Nicholas Tse’s Manager Urges Cecilia Cheung to Let Go of Bitterness

By on September 22, 2014 in Hot Gossip!, NEWS

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Three years after his divorce with Cecilia Cheung (張栢芝), Nicholas Tse (謝霆鋒) has finally moved past the hurt of a failed marriage. He found solace in former lover, Faye Wong (王菲), whom he was unable to forget despite their breakup 11 years ago. While many congratulated the reunited lovers, Cecilia is holding a grudge against her ex-husband for spending little time with their two sons, Lucas and Quintus.

Cecilia told China Star Entertainment’s Tiffany Chan (陳嵐) that Nicholas rarely visited the two boys this year. He also made a disappearing act on his 34th birthday in August and did not celebrate the occasion with his sons. Since he always said he was too busy, Cecilia felt that Nicholas was an irresponsible father and said that he was not worthy of her love anymore

Customary of his stoic nature, Nicholas did not make any responses towards Cecilia’s remarks. However, his manager, Mani Fok (霍汶希) explained, “Nicholas is working so hard because he is trying to prepare for the future. He hopes to earn more money for his two sons.”

Nicholas Spent His Birthday at Work

Nicholas also spent nearly six months filming food travelogue, Chef Nic <十二道鋒味>, which required traveling to locations all over the globe. For his birthday, Nicholas was originally slated to take a long rest since he was showing signs of arthritis. Mani explained that he was called in last minute to film for Chef Nic and missed celebrating with his two sons, “When he realized that the vendor in Chengdu could not film on another date, Nicholas resumed work.”

Mani Asks Cecilia to Let Go of Grudges 

While Mani understood Cecilia’s wish for Nicholas to be more involved with their sons, she felt that it was time for Cecilia to let go of grudges once a relationship is over. Mani said, “I hope Cecilia learns to let go in her heart. If she is happy, it’s also better for her sons. When a mother is happy, children can grow up in a healthy environment. [Only this way] can she welcome another significant other.”

Suffering from acute gastroenteritis while filming Mainland reality show, She’s My Family <明星到我家>, Cecilia has been discharged from the hospital and returned to the comfort of her sons in Singapore.

Source: Oriental Daily

This article is written by Jayne for JayneStars.com.

92 comments to Nicholas Tse’s Manager Urges Cecilia Cheung to Let Go of Bitterness

  1. Vodka says:

    I hope Cecilia will be all right and able to go through these hard times … having a father not so responsible in helping taking care of the kids put huge pressure on her shoulder and now Nic is dating Faye it’s making things even worse.

    As for Mani Fok she better simply just STFU who she thinks she is Nic moms?!?

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    • sazzy replied:

      Yeah. Mani is not Cecilia and cannot understand the piercing of Cecilia’s painful heart as she still loves nic. Its easy to advise but not as simply in reality.

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      • apple replied:

        Please get your fact straight before you blabbering. Her affair with Edison was after Nic went back with Faye for the second time.

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    • msxie replied:

      that goes for the media and netizens as well. Everyone’s weighing in with opinions, advice and speculations.

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  2. Jennifer says:

    I wish manager’s would stop budging into their artists’ business…..esp Mani Fok…egh

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    • omg replied:

      I’m with you and Vodka on this.

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    • What? replied:

      Agreed, the manager has no place in this matter.

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  3. Hannah says:

    Some managers don’t do anything, some do just enough, and some do too much aka Mani.

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  4. wow! sure true enough to say that!!!

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  5. sehseh says:

    Both Mani & Tiffany shouldn’t comment tbh.

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  6. oz-dude says:

    oh well, at least what mani said has some true, the children wont be growing healthily if the mother is not happy. so she better learn to put the past in the past. after all, she was so terrible last time when she got thing with edison. cant believe a mother could do such thing. geez.

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    • apple replied:

      Again, check your fact right before commenting.

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    • nomad 822 replied:

      Why is an outsider like Mani commenting?\

      Bec she is a single mom herself, and leads a life seperate from her kids’ dad?

      Well that’s what Cecilia is trying to do too so it seems … but the Tse family has more connections with the press than she has.

      And easier said than done methinks. With their 2 kids wedged between the two. Since she’s the one doing all the work, it’s only human nature to be “bitter” about what the dad is NOT doing, and being so high profile about enjoying his life (which takes money and time)while the world thinks he’s such a great dad.

