Theresa Fu (傅穎) had always denied ever dating Him Law (羅仲謙). But yesterday before heading to Beijing for a career advancement, Theresa admitted her romance with Him for the very first time. Within this one and a half year, they have broken up and patched up several times. Theresa went on to expose that Him had three other girlfriends (other than herself) all at one time and even hit her last month!
It was known that Him’s third and fourth girlfriends were women from the entertainment circle. In order to protect his reputation, Him quickly held a press conference and announced that he had a dispute with Theresa over her checking of his cellphone and thus believed that her injury was caused during their scuffle with each other.
Theresa professed that she’s advancing her career and “settling down” at Beijing for a long time going forward. Yesterday when Theresa attended a fashion event, she was asked about her Weibo messages which hinted that she was heartbroken and violently treated. Theresa showed signs of revealing but stopped herself. After some persistent asking, she finally said, “I don’t want to give people opportunities to say that I’m contradicting or ambiguous and that I’m trying to give myself publicity. I will always have my misgivings when I want to say anything but every word that I said is truthful, from the heart. Anyway, I’m just emotionally and physically scarred.” Theresa revealed that she’s heading to Beijing to put down this emotional baggage, “I don’t wish to torture myself mentally, I just wanted to rant about my feelings and release the knot in my heart and definitely not to publicize myself.”
Not The First Time Being Betrayed
With a grievous face, Theresa said, “This dating matter happened when I was releasing my solo album. I was together with Him Law. We broke apart for more than one time. Being betrayed (by him) for more than one time, this relationship left me emotionally and physically hurt. Being a girl, what passed has passed, I don’t wish to think about it and talk about it everyday.” (Reporter: When did the both of you get together?) “Him Law and I dated for one and a half years. We started in the year 2010 but I didn’t know he already had a steady girlfriend then. I don’t wish to stoop so low and torture myself mentally. The worst mistake I have committed was to be together with Him Law and to discover that he had betrayed me, he didn’t spilt up with his steady girlfriend at all and even dated two other girls too, it was devastating to me. My heart was broken and I was also physically hurt.”
When asked whether she was hit by Him Law, Theresa paused for a while before saying, “Someone asked me (about my bruises) and I said that I hurt myself when I fell down, it was already in the past.” (Reporter: So you are trying to say Him Law did use his hand to hit you?) “In any case, the injuries were not incurred from falling down.” (Why did Him hit you?) “Because I saw through him and exposed him.” [Theresa implied that she saw through him and learnt that he had three other girlfriends besides her.] (Reporter: Have you ever contemplated reporting this to the police?) “I never thought about it. I don’t want to give people the impression that I’m trying to create a topic for myself out of nowhere. For now I am not releasing any autobiography or any albums, I just want to get rid of my emotional baggage before I leave Hong Kong for Beijing. I don’t want to mention this person’s name ever again.”
When asked whether the previous time they patched was because Him Law self-professed that he had already broken up with his steady girlfriend, Theresa responded, “Yes. My worst mistake was to ever be together with Him. I feel reproachful.” (When did you guys officially break up?) “We split ways the previous year. After separating for a month, we reconciled and got together again. We officially broke up last month.” (When did Him Law hit you?) “He hit me last month. The real reason we broke apart was because I discovered that he had other girlfriends (apart from me) so we ended up arguing over this.” (Did he punch you? Or did he use any weapons?) “He didn’t use any weapons.” It was known that Him Law’s third and fourth girlfriends are women from the entertainment circle.
Alerted Friends Of The Opposite Gender
Theresa Fu’s sudden exposure of her love-hate relationship with Him Law caught their management company, Filmko, [Theresa and Him belonged to the same management company] unaware and left them in chaos. Filmko cancelled Him Law’s scheduled work on the new TVB medical drama, On Call 36 Hours <On Call 36小時> and immediately arranged for Him to return to the office and hold a press conference.
