Jessica Hsuan’s Boyfriend Already Met Her Parents
Recently revealing that she is dating an Italian man, Jessica Hsuan’s (宣萱) new romance is progressing quickly. In their dating relationship over the last few months, Jessica has been happily discovering Fran‘s positive traits. At an animal charity event today, Jessica revealed that Fran has already met with her parents over dinner.
Jessica complimented Fran’s great personality – stating that she especially admires his patient and easygoing attitude. Like Jessica, Fran is also an animal lover. Although still in the honeymoon phase in their relationship, Jessica indicated that she wants to take things slow, and will not be accompanying Fran on his vacation to Italy this summer.
Despite their compatibility, Jessica said that she will need at least a year to get to know a person thoroughly. However, Fran has already met Jessica’s good friend, TVB producer Tommy Leung (梁家樹), as well as her parents. Jessica said, “When we were eating, we saw Tommy and he looked over my boyfriend using a father’s point of view. However, he didn’t make comments. He also had dinner with my parents. My parents have given up [forcing] me to get married. They are more interested in grandchildren now!”
Although she is 43-years-old, Jessica is not in a rush to have children, and wants to ensure she has the perfect partner before doing so. When she is certain in finding the right person, she hopes to have at least two children in the future.
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This article is written by Su for JayneStars.com.
…”Although she is 43-years-old, Jessica is not in a rush to have children, and wants to ensure she has the perfect partner before doing so……”
Unfortunately, children don’t just pop out when you say that you’re ready for them. what more at her age.
She’s 43.
Short and sharp.
She might be 43 but she doesn’t look her age as compare to some westerners. if you know what’s I’m talking here.
Actually, i always thought even when younger that Hsuan Huen was one of those who LOOKED older than her age.
Just give her another 8 months to a year of this relationship when the white guy gets tired of sex with her……then, it will be off to the next white guy……
If that’s the case she will learn her lesson less than a year. Yup men are selfish especially white guy. Once she crosses the border it’s harder to go back because it’s considered used. 😀 🙁 LOL!
Exactly right on the point “Kiwi”……….finally, someone who knows what the term “used goods” means…..hahaha……..
Well I’ve seen women in their mid 40s having children. It could happen, natural or IVF, or even adoption. It could happen. We are living in the 21st century.
i understd yr point but natural conception gets more and more difficult as a woman ages. It’s a fact. Even assisted reproduction is not 100% guaranteed. Adoption is a totally different story.
Yes possible with modern medical technology, but what’s the point though?
If it’s just HER wanting a child, in a way – from the child pt of view – it’s somewhat selfish.
How many quality years left for parenting past 45? Some women already have teen children graduating university in their late 40s. She will be 63 when the kid graduates from high school.
There’s nothing wrong with having a kid who graduates from high school while you’re in your 60s. As long as you’re there for them and providing for them to the legal age, that’s good enough. Kids are supposed to be independent by 18 anyway. Plenty of grandparents supporting their grandchildren when parents aren’t around, same thing.
Check his marriage status first. Many Westerners usually have different wives gf / bf in Philippines, in Thai,in Italy a legal wife but have already separated OR even he can not have re-marriage status. also, his debt ,too
Jessica really heading into the same path as Gigi Leung, Coco Lee & Karen Mok. What are the greatest things of an interracial marriage? One of it…your child could be bright and clever.
huh????????
Caucasian/non asian men are most of the time more gentleman than chinese men. When they love you, they show and mean it, they put you first before themselves, they think that doing laundry and cooking for the family/wife is an honour and relaxing to their minds after a day’s of working. Chinese men won’t do those kind of ‘women’s’ jobs
If you’re a woman, I hope you will never get to marry a Chinese man. We won’t want you anywhere near us by a 10 feet pole.
If you’re a man, and I very much doubt so, You’re a disgrace to Asian men.
Yours is a generalised statement borned out of ignorance, prejudice and racism.
To wooo,
I hope you dont mind I share my viewpoint. It’s not entirely right, it’s really has nothing to do with the race but their family’s upbringing.
Not all caucasian men help with housework etc. Yes, I would agree that in certain way they might be more gentleman than some chinese but then again it really varies from person to person.
If you’re talking about chinese men like my father’s time, yes, they dont lift a finger, but if you were to ask me these days almost all chinese men (younger generations) helping out in some ways like feed the baby example.