      That’s why there was so much ‘insider info’ bad press on Cecilia too – the Tses and Mano Fok (EEG slave err staff) has way more media clout and connections.

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      • MW replied:

        “That’s why there was so much ‘insider info’ bad press on Cecilia too – the Tses and Mano Fok (EEG slave err staff) has way more media clout and connections.”

        Totally agree!!!

        Maybe the Tses leaked these photos (to ruffle Cecilia Cheung’s feathers)? I’m quite sure that family won’t treat Cecilia well (not for a long time). The best thing Cecilia can do is to not let the Tses get to her.

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  7. lilo says:

    If she was really concerned her sons not having a father figure, why moved them so far away…

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    • Rika replied:

      Because she wanted to run away from her own father! LOL

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      • AhQue replied:

        Loan sharks..

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    • nomad 822 replied:

      Why not?

      Singapore is safe, is one of the top migration destination for many rich or skilled HKgers and China crowd … and has a fantastic education system.

      Why did Jet Li move and set up house/s there?
      And Andy Lau … SG PR?

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  8. Clementine says:

    I don’t think it’s appropriate at all for Mani to make such for comment because 1. No one knows show Cecilia really feels and thinks besides herself, Mani’s comment is just out of her own assumptions that Cecilia is holding grudges for saying Nic is an irresponsible father 2. She’s a manager, it shouldn’t be any of her business to give advice so publicly about their family or relationship issues.

    Although what Mani said May have be reasonable , but it’s not her position to make a comment as if she would know what is best for Cecilia and the boys. That’s all I have to say from my point of view lol

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    • moncheri replied:

      She’s Nic’s mgr, her job is to ensure marketability of her actors/actresses. Sometimes that also means being their PR agent and damage control rep. It’s not how it should be but HK entertainment’s cheap so she has to fill out multiple roles.

      However, i agree it’s not her place to comment about CC (even though CC’s mgr did that towards Nic.) As a woman, she should know how difficult it is to be a single mom and she doesnt even understand CC’s feelings at the moment, so she really shouldnt be commenting albeit it being part of her job. Contradicting i know.

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        Mani IS a single mom herself. She has one kid, with some anonymous person.

        Maybe that’s why she THINKS she understands.

        But the Tses don’t quite leaves Cecilia alone, and with the 2 kids wedged in between … it’s natural she should fee resentful even as she’s leading her own life in Singapore.
        Nic is high profile … it would be better if Cecilia didn’t know the kids’ dad had that much money, and that much time to date and make progress in his career … while she’s dealing with their school worries, fights, whining, or vomiting.

        And that ex MIL of hers = is chummy with the press.

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  9. Serena says:

    Why do people always put the sole responsibility on Celcilia’s shoulder. Both are the parents, so the responsibility should be on both. Nic should try to spend more time and be there more for his sons. He should play a big part in his sons’ lives too. Working hard for money is one thing, but time with the sons is more important.

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    • bloom replied:

      Hi Serena,
      I think ppl are not expecting Cecilia to play more roles. But you’ve to understand that she’s having the custody of the children and they’re now residing in Spore instead of HK. Give Nicholas Tse the benefit of doubt that he can’t fly over every weekend say.

      I understand how she can feel bitter about her husband but she should also try letting things go. You’re no longer together, ppl bound to meet someone and they may be dating and get married. What she needs to do is focus on her attention and energy on the children instead of feeling unhappy. I know it’s not easy to do so, but there wont be happiness if she continues to be like that as she is the one that will get hurt.

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      • Agnest Tan replied:

        agreed

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      • silentwhistle replied:

        pretty sure nic doesn’t even Skype or call the kids often – cos if he did, mani would have said so already. if he can fly over to beijing 20 times surely he can go to singapore…

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      • Trini replied:

        @Bloom

        Truly well said.

        What Nic’s manager said is so very true, although I think she should not get involved in the Nic Cecilia situation.

        Nicolas does need to invest in his boys more as a father figure though. However, that cannot be done when Cecilia is taking them to live in another country. Both of them need to sit down and talk rationally as parents on behalf of their sons.These two boys welfare is what is the priority here.

        For those who are ranting about Cecilia’s heart breaking over Nic’s love life, the manager is right, she needs to let go and get her life together. I suspect Cecilia needs some type of help. It seems like she is manic depressive or bipolar or something.

