and taking cutesy pictures. That’s just my opinion.
          3)”What he does will make you dislike him more and more.” No, that is not true. If he just doesn’t comment or if he doesn’t cry in front of the media then I wouldn’t dislike him more and more.

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        • Fox replied:

          @ Judy: Then these images will lead to bigger trouble to you:
          http://ww1.sinaimg.cn/bmiddle/65b2d65cjw1dg6xhoebs8j.jpg

          I even took more cutesy picture with him, so I should send it to Next (exclusively like wat PSS did) and then I’ll be famous. LMAO~.

          For the breakup, won’t say anymore because my view is different. You dun require the word “I breakup with you” so are you sure that he dun say similar thing to her? Because according to PSS herself, there are 4 versions of the breakup (and now there is 5th version where she dumped him because her mom also likes him, made her angry). Whatever happen and what they said to each other, only they can know.

          You just think that, if he pops up and laugh, you will have something else to say. He did say “no comment” and you still say such thing about him :P, no where strange, here in this site.

          Bingo, you have a point. You dislike him because he cried in front of the media. It’s so disgusting to you. But then I ask you back, if you are chased by the media 24/7 for the same questions, same trouble and same blame in more than a month, how you will react? Any advice to him? He said “no comment” but it seems dun work, they still chase him and there are more and more ppl involve. So wat will you do if you are in his shoes? I’m asking for you view only :).

          Actually some of you here ask when he can let go, but why you are still concerning on this one? Why can’t you let go? The media still follows, chases and digs more this, all because of you.

          Regards :).

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        • Judy replied:

          @Fox. Thanks for the pictures.. but no, they don’t actually cause any trouble for me as I have no care for Raymond Lam and the pictures that he takes with other girls. But I can see what you mean, pictures are just pictures. As long as there is no flirting, then no harm done.

          I would say to Raymond, If you did nothing wrong, then hold your head up high. As long as you didn’t do anything wrong, no need to cry, whine, or sulk. I saw the interview with him and the way he acted was just unattractive… head held down, speaking so softly I can barely hear him, no eye contact with the camera, wiping tears away. If you do have something to say, then say it with esteem.

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        • Fox replied:

          And the interview has no word he said about himself.

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        • SDS replied:

          @Judy

          He is faltering. He has regressed to the stereotyped Asian Man. Withdrawn, slouching, isolated, emotional and self-deprecating.

          Why can’t he just come out and tell the media “Ok. I dated her a bit. But after we slept together a few times I realised it wasn’t going to work out. So I left her. That’s how most relationships work right? I just did it a little quicker since I have a busy schedule.”

          See if it wasn’t for the stupid goodie-too-shoes squeaking clean virginal image someone has created for Raymond Lam, he wouldn’t need to sulk. Now he has to play to that image…

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        • abc replied:

          @SDS The problem is that a lot of his fans – especially the Mainland fans – have a very unrealistic image of him as the perfect gentleman. I don’t know why and when that emerged, because he was well-known to be quite a hardcore party-goer in his early days. For some reason though, TVB thought they should make him Mr Prince Charming and I guess he just had to play up to this image. Even now, it’s still part of this constructed image – the SNAG who got hurt terribly by his vindictive ex.

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        • Judy replied:

          Raymond’s crying turns me off so much because I see him as a professional. If I make a mistake @ work/school, am I gonna go to my professors/boss and cry. No, I’m gonna do my best to explain and resolve the situation, then I’m gonna go home, lock myself in my room, and then cry my eyes out! The 24 hr paparazzi/no privacy comes with the job. If you wanna make big bucks acting/movies/singing, then you gotta deal with the consequences. Be a professional and deal with the consequences. Save the tears and sad face for your friends/family/self.

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        • Fox replied:

          @ Judy: Lol lol lol, if your tear can help you to gain marks or find a job or being promoted and you don’t run to see your teachers/HR office/boss, I seriously think you are so naive. Life is a show.

          BTW, are you exaggerating the problem of the tear? If you are irked by his tear, then you can choose to avoid it and dun look at it anymore. Why need to make yourself feel tired because of just a small tear?

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        • Fox replied:

          P/S: Show black face to friend/family can be considered as selfish because you use your sadness to make your friend/family guilty and sad.

          It’s depends on the view.

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        • Judy replied:

          @Fox, in my experience, crying will usually not get you ahead in school or work, it’s usually a sign of weakness. And I’d rather cry to friends/family than strangers.

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        • Fox replied:

          Oh so you have never faced this :P.

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    2. HeTieShou says:

      What a big mess this whole thing has escalated to… I think that is just how it can become when a marriage or relationship ends. Love can be a double edged sword, you can really love someone one moment and then hate them the next. Intense love can turn into intense hate. The same thing can be applied to friendship as well since your best friends can one day be your worse enemies too… This is so sad but true…

      Revenge is a strong word, but if that is what Mavis Pan is aiming at… I think she got it. I think it is the wrong thing to do, but hey we are not her so I we all don’t understand what really happened.