I was brought up in a family where boys dont come to the kitchen, housework nor help with the baby etc. I actually dont mind. It’s more of a stereotype thinking of yours.
“they think that doing laundry and cooking for the family/wife is an honour and relaxing to their minds after a day’s of working”
😀 Hahahahaha, delusional much?
Male chauvinism was practically invented by Westerners. Hoooo..
I think you need to watch more crime and investigation shows/ documentary on YouTube to broaden your knowledge on different male nationalities. The rate of Caucasians/ non-Asian males murdering their girlfriends/ wives/ partners are so high.
@Eve,
Hmm.. sounds like caucasians/non-Asian males love f–king with a passion & then, also f–king kill you with a passion. Only thing is, there’s no Round 2 for the latter stage.
Btw, domestic abuse in white families is a prevalent problem in many ‘first-world’, Western countries, it’s been a major epidemic for decades. There’re literally tons of Governmental initiatives to try to address that. Ah, white/caucasian worshippers don’t want to believe facts. Unfortunately. lol
Nothing to do with race.. everything to do with upbringing.
@happybi,
Maybe you’d write to Hollywood to tell them that….So much for the ‘superior’ white culture. 😉
Ms Woo,
Continue to eat up more western media and believe white men are the perfect men. Contrary to popular belief (sarcasm) white men are the same as every other man including Asians, Latino, Black, Alien, etc. I associate with all types of people and ethnicities and I can tell you from the white friends I know not all of them are like what you described; but don’t let that stop you from fantasizing further! By all means continue with your dreaming.
“Caucasian/non asian men are most of the time more gentleman than chinese men. When they love you, they show and mean it, they put you first before themselves, they think that doing laundry and cooking for the family/wife is an honour and relaxing to their minds after a day’s of working. Chinese men won’t do those kind of ‘women’s’ jobs”
White men are two head snake. When they love you, it’s for your money or what you can bring to their easy life style. Some Chinese men are stubborn and some are not. The not stubborn ones can be trained and usually end up marrying their mother because they are babies that needed to be breast fed. 😀 🙁 LOL!
“Some Chinese men are stubborn”
Forget the stubborn men, don’t need an uncooperative partner.
Agreed! 😀 🙁 LOL!
Lotus must either be a ‘not so clever’ Asian, or think highly of his / her own intellect by virtue of being mixed blood.
Either way, you have no EQ, however low or high your God forsaken IQ is. LOLOLOLOL
@ lotus: HAHHAHHAHAHAH…my nieces and nephews are half white, they are dumb as heck.
Generalization.. but it doesn’t help that one parent probably pandered to the other alot more due to race. Such’re not healthy relationships. I’ve yet to encounter any 1st gen mixed kids worthy of any scholarly or intellectual note, unfortunately. Upbringing, genetics or both? I suppose the standard of one parent’s likely to be lower than average, and wasn’t able to attract mates of their own ethnic/cultural background to settle down with.
I always admired Jessica Hsuan. This is a pretty picture.
Just hope she is not so ‘easy’ as in staying overnight in a hotel room with an American black guy recently even when they’re on the honeymoon stage, ie. 1st phase of love. Like she is now with this Italian.
The whites have been surpressing Chinese men and keeping Asia poor for 200 years…and stealing all Asian women. No white has ever done something good in Asia. Only discriminating, behaving violent and stealing women.
To Sveve Gothaf,
I would like to say that some asian women like caucasian. They feel they’re better, maybe they dont mind spend and enjoy especially at workplace the expatriate. A lot of asian women think that these men are rich, just because they’re expats.
Amazing how their own ancestors were raped, shot, robbed from & murdered & the history books don’t even need to hide it yet these East Asian sellouts’d rather choose to be blind & stupid & to miscegenate.
Then again, you’ve Hollywood to thank for this overriding silliness. The West is so rich & superior, which is why China & Japan are their biggest creditor, bar-none. lol
Chinese did not rape/shoot/murder other asians? lol
Japanese did not rape/shoot/murder other asians? lol
Go hate yourself.
@Nicole,
Firstly, we’re talking about interracial problems right now. Relevance, dear.
Secondly, historical & present day facts continue to show that caucasians/Westerners have an unprecedented penchant for raping/stealing from/killing non-white races.