        CiCi’s fans need to realise that she and Nic are divorced and divorced people do move on with their lives and find new loves, or rekindle romances, as in Nic’s case, and there is nothing wrong with that. They need to stop making Cecilia out to be some victim and encourage her to find her happiness with her boys and with her personal life. The only victims are the boys if this kind of behaviour continues, cause in her unhappiness, as their mother, with custody of the boys, she will not be able to provide a warm, nurturing and happy environment for the children. She needs to let go, work out a dea with Nic to see the boys more, and move on with her life. Nic too needs to get his act together and be the kind of father the boys will love and look up to.

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      • bloom replied:

        Kids can still be happy even after parents divorced. Kids are innocent, we brought them into this world, we’ve the responsibility to look after them. Sometimes it’s unfortunate that not all of us have both parents around. I hope the kids are not affected by Cecilia, who knows she might be meeting her Mr Right soon if she lets go.

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      • moncheri replied:

        I agree with bloom but i dont agree as well. It seems the perception most ppl have here is that CC hasnt gotten over Nic but didnt she just remark she has no feelings towards nic anymore? She’s only in pain for her boys cus their father really dont spend enough time with them. Anyone would be bitter. What is this “let go,” BS? How do you tell a single mom that she should “let go” of her exhusband and father to her kids when all she asks is that he spends time with them?

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        Srry moncheri.

        1) typos: I fly both routes all the time.

        HK-SG 3-4h

        HK-Canada 13h

        And beyond the beginning, comments below were not directed at you.

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      • lovetvb replied:

        agree with bloom

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      • MW replied:

        “when all she asks is that he spends time with them?”

        Yup, that’s all Cecilia Cheung asks for. Any wonder why people don’t recognize fathers as much as mothers? Because, in general, fathers (like Nicholas Tse) dump all childcare to the mothers while they go play hard (okay, and maybe work hard too). 🙂

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    • nomad 822 replied:

      @ Serena – yes, finally some balanced maturity.

      Well Said!

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        @ momcheri:

        I think the whole hypocrisy pretence perhaps of the “great father” image maybe is sickening.

        Especially since the truth is pretty transparent yet people still WANT to believe Nic is such a great caring dad, and she’s the “evil one” for moving them to SG

        SG is safe, clean and has a wonderful education system. She and the kids free from the media stalkers there = what’s wrong with that? It’s not like the Tses don’t know Singapore … MIL Deborah is married to a SG pilot for God’s sakes.

        And excuse me, it’s a mere 4h flight from SG to HK … it’s not like it’s a butt-numbing 13-14h to Canada.

        IF Jackie Cheung can make the time to pick up his girls daily, so can Nic Tse …. and no one is blaming May Lo for staying home.
        I fly both routes all the time.

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    • bloom replied:

      To Moncheri,
      I’m not sure, perhaps each time a lady linked to Nic, we hear something from Cecilia Cheung. I may be wrong, but I personally feel that her decision to divorce Nicholas was out of impulsiveness. She regretted her actions and always try to find ways to mend it hoping that they could get back together. Yes, again it’s fair and square that both parents should look after the children. Some parents just dont care and I cant agree more. When I was a baby, my parents left me with my grandpa until she passed away when I was 19. My father remarried when I was 9 and my stepmother hates me like hell, she forbidden my father to come and visit me. My relationship with my father is like total stranger. Sorry to all that you’ve to read this story of mine, but I just want to share that not everyone is lucky to have both parents love. He may not visit the children especially now they’re in Spore but maybe he calls them? Whatever it’s I sincerely hope my personal thought is wrong about Cecilia, what’s important is the children happiness should be the top priority. Hope she meets her Mr Right soon.

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      • moncheri replied:

        The thing is, everytime a lady approaches nic, the papz are all over it, and anticipating a reaction from CC. Is it a cry out for attention and a warning to Nic? I honestly dont know, but the papz were prepped and primed for CC, so any response gets magnified 10x to stir up attention.

        I mean she can just hush up and not say anything, but if she feels some sort of injustice, i cant fault her for saying something. Esp when this is related to her kids.

        Im sorry to hear about your circumstances, and youre right, not every kid’s lucky enough to have time with both/any parent. But everyone should always attempt to give their kids as much time as possible.

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  10. Hannahh says:

    I think Mani should stay out of this. Nic should be more responsible for the kids.