      About her still wearing the watch, I am guessing she just likes the watch itself so it doesn’t matter who gave it her?? Just like if she got a diamond ring for example, I don’t think she would just throw it away because it is from him since it is something so valuable. Maybe she just values the object itself and not the sentimental meaning behind it, who really knows??

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      • YanYanKong replied:

        and the watch looks “EXPENSIVE”

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    3. Mandy says:

      Grow up! You still pretended to cry even though you were escorted by the manager and producer?

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      • Veejay replied:

        I laughed so hard at your comment to Ray’s action. Ray is nevertheless a potential actor with high acting skill if those tears were fake! hehe.

        I could also understand why Mavis did such thing (if she ever leaks those pics to the media). Someone who thought she could find a prince charming who is rich, handsome, young and etc jsut ended up being hurt, betrayed and waste of time… if Raymond really cheated on her. With Mavis’ young and notorius age, she is easily guided to do stupid deeds such as leaking out those intimate photos of hers and Ray just to destroy and ruin Ray’s image once in for all. Maybe part of her plan is also to gain publicity thru Raymond.

        Well, In Ray-Mavis’ situation, I won’t side any of the party since I believe both should face the consequences for having fun sex without plan 🙂

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        • rei replied:

          Good point indeed Veejay! If they didn’t have sex at the first place no matter what she wouldn’t be able to hold anything against him except their kissing, hand holding or even hugging photos. Everything will be settle since last week and we would’ve move on already. For some reason I wanna say GROW UP when I see him crying over this if is a girl I could understand. Man up Ray!

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      • Susan replied:

        Agree with you Mandy ^^

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      • Judy replied:

        Agreed. When I saw the video of this interview, I was disgusted by the way he answered the questions… eyes cast down, speaking so softly, wiping his tears away. Geez Ray, be a MAN.

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      • SDS replied:

        @Mandy

        Oh please let the boy cry. I mean, his only what… 31 years old? That translates to something like 8 years old in terms of the male anatomy. So I vote to let him cry more.

        In fact I want to see him crying nonstop on TVB’s e-news every night for the next two weeks. I want them to devote an entire time slot by again canceling weeknight series like a little bitch TVB is, just so we can see him, Virginia Lok and Lawrence Wong [Ka Hei] all huddle and cry. Ray could release a new photobook or pictorial of various artistic crying poses as the successor to his ‘chok’ look.

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      • SDS replied:

        @Mandy

        Don’t you just wish TVB would make a news special of Ray, Virginia Lok and Lawrence Wong all huddled and crying by again canceling the weeknight series on Friday night like a little bitch TVB is?

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        • yougo replied:

          pretty good idea. let them all have a marathon crying session until their eyes crack dry, then we dont have to hear or see this silly regurgitated tragedy over and over again. then we can have our weekend shows back. since Raymond and his possie don’t like crying in private, they torture us with a public show.

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    4. Pvt. Joker says:

      Cut the BS and grow a pair will ya? You got exposed as the player that you are and now you want our sympathy by turning on the waterworks? How can you truly love her if you were stepping out on her during the relationship??? Fake as can be.

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    5. Moon says:

      Honestly, He should just be quite and don’t say anything else. There is no need to comment.

      He make it worst for him when he cry when the reporter asked him about the sex tape. Shish

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    6. FanWen says:

      Such a baby. Grow up already!

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    7. Larry 3 says:

      He’s losing his ego there. Is it a great time to go on vacation and prepared to do Cat III movies?

      Appledaily should release a computer animated version of the suppose sex tape.

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    8. starry says:

      His comment leads me to believe that he is indeed guilty of cheating on Mavis during the course of their relationship. Seems like he’s indirectly apologizing to her in attempt to stop her from releasing more damaging information. I can’t be certain whether or not she had a hand in releasing those photos, but the bitter tone of her interview responses convince me that she isn’t lying about the cheating.

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      • iampheng replied:

        Werd.

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      • YanYanKong replied:

        Wait, but does Ray even have time for that many women?????!!!!

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    9. Rochelle says:

      I’m so digusted with him. He’s such a faker. Don’t know why fans are still falling for his crap like Gillian’s fans.

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      • rei replied:

        HARSH! But I agree. 🙂

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        • yuaida replied:

          Ditto – also agree.

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    10. Vidi says:

      wow many people really believe what Mavis and gossip magazines put together.

      i actually don’t know what happen between the two, but i kinda take credibility out of Mavis when she contradicted herself. At first, two weeks ago, she said they never officially broke up, but then this week she said she was the one who initiated the break-up on Mar 9.

      @jayne: when she wore that Hello Kitty watch, it’s the time when she first told they never officially broke up.

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      • Vidi replied:

        um…perhaps that’s because i watched the interview video. not only the news article at this site.

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      • Jayne replied:

        @Vidi, I sense Mavis’ anger towards Raymond may be growing in intensity. Her responses to the media this week seems more strongly worded.