Thirdly, try to keep up, okay? lolz
You are the one trying to make it into an interracial issue, when our own ethnicity do the same crap to themselves and other asian ethnicities.
What can I say? Another chinese man outraged that women of his own ethnicity do not fancy him?
Good luck to you! lol
@Nicole
Ah-huh.
◔_◔
Advice from Another Asian Man to Another (You’re Asian right?)
If you want a girl, go out and find one. No one is stealing your women. How about you grow some balls, dress properly, go out, and find a woman. Your generalizations are just as ignorant as some Asian women who only adore white men.
Finally, a secure sensible man who can think clearly. Good for you ‘What?’ 🙂
So happy for Jessica!! =) Hope this guy is the one for her!! =D
Me too, hope the herpes is worth it.
She was reportedly very happy with that Caucasian vet ex-boyfriend, and next thing … they broke up.
Since Jessica is more westernized, it’s not surprising at all that she would date a Caucasian man. As long as they are happy that’s all that matters.
At 43, you better be in a rush to have children! I hope she froze her eggs or something!
If she were so “westernized” and fancy everything from the West, why didn’t she emigrate?
At the other end of the spectrum, Canadian actress like Christy Chung is considered to be “easternized” then?
comments are dark and full of racism…
Exactly! It seems like some people have nothing better to do except for negatively judging other people’s life choices. She is happy and that should be it. I wish these people would have the balls to say these things in real life.
Yes these comments are very dark and filled with racism. Whenever there is an article about a Chinese man or woman dating a non Chinese, the thread usually have such comments.
We can easily see the faults of others through our racist thinking, but never see our own mistakes. What I mean to say is, Chinese men beat, rape and kill their own women too. It happens in all cultures. I live in Canada and whenever a black or aboriginal goes into a chinese store, the Chinese will follow them or ask someone in mandarin or cantonese to keep an eye on them. The white man suppress the Chinese, the Chinese suppress the blacks, the aboriginals the Latinos, so the suppressive, vicious cycle continues. I see and hear all the crap that Chinese do and say to / and about the people with darker skin than theirs. I also know there are wonderful Chinese out there, just as there are wonderful people from all cultures.
Let Jessica be happy with who ever she chooses. We are not living in the dark days. Just as people say that love has no gender restriction, as inreference to two men or two women loving each other, why should love have color or race restriction????????. Let us not be ignorant or racist here.
@Rain
What do you mean by you wish these people would have the balls to say these things in real life???>
News flash for you. This is real life right here. This is hostile racism right here. This is how Chinese and Asian people feel about other races right here.
Or maybe, the bubble is so deep in delusion that even comments are deemed part of the bubble gum fantasy that Asians live in???,NO?.
I think she means, that she hopes these people have the balls to say them in real life, so they can get their asses handed to them.
This is how Chinese and Asian people feel about other races right here.
No, it’s how Chinese and Asian men feel about other races right here. Of course, it’s not all asian men, but still a significant part of our numbers. Now, do asian women really need to make any excuses for dating other races?
It happens everywhere. It’s in the mindset and you have to let it happen before anyone can say anything or do anything. Basic again, you have to know right from wrong. Who gives a sh!t if it’s white or Asian. We are all human being but underneath we are not the same. 😀 🙁 LOL!
“My responses are limited and so are my patience, you must ask the right question.”
😀 🙁 LOL!
Good for Jessica Hsuan. Glad to hear that her relationship with Fran is progressing nicely. Women definitely should not restrict themselves to dating only within their own society, especially if it is a female-suppressive one. I could care less if he is purple/green/whatever. haha 🙂
Happy for her!
@nICOLE
No, Asian women do not need an excuse to date other races.
I assume that @RAIN was trying to say they should have enough balls to say these racist things to Jessica’s face, or her boyfriend’s face. That is all I can assume, cause what was said here is how these people feel, and it is real life.
they are just keyboard warriors who don’t have the guts to do anything beyond the occasional internet raging.
You can even see them slinking off the internet. Where did they and their opinions disappear to when people started calling them out on it? Haha
I do believe it’s called an opinion. Alot of these opinions’ve been based on the observation of a playing field that has been subverted by westerners & their propaganda machine, & sustained by the white privilege mentality. Both very well-researched topics in academia, I assure you. Here’s a little secret, any sort of privilege cannot persist without someone condoning it. Why does white privilege exist? Because the other non-white races allow it in deed and thought.