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    • moncheri replied:

      @ bloom,

      The thing is, everytime a lady approaches nic, the papz are all over it, and anticipating a reaction from CC. Is it a cry out for attention and a warning to Nic? I honestly dont know, but the papz were prepped and primed for CC, so any response gets magnified 10x to stir up attention.
      I mean she can just hush up and not say anything, but if she feels some sort of injustice, i cant fault her for saying something. Esp when this is related to her kids.
      Im sorry to hear about your circumstances, and youre right, not every kid’s lucky enough to have time with both/any parent. But everyone should always attempt to give their kids as much time as possible.

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  11. Jokes says:

    Cecila dream man must of been nic… Maybe in 11 years mrs cheung might become miss tse in another 11 year

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  12. Christine says:

    I just do not understand why ppl still harp on cecillia’s past…please this happen before they are married and who do not have past…if you are married n have kids even after the divorce, both must be responsible for the kids in this case Nicholas did not do his part…the comment he is trying very hard to earn a lot of money for the kids future who is he kidding…anyway as a woman I believe what he is doing now is a definite disappointment to his kids..always remember the kids are innocent, they need both the parent’s love to grow up in a happy environment…cecilla 加油, don’t give up…you deserve better and hope you will be strong for your kids!

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    • apple replied:

      Very well said.

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    • moncheri replied:

      Agreed!

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  13. silentwhistle says:

    never liked nic because of his past, but man, cecilia and faye are both too good for him. a man who goes back and forth between the same women suggests that he aint a man of his words – seriously, is it that hard to make your mind up? he is worse than his father. patrick is a player but nic is just an uncommitted jerk – fantasizing his ex when he is with the other.

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  14. ebbie says:

    Feel sorry for her. It must be tough to see your X going back to his X. And everyone involved is super famous !

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  15. Lps says:

    CC is just a sour grape. Don’t you think she is the most domesticated mother when she flies to Shanghai to open night club. She still loves him plain and simple. She is hurt. She tries to find an excuse. I am neither person’s fan but this is rather clear cut. Feel bad for her but she needs to understand that no matter what we do we can’t force a guy to love you. They might even marry you but eventually the heart goes back to the one he loves. Very sad but true.

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    • Sito replied:

      Whether Cecilia still loves Nicholas doesn’t take away the fact that Nic is a lousy father.

      And what’s wrong with opening a night club? She’s doing BUSINESS and not dancing there every night.

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      • Lmjl18 replied:

        @Sito
        Do you know Nic and CC personally ? The way you commented, “doesn’t take away the fact that Nic is a lousy father.” That sounds really presumptuous.

        Of course everyone can give their 2cents worth on celebrity fodder. But when one’s comments starts to go overboard, may be one should get off one’s high horse and show a little restraint ?

        * I’m no fan of Nic or CC

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  16. Tess says:

    Well, when a marriage didn’t work out both sides are to be blamed, but the kids are the ones that suffer the most. Since Cecilia has the rights to the kids she should take the responsibilities to raise them well. When two are separated means they no longer STAY in a household, so stop blaming Nic for not spending time with the boys. Who knows they weren’t in touch, they might have communicated online. To be present doesn’t always mean to be there physically. He still support them financially. Let’s see what will happen is Cecilia finds her other half whether she will do the same as Nic. The bottom line is the kids are the one affected the most, both parties have to compromise in raising the kids.

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    • Sito replied:

      What? Are you kidding me? Financial support doesn’t mean anything if you don’t spend time with your kids when they are growing up. And no, Cecilia does not have to sole responsibility of raising her sons. Divorce or not, he is still their dad. He will always be. Is it really too much to ask for to make time in his schedule to see his sons more often? As if he needs to worry about money right now.

      You clearly don’t know the emotional damage that an absent father can do to young children (I speak from first hand experience).

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  17. Yanna says:

    Wasn’t she the one who was telling the mags he’s a good father and whatnot? Why act like a drama queen and said he’s irresponsible after his news of getting back together with Faye ? Everything should be dealt with a calm attitude since she’s already a mother of 2. This is not the first time she acts like this. She needs help. Nic Tse can’t have a love life because he has 2 kids? Who is she kidding? Bet she wouldn’t say this if she were the one dating. She was also the one who brought her kids on vacation all the time.

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    • Sito replied:

      ‘Nic Tse can’t have a love life because he has 2 kids?’