        Since Mavis still kept the Hello Kitty watch, it seems like an intentional gesture to remind herself of the hurt.

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        • Funn Lim replied:

          Maybe she doesn’t appreciate being dumped without proper notice? Ray really needs to meet with her in person and talk to her instead of avoiding her.

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        • Vidi replied:

          @jayne:

          as i said, i don’t know what happened between the two. so i don’t know their intention both. i criticize from what i see.

          it’s just weird for me in a way that
          -there has been a/a few stories from her side every week and each week her stories become stronger and stronger. i see this thing the same way as the so-called videos. if there is that real video, it should have been released in the first week of the scandal. The same way. If the real story is stronger, why did she say it in the first interview? why wait for this week? maybe like you said, her anger got stronger. in my sense, it seems she wants to bury him deep down. if the first wave cannot sweep him, then the second and the third.

          -somehow i think she has a contract with Next Media, which never likes Raymond BTW. lol…it seems the “juicier” news can only come through this media only. Her interview with a Mainland TV is not that much when compared with the info she gave to Next. What she said with that TV station only gave out her golden quote that raises more haters towards her– “Not many people know Raymond in Mainland China. Why would I use him?” lol…seriously? look at massive news articles at Baidu page.

          -Gossip magazines even Next still don’t have the solid evidence yet. To me, Raymond’s pics with Rose are very normal. He used to take that kind of photos with his co-stars like Ah Sa. and “Dog date” is actually funny to me. the mag used some random pictures and put them together as a story. And the so-called videos…without showing Raymond in the video and creates this much news…umm…in my country, the artistes will sue this magazine.

          all in all, i believe in karma. any people will get to see the results of what they have done sooner or later. let’s see how Mavis and Raymond’s lives will be.

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        • Jayne replied:

          @Vidi, Next Media got the sleeping photos and kissing photos at the same time. In Mavis’ interview with Next Magazine last week, she already mentioned the existence of a third party. Next likely had photos on Rose last week. With such a juicy story to tell, Next made sure they staged it in” waves” so that they can stretch it into multi-editions spanning weeks to boost their sales.

          Mavis has really only spoken extensively with Next and Appledaily runs filler articles. Other publications can only chase Raymond for quotes.

          Much of the sensationalism in Raymond and Mavis’ scandal is due to Next and how they shaped the story and magnififed its scandalous angles: secret romance, disapproving parents, woman with provactive past, alleged married rumors, third party, Raymond as womanizer, etc. Love, hatred, betrayal, and many intense emotions etc are feelings felt in the whole scandcrafted. Even Raymond non fans find all this news compelling.

          From an editorial standpoint, the release of the info, shaping of reader attitudes, etc. Were all carefully crafted by Next. Last week’s edition had Mavis talking and reflecting on the pressure faced in romance with Raymond, reflecting on sweet moments etc. The piece shaped the readers’ attitude towards Mavis, hey she suffered and maybe not such a bad woman after all. In the piece, she did not blame Raymond. This week’s edition was made more believable in the Rose rumors becausewe already heard how Mavis suffered earlier.

          Next is trying to milk all possible angles and emotions wherever possible, just like successful soap opera. They also had Mavis very willingly supply them info, which helped in feeding the
          flames.

          I don’t think Next hates Raymond, but they are doing this to sell tabloids. Since Raymond had such a good image before, the only shock value is to continue to draw him in negative images: cheater, backdoor player, preying on 18 year olds etc.

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        • Vidi replied:

          @jayne:

          About Next. that is just how i sense from my experience. this media agency has tried to take Raymond down so many times in the past. from Apple Daily news, the gossip magazines and etc.

          but yes, i definitely agree about money making and how they have tried to shape the story.

          and what you mentioned is another reason why i think it’s weird. Next Media has their leaked photos, and plus the exclusive interviews from Mavis. not other media. what a coincidence. um…

          i’ve just read another news translation at Asianuniverse –>http://asianuniverse.net/forums/Raymond_Lam_tears_up_willing_to_accept_all_retaliation_t278191.html

          i just think this news translation gives better detail of the interview. it’s not that the translation here is inaccurate or anything. but more detail over there. maybe people want to read.

          and i don’t oppose to men crying. My dad also cries. He’s emotional sometimes, just like Raymond. i guess

          anyway, again. soon we’ll see the karma. sooner or later.

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        • Funn Lim replied:

          Ahhhhh the K word again!

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        • Vidi replied:

          @Funn Lim

          i don’t really understand your sentence and intention towards my post.

          i am a buddhist who really believes in buddha’s words. that’s why i put Karma all the time.

          any people will get results of what they have done. Raymond, Mavis and even me, everyone. every action of a person will produce a result. if a person does good, he/she’ll get good result. if it’s bad, then the result is bad.

          hope no offense to you. i just want to explain.

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        • Darren replied:

          Vidi, the reason Funn said that because in one post, Funn also mentioned karma but got rebuked by one other blogger who believed karma isn’t real and something else. It got pretty heated. Or so i vaguely remember.