Yesterday afternoon at 5 PM, Him Law wore an all-black outfit, looking solemn and carried watery eyes when he appeared. Him first let out a sigh before saying in a trembling voice, “Previously, I didn’t handle this too well. However, I really cherished the love between us. Thus, I went to find her to patch back together. It looked as if our relationship had a chance of blossoming again. Before long, we had gotten back with each other. However, the lack of mutual trust only grew bigger every day and had even alerted friends of the opposite gender. One time, she checked my phone and made a huge ruckus. She was very emotional and made a lot of movements (“danced in anger”). I wanted to think of something to curb and restrain her maybe that’s when I accidentally hurt her. After that, we discovered we had no faith in each other. It would be hard to get along together with each other so we decided to break up.”
After his speech, Him Law displayed a grieved expression of wanting to cry but not a single drop of tears flowed down from his eyes. Asked whether he would apologize to Theresa and express his regret, his manager, Miss Lee, interjected that Him had to rush to filming and excused themselves to evade the question. After which, Him went to the North District Hospital to start on his filming work. After shooting for an hour, he went to Kowloon Bay first to take his car and drove back to his residence in Tai Po.
It was known that after the two of them had reconciled with each other, Theresa often checked Him Law’s phone records. If she discovered that members of the opposite sex had called him, she would immediately redial that number and ask that person about her relationship with Him. Whereas friends around Him Law defended him and said that they don’t believe that Him would use his hand to hit anyone and felt that it was probably a jostling accident due to the misunderstanding.”
Him Law’s and Theresa Fu’s Management Company Extremely Displeased
It was known that Theresa and Him’s management company, Filmko Entertainment Ltd, did not know about their previous reconciliation prior to the “physical beating” claims. Filmko was extremely displeased regarding this matter and decided to cancel all of Theresa’s Beijing jobs, thus incurring speculations that Theresa was about to be “frozen” by them.
The reporter called up the management company’s spokesperson, Miss Lee, in a quest to verify matters. When asked about the rumors that Theresa would be facing the plight of being “frozen” by them, Miss Lee responded “No, not ‘frozen.’ As this was a matter that took us by surprise and Theresa had, unknown to us, self-exposed to the press that she was hit by Him Law, the company doesn’t know what is going on. We so wanted her to remain in Hong Kong first until she has settled and addressed matters. Thus her flight to Beijing today has been cancelled.”
Asked whether Theresa was heading to Beijing for a career advancement, Miss Lee responded, “Yes. Filmko Entertainment has a branch in Beijing. Earning renminbi is the profitable trend now. Since the company saw that Theresa’s jobs on hand at Hong Kong were completed, thus we gave her the opportunity to develop her career in Beijing and rented a room for her and arranged for her to meet the producers and to promote herself.” When asked whether Theresa’s work would have any changes, Miss Lee said that she didn’t know and that she had to understand the entire incident before announcing anything. Asked whether they would announce if Theresa was “frozen,” Miss Lee expressed that she has to know the big picture first.
Boss Wang Haifeng Angrily Criticized: “Someone Was Not Obedient”
Filmko Entertainment’s boss, Wang Haifeng (王海峰), used Weibo to angrily criticize Theresa for not listening to him, “Personal matters should be handled personally. I said a lot of times not to them discuss openly. If anything happens, reflect back to the company but this time. It happened under no knowledge of the company. Someone did not even listen to me, so I also won’t bother either.”
Emotionally And Physically Hurt; Reveals Hints On Weibo
On the night of August 18, 2011, Theresa Fu hinted signs of getting treated violently on her Weibo blog, “I exposed his betrayal and suffered under his violence which left streaks of bruises. He said that it was my fault. Actually my biggest mistake was to be upset over this person.”
Actually, as early as July 27th, Theresa had already shown signs of getting abused when she uploaded a photo of her leg injury on Weibo and an accompanying message beside it, “This pain and these marks will fade away with time, regardless of whether it is physically or emotionally. The bruises on my leg has yet to go away; my heart has anxiously toughen up.”
Besides that, in November 2010, Theresa expressed over Weibo that she was crudely stepped on the foot by Him Law during filming. In recent months, she often revealed her take on love via Weibo, mocking herself for being ignorant in picking men and hinted that her other half often flirted outside and lied to her thus receiving supportive messages from quite a few netizens.