      No he can’t if it means sacrificing the time for his kids for his ‘love life’. Once you have children they should be your priority and (good) parents sacrifice a lot of things for their children all the time because it is their responsibility to do so. Having children means more than keeping them well-fed and warm. Affection and support are CRUCIAL, so if the father is absent all the time… yeah.

      Come one, if he can fly to Beijing 20 times to canoodle with Faye then is it so much to ask of him to see his sons more often? How about calling them? Bet he didn’t even do that either because if he did his manager would scream it for the world to hear.

      And I bet Cecilia would put her kids first even if she dates anyone. Which is sadly not what Nicholas is doing right now.

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        Precisely.

        Thank You for being the voice of wise reason.

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      • omg replied:

        Some people will likely accuse me of generalising but i think that a mom’s love is often less selfish than dad’s. Perhaps it’s becos dad’s traditional role is breadwinner, too busy making dough to spend time with kids. Even when dad has time, he’d rather spend it with his buddies or catching up on his hobbies or in this case, cosying up with his old flame. Nic sounds to me like a man-child who values his playtime over bonding with his kids.

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        @ OMG:

        Yes that too. But it doesn’t take away the fact it reeks of irresponsibility.

        Mature parenting means you put the best interests of the child before your own … this includes even choice of partner, or dating.

        @ Sito
        Which is yes, what I see Cecilia would do.
        That woman may be all degrees of impulsiveness and shortsighted-thinking … but I get the feel her heart’s in the right place. Which is what matters.
        “A dog’s bark is worse than its (real) bite”.

        Nic (and the Tses)just seem way more calculative and showy … highly image conscious.
        They are the types that bite.
        ie what they really do behind closed doors MAY not be what they say.

        Even when Nic first hooked up with Faye when he was a teen – other than ‘free spirit/rebel’ kindred soyul … would the Tses have been as accepting if she was poor and struggling, and not an established Queen of Mandarin ballad?

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  18. Sito says:

    Never got the vibe that Nicholas is a good dad. I also hate this whole (asian) mentality of ‘he works hard to earn a lot of money for the sake of his children’s future’. Financial support is important for for raising a child, yes, but ACTUALLY SPENDING TIME WITH THEM even more so. They are only young once and this is a crucial time in their development, once you’ve missed it, you can never get it back. Not to mention that Nicholas Tse has more than enough money to provide financially for their kids.

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    • bloom replied:

      To Sito,
      Not all asians are like that. Dont stereotype, maybe in olden days yes. But these days, both parents play roles. Really depends what type of man you married.

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  19. azndoraemon says:

    SO MUCH DRAMA! 4 aritcles already

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    • kiwi replied:

      LOL!

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  20. tvbfanatic says:

    I see.. so the manager’s take is that she should just be quiet and be happy, and that SHE bears all the responsibility for the happiness of the children? After all, if she is concerned/complains that Nick isn’t involving himself with the children, than it’ll hurt the kids because of her negativity?
    lol… whatever. I think he should just butt out rather than trying to mend his stars image. He’s making it worse.

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  21. azndoraemon says:

    she needs to learn to let it go. It has been three darn years. When relationship don’t work, seriously there’s not much to do. I hope she’s not thinking that if Nic visits the sons then CC can see him.

    Maybe she should split custody with Nic so the sons can also spend time with the grandparents. But bottom line, she really need to move on and stay independent. This goes to everyone in general.

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    • tvbfanatic replied:

      Why do you think she needs to let go? I think she stated clearly early that she has no feelings for him at all… her only concern is that he’s never there for his children.

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      • azndoraemon replied:

        she’s obviously still not fully over him. The kids are just her excuses. Best way to split custody.

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      • Mingly replied:

        So full of it. Just because she SAYS she’s over him, it’s the truth? CC is full of crap. She is a “good mother”? She is using her sons AGAIN. Why this news came up? Because she have to make herself the “victim” and be pitied…BS.

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      • apple replied:

        for the two above, what makes you think that you know what many of us don’t? you know for sure what she feels from where? reporters? LOL.

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      • MW replied:

        Just because a mother complains about the irresponsible father means that she’s not over him? Give me a break!!!

        Goldie Hawn complains (to this day) about Kate Hudson’s father being irresponsible. Does that mean that Goldie is not over that loser (Bill Hudson)? Heck no!!!

        BTW, Kate Hudson speaks with such loathe about her loser father. Maybe this is what Nicolas Tse wants for himself?

