Ali Lee on When is a Good Time to Get Married
Though Ali Lee (李佳芯) has dated ViuTv host Danny Chan (陳炳銓) for six years and they are currently living together, the couple is not yet ready for marriage. Sharing thoughts on when she thinks is a good time to get married, Ali said, “Love can sometimes be fragile, but it also takes time to know if a person is right for you. In the end, dating and getting married are two different things. Both of which require time and fate.”
Thoughts on Dating and Marriage
With news that the couple bought a property together, many thought that they are looking to settle down. Responding to the rumors, Ali said, “Buying a property is something I’ve always wanted to do, but property prices are still not falling. It will depend on fate. In my heart, it takes fate to buy property and get married. Buying a property depends on money and work. Love depends on the accumulation of hard work.”
When asked when she will get married, Ali responded, “Marriage is actually an impulse. During dating, there can still be two separate individuals as they walk together to help each other grow and appreciate each other. The idea of a marriage is whether two people are willing to lose some of their habits. It’s no longer two separate people, but two people who have to put aside a part of themselves and become one. That’s the difference to dating.”
Ali added, “It is not easy in this era. Everyone will have their own ideas, requirements, and vision. Two people will have to let go of themselves. Other than fate, I can’t think what else is needed. Maybe it’s a blessing.”
While Ali wants to keep her relationship private, her status as a public figure makes it difficult, so she has found a new way to handle the attention on her personal life. “When I was young, I also wanted to know about celebrities’ lives. When there are gossips, I would want to know too. I can put myself in that position and understand it. The media would write juicy gossip. They are curious and want to pry into your personal life. I try to understand this while finding a balance.”
This article is written by Sammi for JayneStars.com.