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        • Vidi replied:

          @Darren

          i didn’t know what happened here. i come to check news here only sometimes. but thank you for your explanation.

          Anyone can believe whatever he/she wants to. that’s what i believe and respect.

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        • Kidd replied:

          @ Vidi, Darren

          This is not the case. The reason Funn said this is because there have been too many usage of the word ‘karma’ in Jaynestar lately. Especially frustrating is someone using ‘karma’ repeatedly to say Japan deserve its misfortune.

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        • Vidi replied:

          @Kidd

          oic. thank you for your explanation.

          no matter how people see the usage of Karma word. it doesn’t matter. As a buddhist, i still keep my standing for the Karma principle.

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        • HeTieShou replied:

          I also believe in Karma, but I don’t think it was appropriate to use it in the case of the Japanese Tsunami. With Raymond and Mavis, I think they are both at fault. If one cheated on the other, then one day it will come back at them. Whoever has bad intentions, it will one day come back at them as well… THis applies to everyone. I just hope that they stop talking about Raymond and Mavis soon because I am getting sick of seeing news about it. I think it will last awhile just like the whole case with Gigi Leung, Maggie Siu and Ekin Cheng back then.. I remembered how nasty that was… Time heals all pain so this whole thing will die down with time…

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    11. hailee says:

      wow after all of this i have to say that ray can stop acting now…its over or just starting however you want to look at it…be a man…wth is with the tears no need for that…man up and own up to what you did…if you didnt do it then take the high road and shut up itll just make her look dumb…instead you are just making her look good…which i hate to say it but im really beginning to feel that she must of loved him more and that he led her on to believe that he had the same feeling toward her…instead he was probably cheating on her with others…sheesh what a man…and then im pretty sure all his friends in the industry will back him up…well y not cuz im pretty sure most of them are cheaters and playa also…smh…

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      • hailee replied:

        and seriously theres more to this relationship then meets the eyes…i cant wait to hear more about it and see ray cry even more…unless he finally grow some balls and grow up…oh gosh i hope tat sex tape doesnt show his balls…hahah…but nah i highly doubt if hes stupid enuf to have one…but then again once you in the heat of moment anything goes i guess…

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        • YanYanKong replied:

          Why would couples take videos of them having sex? Like their gonna keep it for a record to watch later? Would they even wanna watch it back later? What’s the purpose of recording it?
          I don’t beleive there is a video like that though.And if there is, Please don’t show it to me.

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        • Funn Lim replied:

          Exactly the same reasons why husbands would film their wives giving birth? Not like they will show their friends.

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    12. Andie says:

      He should have forward and said “I lied to my fans. I want my fans to idolize me because of my good naive innocent image. I cheated on my girlfriend because I’m a player. I’m a man and I have desire.” Then he continued on crying.

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    13. Jayne says:

      Raymond emotional response and apology is causing people to doubt whether he did in fact cheat. Why are we jumping to such quick conclusions? In last week’s Next Magazine article, Mavis claimed that she found “flirtatious messages” on Raymond’s cell phone. We don’t know if the flirting was from the woman or if Raymond instigated it. Anyhow, Mavis said that it was more of a misunderstanding at the time. However, the “dog play dates” with Rose Chan seem to coincide with Mavis’ story from last week. If anything, Raymond’s relationship with Rose seems more like flirtation than real cheating. If cheating, would he invite the dogs over to make noise and provide for distraction? Common on….

      Raymond’s apology can be interpreted in different ways. Perhaps him never asking for clear break-up, placing his career as first priority over their love relationship, his father objecting to Mavis and letting her know it, did not fulfill the promise of getting married in 2 years, never returning her calls since outbreak of scandal etc. etc. were all actions that have hurt Mavis. Perhaps Raymond is apologizing for the above actions? It does not signify that he cheated.

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    14. jayzemine says:

      Oh my gosh, will this ever stop? I feel for Raymond but let it be a lesson learned regardless of who wronged who and move-on. They each got what they needed from each other, what will revenge do? Instant gratification but in time, people will forget and move-on. I guess Raymond will steer clear of DDD from now on.

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    15. jayzemine says:

      I just want to add that I am still pro Raymond despite the unmanliness in him, but what I can’t understand is if you once love somebody why would you want to hurt them so bad when things end, just cherish the moment and the time spent together, so Mavis honey, move-on!

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    16. Funn Lim says:

      Did he say there’s a tape involved? He didn’t seem to deny it. And he really cried?? Come on Ray, be a man. Such small incident, crying that way. If it was Edison-gate like exposure, what then?

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    17. Kylie says:

      OMG, please stop crying. You make me hate you more. Be A Man plzzzz!!!!!!!

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        I don’t find anything wrong with a guy crying so I don’t understand why everyone is so against him crying. I personally like emotional guys to some extent because they are not afraid to express their feelings.