Just want to share what I observe. I would agree that caucasian are not so choosy of women of any age group.
I dont really feel Jessica is going all out for caucasian men, but we’ve to understand sometimes it’s not easy to meet an asian who accepts woman once she hits 40 & above.
If you ask me to quote a celebrity that is all out for caucasian then I would quote Maggie Cheung Man Yoke. She seems to worship the white men and looks down on asian forgetting that she’s also one.
Do you care to elaborate on why Maggie and Jessica are different? Or is that just a sweeping statement?
Hi lol,
Of course I dont mind elaborate what I know, Maggie Cheung married a french guy, divorced and she started dating all caucasian men.
Few factors I see.
Her age, not all asian men are comfortable with a woman 40 & above
On top of that she’s successful and famous. Put it this way, I would say majority of the asian men out there would prefer someone younger. Those around Maggie Cheung’s age are the same, they would prefer someone younger. But caucasian men like I wrote earlier usually dont mind.
Furthermore Maggie Cheung finds asian men not up to her standard which I read it somewhere. That’s why she’s only dating caucasian men and no asian men.
I’m late 30s now, I know some caucasian men like asian girls, if I like caucasian men I know I still stand a chance because they honestly dont mind your age (most of them I would say), to the fact that if you’re older then them, if they like you that’s it.
Especially if you’re a divorcee with children. This will put most asian men off, they look at it as baggage. I know there are some men out there that dont mind, but I would say majority minds.
@bloom
Did Maggie Cheung really say that on the record? Wow! That would be a classic example of internecine racism. But then, because the target was Asian men, she probably had gotten away with it unscathed.
Imagine if a black female celebrity says the same thing about black males…..
It’s all to do with mindsets.
Even among immigrants in the West. You can see those kids who were brought up totally Asianised and only hang around the bubble tea crowd, speaking their own language/ I doubt they have much in common with Westerners, and would want to marry one.
On the other end, there are those completely white washed who cannot see themselves with Asian partners, unless they’re just as white washed.
All to do with values, perspectives and mindsets.
IF I am not mistaken Jessica Hsuan Heun is from UK.
Ditto Maggie Cheung – just look at her dress sense … how many Chinese men would be able to rock her look as her partner, and with confidence?
‘Ditto Maggie Cheung – just look at her dress sense … how many Chinese men would be able to rock her look as her partner, and with confidence?’
Patrick Tze!
LOL!!!
So if a girl mixes around with lesbians does it mean she will have more propensity to be a lesbian or date women?
Come on! It is love. She met someone she can have conversation with, like meeting of the minds whatever the colour and so happens it is this guy. yes some do have preference, some white men like black women, some tall women like short men, like rich men, women with big breasts, etc etc etc. So? Does it negate this relationship between 2 consenting adults of similar age range? Who probably likes the same wine?
It’s love for the women but for the guys it’s love plus animal instinct. 🙁 😀
Some of the most ‘westernised’ East Asians I’ve seen & had the misfortune of associating with are surprisingly, not American-Born/Western-born but frigging overseas born folks. Hollywood’s clearly making a bigger impact from a distance, esp. when these overseas folks don’t have to live & experience the daily social inequities, myths & warts up close in Western society & their treatment of non-whites, in general.
@Nomad
Yes, Jessica Hsuan is from HK. She most likely grew up hanging around Chinese.
Hence there goes your theory.
I hear ya Bloom, and I agree. I have a problem with anyone who deliberately decides to go out there and date other races because they think their own kind isn’t good enough. Sometimes we fall in love with others from different races as love can hit you like a bullet. My cousin is a fine example. He dated a few girls from Hong Kong, and one Taiwanese and he ended up marrying a woman from, a black woman I may add, from Trinidad in the Caribbean. They are very happy. A lot of our relatives in Hong Kong and Taiwan refuse to go to the wedding, but his parents liked her and that was all that mattered. Of course I like her too.
A lot of Asian men, especially from mainland china, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Japan and Korea have this thing about not wanting to date an older woman of their kind because she is damaged goods, she has a past. I guess at 40 years old, 99% of women and men will have a past. If a woman had past lovers, it does not make her a slu…g. She can still be considered a classy decent woman.