When Him Law the Wolf meets Theresa Fu Little Red Riding Hood
Theresa Fu and Him Law claimed that after their rumors in June 2010, their romance together was very sweet. Unfortunately, due to boyfriend Him Law having several other girlfriends while dating her, their relationship soured as a result. The day before yesterday, Theresa Fu even confessed that Him Law had violently treated her.
Due to collaborating on a movie last year, Theresa Fu and Him Law were both rumored to be together by newspaper reports last June. After which, they seized the opportunity to get involved with each other, both of them even professed that they didn’t mind teaming up together as a couple to earn appearance fees. Theresa and Him also often flirted with each other publicly and praised each other. Soon, they were photographed going to the sea together thus bringing this relationship to light.
Theresa and Him attended a public event but did not talk to each other. Theresa even stressed that she was just colleagues with Him Law and said, “I have known him for so long but he hasn’t spoken anything true to me!” Afterwhich, both of them zipped their lips with regarding this matter.
Upon discovering Him Law had a mainland girlfriend while dating herself, Theresa was enraged and thus the pair temporarily separated. During an event, when mentioned about her relationship with Him Law, Theresa used the fable of the “Wolf” and “Little Red Riding Hood” to describe her cheated feelings but was later rumored to be “frozen” by her company due to her big mouth.
No Time Limit In Reporting Violence To The Police
At an event yesterday, Theresa Fu revealed that she was hit by ex-boyfriend, Him Law, in the past. Although this matter has passed for almost a month now, lawyer Daniel Wong Kwok Tung (黃國桐) pointed out that regardless of how long ago the violent incident occurred, the victim can still report it to the police. He also said that if sued in court and there was no blood sustained in the injury, it would be considered as a common assault crime. If not, it would be considered as an aggravated assault crime (bodily injury where a drop of blood outside the wound would be sufficient to convict a person of the crime).
At the press conference, Him admitted that he only accidentally held onto Theresa “too tightly” after she checked his cellphone and made huge gestures. Lawyer, Daniel Wong, replied that regardless of the reason involved, one cannot use it as a reason to hit anybody. However, Him Law can sue Theresa for invasion of privacy.
This article was translated by Ah K, a Contributing Writer at JayneStars.com.
Ah K: Judging from these reports, I would lean towards Theresa’s accusation of Him Law allegedly hitting her because I don’t see any reason why Theresa would risk giving up her career, her future prospects at Beijing and risk being “frozen” by her company in order to conjure up this big fat lie.
Since Him Law didn’t deny Theresa’s other accusation of having three other girlfriends (besides her), I assume that this must be true and an interesting lead we received from Theresa was that Him Law’s third and fourth girlfriends are from the entertainment industry too. Wonder who? My guess would be one of them could probably perhaps be Mandy Wong (黃智雯) who acted as a couple with him on “Suspects In Love”《搜下留情》, I don’t know why but their acting of liking each other seemed too real for fiction to me or maybe it’s just that Mandy Wong’s acting was superb in that show.
From the timeline reports that Theresa was furious upon hearing rumors of Him Law having a girlfriend back in the Mainland, I assumed that that Mainland girlfriend might be Him’s first steady girlfriend since the second was Theresa while the third and fourth ones were from the entertainment industry, which could explain why Theresa was so fury with anger because from that rumor, she probably realized that Him did not break up with that said girlfriend as he claimed.
Anyway, even if Theresa filed a police report, I doubt the police will be able to do much to convict Him of the alleged crime, since the wound would have already faded and any skin fragments that can be found in the wound would have been washed off by now. Unless they do a very “CSI” thing and measure the impact by Him’s hand and compare it against the impact caused on the skin.
Also, Him’s excuse of accidentally hurting Theresa thus causing the injury is lame, even if one scuffles, the bruises will most likely appear on the hands or arms but not on the leg. In any case, violence against a defenseless woman is seriously an intimidating act that shouldn’t be tolerated whatever the reason, a man’s hitting of a woman is always wrong!