        I am not a big fan of Raymond and am not sure if he cheated or not, but do commend him for not saying anything really negative about Mavis to the press. While Mavis, on the other hand, is constantly calling him a cheater and all.. I don’t their relationship was the healthy if all he did was flirt but she called it cheating… Their lack of communication is a big no no for a healthy relationship.

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    18. Yee says:

      Just go away. This is wasting Internet space, be a man, get over it. It was all good when he said he would stop replying an now he brought it back up…geezz and would he stop crying… Holy shit at first it showed he was sensitive and all now it’s just shows that he has no balls what so ever…this is conning from a huge a ray lam fan… Geez get over yourself.

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    19. Sidney says:

      I wonder if his (fake) crying is a tactic. I remember when Tiger Woods cheated on his wife and issued a televised apology, he was crying as well. Since Raymond had his manager and people by his side, while Tiger had his mom and others, it kinda remind me of Tiger’s apology.

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      • Mel replied:

        Tigerwood is a husband of someone but Ray’s is just a bf to Mavis. Is not consider cheating or any tactics..

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        • rei replied:

          If you are a BF/GF that have sex together often and sleeps together at the same bed. Your in a deeper relationship like a marriage so while in a relationship with such actions together you shouldn’t flirt or even sleep with other women that’s cheating. Nobody likes the feeling of being cheated on…maybe that’s why she wanted to use the media to tear Ray apart and to gain fame at the same time.

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      • Mel replied:

        I more than agree with Ray’s responds. If you love him, you will not exposed these private photos..Hate you cheapskates..

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        • Sidney replied:

          I see your point. Actually, I was referring to his approach of handling/responding to the situation.

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    20. Ah K says:

      Feel so sad when relationships end up like this, that’s what happens when celebrities are put under the scrutiny of the eyes of the public.

      Sighs, I guess there’s no right or wrong when it comes to relationships but honestly, as a bystander, why do I get the feelin’ that Mavis seems intent on ruining Raymond’s carefully-carved out reputation (or maybe ousting all his mis-deeds)?

      When a relationship has ended, there is seriously no need for so much animosity, wouldn’t it be better to take the high road and graciously let it go?

      Wouldn’t it be better to be known as the generous forgiving ex than a scorned and vicious ex? :S

      But honestly, if there’s really a sex video of him, Raymond can really kiss his heavily-guarded image goodbye, don’t know what actually happened between them, but Raymond should really have a cuppa and sit down to have a good talk with Mavis (especially since things have escalated to such a mess), given Ms Virginia Lok’s standing in the entertainment industry, it isn’t hard to get Mavis’ handler’s contact details to arrange a meeting for Raymond and Mavis to talk it out.

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    21. Aly says:

      OMG, is that Virginia Lok in the back right of the pic covering her mouth in gasp when Ray cried? She must be thinking “Oh no! There goes his manly image! ”
      Anyhow, this incident has gotten out of hand. Everything is just hearsay, so we do not know who to believe and how much of it to believe. But, I think each of them in some ways handled the relationship improperly to lead to where this relationship has gone to today. They are both at fault, so I don’t think anyone of them is considered the victim. Ray did something during the relationship that made Mavis upset, whether it was truly him cheating during the relationship, not handling the pressure from his family or friends well, or not breaking up with her directly and leaving her hanging. He probably not handle something during the relationship properly. And Mavis, on the other hand, did not handle herself appropriately either. It is very possible that she leaked the pics of them together, therefore bringing their whole relationship to light, and the fact that she had to share such private details on their relationship and making it so transparent, it makes her seem like she was only using him to gain popularity. At this point, as Ray had mentioned, if it really was true love between them, they probably would not be at this point now.

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    22. Fox says:

      I’m now wonder if some of you chase by media 24/7 in more than a month, how will you react? Have any suggestion?

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      • Fox replied:

        In addition, I’m anti “Boys don’t cry”. Anyone have the right to feel down, upset and cry, girl or guy. When you were born, if you can’t cry, you’ll die, so admit that “Boys don’t cry” is just stupid.

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        • rei replied:

          I like it when a man cry because his mom/dad/siblings died but for Mavis and this. Common…

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        • Fox replied:

          Have you ever been betrayed by friend or anyone who close to you, rei? I was and I’m sure that it’s bitter.

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        • Darren replied:

          you guys need to listen to Andy Lau’s song. 男人哭吧不是罪 !!!!1

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        • Melody replied:

          @Fox

          I agree with you.

          I find it amusing where so many comments are saying Ray cried and ask him to be a man. Heck, he didnt bawl like a baby. The tears slowly welled up in his eyes and at most a few drops rolled down his cheeks which wasnt captured on the interview.

          I actually want to know if your bf/husband cheats on you and ask for forgiveness whilst crying, are the commentors who hated his crying gonna tell your loved one, “Be a MAN.” I seriously doubt so, since most girls I know felt touched and moved when their bf/husband cried. The tears people have when it comes to betrayal and the death of a person is different.