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      • Mingly replied:

        Apple:
        And just because she say she’s over him, she is telling the truth? She’s a drama queen. Everytime Nic is rumored to be with someobdy, news of her would also come out..what a COINCIDENCE..

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    • azndoraemon replied:

      Apple: same goes to you. What do you know? LOL

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      • msxie replied:

        What do we ALL know? Only those directly involved really know.The rest of us are just speculating and piling on the drama.

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      • azndoraemon replied:

        Exactly, the best is to split custody and take turn. I’m just speaking in general when relationship ends, its hard to accept your ex’s new partner.

        I’m married for three years now and did not talk to my ex since we broke up. He was dating someone last year but we just talked recently over the phone. I felt alittle uncomfortable when he told me he was seeing someone but they broke up. I could hear him feeling the same when I told him i got married. But of course that unfortable feeling in me went away in a day or two. That was his first time seeing someone after we broke up so i didn’t know how to react to it and I may have felt like he supposed to not be seeing anyone in the future.

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        How healthy is “spilt custody”

        This is popular in NAmerica … but unless BOTH partners are on the same page re: parenting … it leads to really messed up kids who learn quickly how to lie and manipulate to adapt.

        How can one shuttle between household A from Day 1 – 3 with that household expectations/rules …. and Day 4-6 to household B with maybe no rules and expectations?

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      • azndoraemon replied:

        Then she shouldn’t complain. Either give up custody or deal with it.

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  22. lovetvb says:

    Cecilia Cheung is just jealous about the Nic and Faye’s relationship. She is a SUPER DRAMA QUEEN and big fat liar (when she was crying that Nic is giving enough attention to his kids by being an irresponsible dad. Hello, why on earth does she need to cry over this kind of thing..

    she was crying becoz she can’t let go of her past. she hopes to reconcile with Nic by taking custody of their children. Trust me, she wants the kids for her purpose to get back to Nic. I guess she will just dreamt bat this.

    and maybe one of the reason why Nic doesn’t wanna visit their kids is becoz he doesn’t wanna see Cecilia as he doesn’t wanna give her a hope that they can reconcile their relationship (remember of one the article when Nic visited Cecilia’s house just to see the kids and HK paparazzi thought that they will reconcile soon)

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    • apple replied:

      You think that is a good enough reason for him not to visit his sons because he wants to avoid giving false hope to Cecilia? lol. What a good reasoning.. for a ‘good’ father.

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  23. Ren says:

    She probably still have feelings for Nicholas, but she’s probably sad because of how Nicholas treats his son with little attention. I’m sure that if Nicholas have so much time to stay with Faye Wong and spend time with her, why not spend more time with your children? And not to mention his children are at the age where if you neglect them now, they actually will grow up to not “like” you, if you get what I mean. I hope Nicholas can manage his time better to spend more time with his kids rather than his new ‘girlfriend’ that might or might not last forever, but kids will be forever there.

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  24. Kitty Doan says:

    after 11 years,, they go back with each others.,,, there are must be deeply love involved, Since Fay don’t look pretty than Ceci ,.. old and has 2 kids,,, but he choosing come back to her,,, she must have a nice personality or he feel so comfortable with Faye….

    Ceci has nanny,,, its a big help,,,

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  25. Nick says:

    No matter how busy you are you should spend time with your young kids. I would be piss too. She has the rights to be angry at him. Probably has nothing to do with their divorce. Can’t use work as an excuse to bypass spending time with your kids.

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  26. J. H. says:

    Off the subject a little – did Cecilia Cheung do something to her face (botox)? She looks different here.

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  27. Tess says:

    Tell me about it! Good marriage doesn’t always guarantee good parenting. Many wrking parents send their kids to bbsitters and don’t always enough time with their kids too. Since Cecilia has the custody of the boys she will have to learn to deal with it. Priority comes first, nic would need to provide financial support for them, if she’s complaining about everything, just surrender the boys back to the father and I think nic would be more than happy to have them back with him. It’s wrong for cclia to put the blame on her husband.

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    • moncheri replied:

      Uhh CC makes money too, for your information. She doesnt need anything from Nic. She can raise her kids alone if necessary, because salary of one movie deal she chooses is enough to last probably a year for the normal family.

      So neglecting his kids to make money to support themis total BS.