Because the Asian men have this 12th century way of thinking, that is why the older Chinese women are dating outside of their race. Look at Karen Mok and others. Who can blame them.
Has anyone ever considered that the Chinese women also want a man who is more open minded and not closed off to life and stuck in the puritan bubble fantasy world, and that is why they want to date outside of their Asian culture?. Maybe more chinese and Asians need to get with the times and the women may stay closer to home grown men.
Men still prefer fresh and young meat over mature ones.
Hard truth!
That’s because of men’s own insecurities. Experienced women know better whereas young inexperienced girls don’t. 🙂
Hi Trini,
I had an ex-boss whom dated a lady from Trinidad, she’s not black but maybe like Latino? She’s very friendly and pretty.
Well a lot of chinese men find chinese women these days very materialistic. High maintenance, I wont deny this especially women from Hong Kong, China and Singapore. Some of them expect a lot of things from the men. I’m a woman too and I like to be fair to both genders, both men and women work, we shouldn’t be too dependent on man especially buying diamonds, buying branded bags, shoes, clothes and pay for overseas holidays, pay for all the expensive meals etc etc. I think it would be nice that we dont try to take advantage of ppl and impose on the man. Maybe I’m still quite traditional and silly. I believe in reincarnation, I would like to believe that it would be nicer for me not to owe ppl but to give more. I rather they owe me, so I never asked my boyfriend to pay for stuff that I purchase, meals he pays most of it but if I suggest something nicer with ambience I would tell him that I would like to buy him instead. I’m not saying that I’m great or whatsover, I just want to share what I observe these days that women these days are honestly asking so much. We can live without diamonds, branded bags, shoes, branded clothes for example. If the man is a fantastic guy, loves you a lot but he cant afford to buy all those all the time that doesnt mean he doesnt love you.
Hi Bloom,
Very well said and I have the sane exact thoughts as you and do not get why many women are into branded goods and all. One of my sister in laws is a bit like that,but she is not too bad. A lot of things she buys herself since she and my brother both work. It is very sad that we live in such a materialistic world. If I ever like anything I prefer to buy it myself,but luckily mist of the things I like are not too expensive.
You are so right that when you choose someone but they are also choosing you. You can expect thus and that for them,but they can do the same to you.
Hi HeTieShou,
Thanks for agreeing. Coming back to the discussion on branded goods. I do like some branded bags but I wont deliberately or insanely tell myself that I must have it. Do you feel that a lot of girls these days continuously buy all these brandeds because of few reasons. Yes, they want to feel good, they want to be seen they’re trendy for getting the latest editions example, peer pressure as they’re competing with some family members and friends and colleagues. Those ppl whom are truly rich would be the one that dont mind spending a lot of money for bags and they’ve lost counts on how many bags they’ve. Not those girls that always go for coach, longchamp… Well, if you’re able to pay for all these that’s okay, but I’ve seen a lot of girls are imposing on their husband & boyfriend to get those for them. I’ve a friend whom is like that. She’s not working, have 3 children to feed, her husband is not earning much but she continuously asked her husband to get her coach bags again and again and those that she purchased are going off trends and non-leather. I wanted to tell her that she’s stupid, I’m the type of person that wont be paying so much for non-leather bags just because of the word “coach” example. I pity her husband for marrying such wife, as her friend I really wanted to tell her but my advice has gone to deaf ears and if I tell her anymore, I think we won’t be friends.
I remember listening to one of the songs from the late Danny Chan on ppl choosing you. I hope I’m right, it’s the song from late Danny Chan and not Sam Hui.
I hope more ppl will try to give more, expect less, that way we’ll be happier.
Hi Bloom,
Yes,you are so right! I feel like we are twins or something because we have similar minds. I too like only branded goods,but only if I can get it for a good price. One of my teachers once taught me that we have unlimited wants and needs,but very limited money and resources to get them. That is something that I have always remembered. I feel we must all be content with what we have or can get or else we will never be happy. My mom also taught me that those that have no end to greed can even be living the best life in the heavens and still not be content,while someone who can be sleeping on the floor in the open sky can still be the happiest person ever.