          Hence why the double standard? Just becos he is on camera and he is a celebrity, he should be void of emotions and stay strong?

          Regardless whether he cheated, it is not right for Mavis to do what she did. Ray is facing immense pressure becos of the publicity the media has shown on this relationship.

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        • Funn Lim replied:

          Because crying is so dramatic and it didn’t help gillian chung and it will not help Ray. And if he did cheated on her, I think he deserves this comeuppance. If he did not, maybe this is lesson learned; be more discreet, maybe put personality before looks.

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        • Fox replied:

          @ Melody: I bet that if he goes out and laughs, he’ll be considered as a player.

          Being human is hard. There are many ways to interpret your action. Being celeb is more hard, everyone will look at you and judge you. That’s why I never want to be a celeb or marry a celeb :).

          Cry when someone die is different. I know a lot of guys cry when reading books or watching movie or news. And “shed a tear” is different to cry like a baby.

          However, someone like men to fake their emotions. Be straightforward to your emotions, keep everything will make you tired. If wants to cry then cry. Human is presented “tears” to cry, not to hide it.

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        • Kidd replied:

          怎麼天生不是女人
          怎麼不可讓唇邊有淚痕
          即使傷心怎麼可需你擔心

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        • Kidd replied:

          Raymond should sing this song.

          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGaVjQPvpL0

          Very apt for this discussion. 😀

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        • HeTieShou replied:

          @Fox,
          Totally agree with you and I don’t find anything wrong with a guy crying. For Ray to cry in a time like this is appropriate. I mean, he was hurt by he is ex so there is nothing wrong with him crying…

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        • SDS replied:

          @Darren

          But we all know Andy Lau openly lies… how can we trust the lyrics of his songs 🙂

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      • Lol replied:

        Is that why you’re a fox? So you can run away? Lol

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        • Fox replied:

          Yes, you are right. Being human is so hard.

          Lol, do you have to Lol on everything.

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        • sure-lee replied:

          LOOOL, you guys are funny 😛

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      • M or R replied:

        do you know what is opportunity cost? he wannna be famous, so has to be accept paparazzi.
        men can cry, but not in this kind of situation

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      • Lol replied:

        Yes, like you said life is tough so lol helps. You should try it…way better than running.

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    23. jim says:

      ray, dont cry, we all still suport you. you always be my idol, love you forever.i dont think is bad for you, this only for make you more strong.

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    24. jim says:

      ray, dont cry , we all suport you, and love you forever until old. i hope this incident make you more strong, and i belive you , you no this men.

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    25. Lol says:

      Crying? Really? Can you be anymore fake? Raymond lam is as real as Mavis’s breasts lol

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      • yuaida replied:

        I heard before that lots of parts of his fake such as nose and chin and etc. are fake too.

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    26. rei says:

      Clips of Mavis and Ray responding to the incident.

      http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/bBI_CMUmaL4/

      http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/Cc52z7-nQ0Y/

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    27. rei says:

      LOL this clip is funny with the animation. Take a look!

      http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/3s0r9uTh_Pc/

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    28. Luisa says:

      If he had dated Linda Chung or Charmaine, this wouldn’t have happened. Hope he he’d learned his lesson

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      • sehseh replied:

        Don’t drag Linda and Charmaine into this please.

        p.s. No matter who and when he dated, there’s no guarantee what will happen anyway.

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    29. MichelleWong says:

      Loser Raymond never like him

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    30. Macy says:

      林峯我何時何地都撐你!

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    31. cheerios says:

      man, the story is getting so interesting! I understand both parties’ responses to the break up, so I don’t know which side to take! Mavis is the “human” one, full of emotional responses, so it’s understandable that she’s still bitter. I’m sure some of you felt bitter about a breakup before, but never got the guts to showed it like Mavis is doing right now! Giving her props for her guts but she’s also being amoral ;d

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    32. Kean says:

      Raymond fans are so naive. U seriously think he is the victim here? Anybody who thinks actors have clean cut images are totally dumb and naive. Resorting to crying in public to try to gain public sympathy. How pathetic is that! Be a man, own up to ur promiscuity, #$*hole!

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      • Fox replied:

        You are so naive. Cute.

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      • Melody replied:

        U made me laugh with your comment! How “innocent” can people in the entertainment industry be?!

        His crying didnt make me sympathize with him either, but then again u’ve never cried over a failed relationship before?

        People who sympathise him doesnt mean they support him get it? I support him for his works not his personal life!

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    33. jim says:

      no, his fans no naiv. you one is naiv, we all want giving all suport for ray, i belive ray can be more strong after this.

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    34. moonriver says:

      Wouldn’t Virginia Lok have told Ray to shut up and stop responding to the reporters’ questions?? I’m surprised at how Ray is handling the whole incident as though he doesn’t have a PR manager or veterans in the industry to seek advice from.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        I have a feeling it may have been virginia lok mishandling the situation.

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        • yam replied:

          Virginia Lok never give me a sincere impression towards her care to Raymond, she mostly defend her own reputation, and not Raymond’s. Virginia lok just watching the saga also and while beside Raymond, she already thinking of which guys to promote in his place. she is sticking close to him and picking about him so she can advise her true favorite how to be multi star. she is already thinking of promoting Bosco in his place, arranging for him film opportunities that is initially slated for Raymond.

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        • yam replied:

          when i say picking, i mean it as picking up on what he did in work, its about seeing what the other guys need to do to rise up too.

          her favorite has always been Bosco Wong, they have the closest relationship.

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        • Melody replied:

          Sometimes I think she promotes Ray cos they know of his market value and he’s so popular with a huge fan base.

          Ray is definitely not her fav.

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        • crip replied:

          they should get Stephen Chan out here. Virginia Lok = epic fail. get her only if you want your image incinerated for good.

          paparazzis camped outside Stephen’s home about to shred him to pieces, they were that hungry waiting for a couple of days. they were ready to write as much crap about him as possible yet ppl still respected Mr. Chan for the way he handled his scandal because he did it with dignity and was unafraid. he was about to go to jail for pete’s sake for 10++ yrs, thats some heavy and depressing $hit. Stephen Chan didn’t go cry to the press, instead he found peace with himself and willing to brave it, this he got through it. pro man!

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        • Chriselle replied:

          @crip Good point in bringing up how Stephen Chan dealt with his incident, but I don’t think Raymond’s situation is nearly as serious as his. Stephen’s involved illegal matters and the court, but Raymond’s situation is rather trivial and it’s becoming a bit ridiculous and stupid everyday. Raymond’s image might be a affected a bit right now, it I believe it will be forgotten once all this dies down.

          Speaking of Stephen Chan and since he is back with TVB, I really hope he continues with his Be My Guest show. 🙂

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        • crip replied:

          i brought it up because i also thought Stephen got it much worse, while Raymond’s is trivial but his team is making it like life and death situation but still cannot handle it properly.

          yes, they should bring Stephen’s show back, then Raymond can be the next Be My Guest star, tell his side of the story again and get ratings for TVB instead of wasting it on the outside. win-win!

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    35. Loekie says:

      @Raymond Lam:

      Aaaahhh…..Poor Ray, Stop crying ok? You are so really a victim. You make your statement to crying on the camera’s. Come to mammy! Come ray, come to mammy, come to me cry!!!! Poor you….

      If you finish with crying, would you please go back to work, shut your mouth and do your things!

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    36. HeTieShou says:

      For some odd reason I am starting to feel as if Mavis is sort of similar to HeHongYao, but there are differences too..

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    37. anya says:

      I can’t wait to see what coming next

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    38. Lol says:

      Tvb should turn this into a reality show.

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      • Chriselle replied:

        @lol And it would probably be more interesting than all their lame scripts these days. 😉 But I don’t recall TVB produces much reality shows???

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    39. Veejay says:

      I wanna say something to Mavis Pan… If you think you can bind and keep Ray from other women just for yourself with your Plastic Silicone Boobs then you’re wrong because all men are the same…they thinks with their d!cks…to them..all women are the same..the only different are probably how they handle things in bed 😛

      Mavis Pan needs to shut her trap already, things already escalated to a rather ugly situation where public starting to label her as “trouble maker” or “attention seeker” or something cheap or worse? mavis cannot even be categorizes as a dignity woman with her low approach in handling relationship.

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    40. yam says:

      Mavis still cannot let go because Raymond refuse to talk to her. so she is going to press to say she doesn’t understand and never thought of separating from him. i can tell she is reminiscing in her talks of their relationship as if it never ended(thus still wanting it to reach to him, wearing the things he gave her, talk about their times together and who was in the way, she want to show him what they been through. she never thought of separating from him) they need to meet and talk, Raymond to officially set the record straight with her, say sorry that he didn’t end it properly, or it would never stop. the misunderstanding will just go deeper and the girl will just start imagining more things and go berserk thinking Raymond did her wrong.

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      • Chriselle replied:

        @yam I agree about her still missing him and reminiscing about their past, thus she couldn’t let go because they probably never had a clean breakup. Who really knows if they did?

        I do believe it’s better if Raymond just go speak with her and work things so he wouldn’t have to see a new surprise (aka shock) at the headlines every week. There is nothing wrong with a guy crying and we’re all humans so we feel all sorts of emotions. Personally, I feel that the only way for this to stop is if he go talk with her and end things personally instead of using the media to retaliate with Raymond on the receiving end. It’s really doing nothing good to their reputation. Personally, I no longer care who is right and who’s wrong because the situation has developed to the point where it’s so difficult to depict. I believe both parties were wrong at a certain point. On fact: both are not good at dealing with these situations. Is Raymond being too passive if he isn’t willing to deal with her personally?

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      • Kidd replied:

        I agree with you. Maybe if Raymond return her sms and actually has a face to face talk with her, she wouldn’t make the issue this big.