Being rich is one thing but they does not always mean that they must waste their money or spend big. I remember Oprah Windfey who makes millions,but even she refuses to spend thousands of dollars on a Hermes bag. Even Bill Gates who is also very rich refuses to spend $15 dollars on a parking space when he was late for a meeting because he thought of the many less fortunate people that cannot afford it. However,he is willing to give millions to many charities. My mom said that she admired him for that.
I know what you mean about girls who are greedy and asking their husband and boyfriends to get those branded goods for them. I still do not get why many girls care for that stuff? My cousin once said that it is a status thing and even if celebs wore fake ones,people would think they are real. However,even if normal citizens like us wore real ones,people would still say they are fake. Gosh,that friend of yours is really selfish and greedy. I pity her husband to have such a wife. She should be more considerate towards her family. If I was a housewife,I would be lucky to have a roof over my head,food to eat and decent clothes to wear. I guess those that have not suffered through financial hardships will not understand how hard it is or are just too selfish to even think about it. I once ended a friendship due to similar reasons.
Hmm.. I do not know which song that is. Sounds like a good song though and I love many songs that are not only good and touching but teach us many good lessons in life.
Totally agree with you that if we all learn to give more and expect less then we would all be a lot happier.
Hi HeTieShou,
I also felt the same, a lot of times we both have the same thoughts and opinions 🙂
Actually I do like certain branded bags but I wont spend money to get it because I guess I realised that having a branded bags wont really make me happy. I think when I was younger perhaps I might care for all these but not for me. I do pass by branded stores and yes sometimes one or two bags which I like but I wasnt crazy over it.
Since we’re all women, I feel there’s always this feeling of I want to have the latest bag from this brand. I also want to make sure I get it first than my family/colleague/friend, it’s some sort of pressure. My ex-colleague told me she was crazy over coach bags once and I told her you already have a few why still want to go for coach I asked her. I said we leave our house with that bag, get into our car and when we arrive the office, we keep the bag inside the drawer. We dont carry our bag for lunch, only purse, then you leave the office, yes, walk to the car park, get your car, drive home, okay once a while you meet with family/friends on your way home or shop then you can show off your bag. But that’s it, it’ll get worst if your branded bag get snatched off. She nodded with agreement and has since slowed down her purchases.
I think I’m quite a contented person most times. Maybe because once I was laid off because my company wasn’t doing well. I didnt have a job at that time but having financial commitments. I didnt dare to tell my family so I suffered quietly. At that moment I feel all these branded stuff cant exchange anything if you’re in need. The best is still invest in something that will last forever. I quite like watches, so I dont mind reward myself one or two pieces. I find that is anytime better than all these branded bags because sooner or later the bag will be worn out no matter how careful you’re. And you realised some girls go for fashion bags, so once the fashion is over, it’s no longer nice if you still use that bag.
I fully agree with your mom, to me I never choose friends/colleagues based on what they wear, what they use or their job title or their family background or their weath. To me it’s the person, if he/she is a nice person, I’ll be their friend, irregardless of their job title, they can be the office tea lady. Doesnt matter.
A lot of ppl thought that ppl will judge them based on their dressing and what they use. Yes, in a way, these type of ppl who use your dressing etc to judge you is not worth my time. A rich person is rich in his/her heart, like selfless (yes, not many of us can be one) and do lots of charities. If you’ve money, do charities, if you dont have money, you can still do charities but invest some time to help others.
Usually those rags to riches are the ones that cant wait to show off to ppl. To ensure ppl know they’re now wealthy.
A lot of girls think that they use branded the guy will notice. Infact a mature man wont look for all these. Just like you put on nail polish or make-up men in general prefer women to go without all those.
Coming back to my friend, her husband had recently asked for divorce from her and their divorce was final.
Nei nang suen chak yan, yan ying nang suen chak nei, kung peng, yat mut pun tim pien sam…. fe kip, mak mak heung cheok sam lui san, hor pit pou yuen…. I tried to recall the chorus, yeah, I’m very certain it was a song from the late danny chan. But, since I cant read chinese, I dont know the name of the song. I typed out a whatever I could remember. Something like you can choose ppl, ppl can choose you, fair, there wont be any unfairness. Bitterness, (not sure about the lyrics I think it should be quietly sighing inside the heart)…
Hi Trini,
Not all chinese man are like that. Some of my friends husband are really fabulous. But no one is perfect.