        Raymond and Mavis both confirmed that Raymond did not return her sms when the first batch of pictures came out.

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        • Fox replied:

          Actually I doubt that she will stop if he sent her SMS or talk with her face to face. If she only needs that, she didn’t sell the pictures to Next exclusively.

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        • omg replied:

          fox, you “doubt”? but do you really KNOW it won’t work? unless he attempts it.

          guess its really hard just to properly give the woman some closure? something a man with any responsibility and integrity would of done for this woman.

          i feel that someone is being thick to the most obvious of solutions.

          i really commend the rest of the ppl here for bothering to bring reason in, it just gets lost when speaking to the sea of Neantherdals. whoops sorry.

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        • Fox replied:

          I don’t know, I’m guessing. Just like you guys.

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      • Fox replied:

        I’ve just thought of this: Wat if he calls her and she records the conversation and then gives it to the reporters? It’ll cause more troubles.

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        • Fox replied:

          Addition: He can control wat he plans to tell her but can’t control wat she plans to tell him and the conversation might be edit for a purpose.

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        • lord replied:

          you guys are worried about the conversation being sold when we have heard or seen worst these few weeks? well guess what, it doesn’t matter! Raymond is still going to the press, telling it to them when he could be saying it to Mavis privately instead. if he and fans are worried about it being edited, Raymond can record his own copy. this is about the settlement between two ppl. if Mavis hears Raymond’s voice speaking to her and not through the press, she would not continue it further because she is human, she will form a connection and not see the stranger that has appeared and talked about her these past few weeks through reporters.

          many of you dont want him to talk to her but that hasn’t worked so why not try something new? where is the harm?! do you just not like hearing any other suggestions aside from your own? this isn’t about who is right. we all want it to stop. these past weeks have escalated because they dont want to have a private conversation, they pour all their grief to the press instead. anyone who understands the human psyche will get this. this is sound advice that psychologists will also give them both, to speak with one another and come to terms. some ppl oppose this idea because they want to defend Raymond for not doing so or they see it as a personal attack on their own opinion when its not about anyone is particular. just try to look at it differently. dont think everybody is trying to harm you or your actor.

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      • Melody replied:

        The way this whole saga escalates, I dun think Raymond needs to contact her already since it’ll probably make things worse.

        Some of the clips by Apple Daily had her crying on the phone with the reporter though it didnt quite sound like her voice.

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    41. yam says:

      he should not use the press as the middle man. thus the two let media make a farce out of them, taking turns each to talk way too much just for the sake of sympathy, it will just have ppl saying “they are one of a kind, explains why they were together.” they need to stop being bitter and selfish and solve it like real adults.

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    42. jim says:

      hope ray feels better after this. we will support you, we love who you are. we all might see him differently after this but we will never walk away from him.

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    43. SDS says:

      This has to be the work of karma! Raymond Lam is just coping what he deserves because of all the atrocities his ancestors (or him possibly) committed during WWII which he failed to own up and still does not admit to them despite being so young, rich, famous and multi-talented. Shame on him! Now karma has caught up with him in an incredibly curvaceous silicony type form. Now that’s some sexy karma! Good thing karma’s a woman too, otherwise Raymond would have a hard time explaining to the media why he’d taking cutesy photos with a man…

      Karma works in such mysterious ways 🙂

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      • Fox replied:

        It’s so funny.

        In addition, his grandfather is a general.

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      • Melody replied:

        WWII again??! Duhz. If its karma, why didnt a bomb drop on him and kill him instead?

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        • SDS replied:

          A bomb did drop on him. It was the ‘sex bomb’. It just didn’t kill him instantly. But it sure is killing him softly ughhh slowly 🙂

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    44. jim says:

      hope that someone will throw food at her face one day.poor ray, he seems so down. add oil ray, we will always be supporting you.

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    45. tirah says:

      i really hate her name

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    46. jim says:

      mavis, please stop all this, whether did ray hurt you last time, it doesnt matter. what is over is the past. stop doing all this sinful stuff. whatever is ith he is still your ex boyfriend.no one else can hurt you anymore because we, fans are here to love and support you till the full

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    47. jim says:

      ray stay strong and defeat all the negative press,through your hard work. you can do it.

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    48. jim says:

      many people dont really have any pity for ray now, because of this tears. he hasnt denied about sex video thing, so the reporters are making the news even bigger. it seem like ray is actually showing that he hurted mavis, he tasting her revenge now.

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    49. jim says:

      ray isnt that type of person either. he worked through so many tough years to get all this success, and one dirty liar ruins everything. im like so angry now, why is she trying to ruin ray image. he worked so hard for it. cant you guys see that he even admitted to the hospital .

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    50. jim says:

      even if he done something wrong , HE IS A GUY, HE DESERVES SEXUAL LIFE. ON TOP OF THAT HE IS GUY, HE HAVE NO LOST. IT IS BETTER THAT WE WAKE UP AND WE READ NEW ABOUT HIM AND A GIRL.

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