Some ppl I know want a perfect person. Then I ask him or her whether he/she is perfect or not. These type of ppl has so much of expectations, remember when you choose someone, someone has the same right to choose you. No one is perfect, we’re all born with flaws.
Some girls they want a handsome guy, tall, good built, rich, good career, etc etc etc. Hmm same thing, he would want to choose also.
Someone just label me as not so clever. My reply to you : Whatever, it doesn’t hurt my rice bowl and dignity. LOL
don’t worry – she ‘ll have a german boy friend by year end..
WTF??? This topic is still ongoing despite it has been few days? Couldn’t you guys just stop talking about it instead of acting like…well, whatever that you think it is suitable to describe about yourself?
Obviously, this type of news will never even be news in the west because this spaghetti dude is totally unknown to the folks.
A lot of racism in this thread. Too bad so many still see people by the colour of their skin. The world still has much growing to do.
Well said TVBfanatic! This is supposed to be a happy occasion but yet sadly some turn it into something so bad and negative just like in Leehom’s thread. The world and people truly have a lot of learning and growing to do.
I wish Jessica the best regardless if it works out or not. Jessica, or anyone, shouldn’t settle for less.
white woman look better than chinese woman
All women look better than you.
LOL
Some women (of all skin color) look gorgeous.
White women look 50 after 25.
With matching mini whale-like girth to go with after childbirth.
Everyone knows East Asians women look & age better than Caucasian women. Unless you’re into pigz on stilts or whales.
any female after 25 is past their prime
white woman in their prime look better than asian woman but you got your own opinion and that’s good
It all depends on the person. 😀 🙁 LOL!
@Kelly Liu:
Any (non-white) female tend not to look 50+ after turning 26. Most WFs go down hill very, very quickly after 25. They literally jump down the hill sans parachute and all.
Many WFs in their prime are nothing but fake tans, hair-dyes, regular body fur removal, caked-up makeup, sillycone breast implants, lip implants, liposuction & plastic surgery.
No, with white women’s typical pasty, freckly, mottled skins, deep wrinkles & general furriness, even the *shock* white males concede that East Asian females age better & look better au naturale. Sorry to bust anybody’s bubble.
It shouldn’t matter the colour of his skin.
What’s important is that Jessica has found someone who makes her happy.
It is simply too narrow-minded of us to generalize/marginalize an entire race – whether it be caucasians, chinese, icelandic! etc.
Each person is individual unto themselves; all with their own merits, strengths and weaknesses. It isn’t for us to judge others choices.
I think it’s great for Jessica to continue believing in love despite having so many heartbreaks.
…. Being an ‘accomplished’ female in my 20s, I also understand the issues at hand with the dating scene. Being raised in a Western world, I grew up in a multicultural society. Having dated both Asian and Caucasian men, you can’t say one is better than the other; nor can you say one will always be more puritan/traditional than the other!
(I’ve met plenty of very traditional caucasian men; and some very liberal asian guys! we can’t just adhere to century-old cultural cliches!)
Being Chinese myself, I am happily married to a human being for 15 years I love who happens to be native Italian. Chill out and live. People are people. There are countries where “foreign” men/women are known to seek soulmates to their preference. I’ve witnessed it. So what? At the end of the day it is about 2 people getting along in this life. If they’re happy, then we should be happy for then. No?
Yup, it’s good that you guys are so happy. BTW, are you the giver or the receiver? Well, you still have a long way to go. 😀 🙁 LOL!
“Even Bill Gates who is also very rich refuses to spend $15 dollars on a parking space when he was late for a meeting because he thought of the many less fortunate people that cannot afford it. However,he is willing to give millions to many charities. My mom said that she admired him for that.”
Are you kidding me! Bill Gates is one of the selfish pr!ck around and doesn’t give a sh!t about anyone. Check the grad speech he gave at university. Many people buy into his very expensive software so there are plenty of cash floating around for him to play with. This is why the rich get richer and the poor get stupid. The poor lick the ground the rich walks on. 😀 :9 LOL!
When you are a Chinese female celebrity in your 40s, getting a moderately successful ‘chinese’ guy around your age or older, is not the easiest thing. As most Chinese man ‘prefer’ someone younger. Especially Chinese men who are successful, will normally look for someone younger. I guess that’s one of the problem. I don’t think she intentionally wants to go for westerners.
Fully agree ebbie