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      • nomad 822 replied:

        the pple who BUY the financial picture that Nic is working so hard for his career prospects, making global expansion forays in his Post- Production business expansion… flying here and there to appear as celeb cook … UNselfishly just all for his sons? WOW.

        and of course he gives nothing to his leecher parents who appear in every society function in designer duds?

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      • moncheri replied:

        @nomad, totally agree with you on that.

        Maybe he thinks his heart is in the right place, but clearly working harder/making more money cant be equated with quality time spent with family.

        I dont have much to say about his parents – i dont really think they deserve his help, to be honest. They werent exactly helpful to him nor were they the best role models.

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    • nomad 822 replied:

      It’s just beautiful justification Nic supporters like to BELIEVE he does.

      My point is – ok, let’s go along with the premise he THINKS his being neglecting and working hard is = justified providing for his kids.

      Who really knows what those kids actually get in child support? 1/8 of his earnings? 1/2 – seriously?

      At the end of the day, it’s still HIS own achievements the world sees.

      And meanwhile Nic-supporters go on and on about what a cushy life she had.

      Thanks moncheri for being a sane voice of reason. I hate it when women diss other women because they’re fangirling, even when you can clearly see this woman is trying so hard to be a mother, despite all odds.

      She had her own career, it was at peak and there was money there.
      Now she has to start almost from scratch as she put her own career on the backburner (while he was expanding his).

      That’s unfair balance already.

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  28. Christine says:

    How come no one question Faye! what’s her motive? She is said to be practice Buddhism n being a divorcee twice…I have doubt in her being better then Cecilia! I hope Cecilia will beat the odds n come out strong for the kids n also those who r bias to her…pretty obvious right with those negative comments….

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    • Vicki replied:

      We don’t need to question Faye. Her longtime fans know that she simply follows her heart and her motto is to “love without regret”. Don’t forget, Cecilia was harshly criticized for being the 3rd party between Faye/Nic the first time around. It left Faye broken hearted. Should we question Cecilia’s motives back then? No because it’s their lives not ours. All 3 of them are not perfect people, but being divorced doesn’t make you a lesser person. And religion has nothing to do with it. As humans, just try to be happy. Don’t live in such negativity.

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  29. M says:

    So Nic and Cecilia are both in china while their kids are in singapore alone, do nic pay child support
    Nic is doing what his father did to him

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  30. Funn Lim says:

    What a coincidence!

    Do as Gwyneth does;

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2766750/Gwyneth-Paltrow-draws-rota-balance-Chris-Martin-s-time-children-Jennifer-Lawrence.html

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  31. Funn Lim says:

    I do not know them enough to say who is right and who is wrong. All I can see is everytime Nic is with someone, Cecilia has her response and each is timed to counter that of Nics. So far Nic has yet to response and I suppose everyone has had an immature past. Cecilia too. Did he not spend enough time with his sons? Perhaps. It happens in all divorced family environment and there can never be truly equal time. Nic has to work, he has an empire to take care of, Cecilia works too but yes she has the higher burden of taking care of the children. So perhaps her perception is true. But don’t dismiss Nic and call him irresponsible because he is dating someone else. Some day Cecilia too will date someone else. People move on, it is now about time management. Who are we to know maybe Cecilia may have imposed rules whenever Nic wanted access, maybe she insisted on tagging along, it could be Nic wants a clear separation with Cecilia who may not agree on dividing the children’s time. It could also be because Nic may be an irresponsible father. Who knows? But is he? Spending lesser time with his sons may be that but parents nowadays work for a living. Even married couples put their children with nannies and see them lesser. Are they irresponsible? It is too easy to blame the father whenever a woman complains as much as it is easy to blame a woman when the marriage collapses. Point is they should act like adults and stop criticising the other because the children can read, they will know. Whatever is the problem, settle it behind the door.

    As for whether the manager has any right to comment, if the manager is his PR, I will say yes. Manager/PR represents their client and the accusation is a serious one. It deserves a reply and my general reaction is also that Cecilia should just let go of her bitterness. She may or may not love him anymore but she may still be angry. No point in being angry. Live a happy life, raise your sons well, find a good man and be better than him, that’s the way to go.

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    • nomad 822 replied:

      @ Funn:

      What you “see” is what the media plays up/

      Just as during the divorce, there was so much “insider info” … from who? The Tses are image-conscious PR machines who are savvy and smooth

      Cecilia is impulse-driven … she’s frank and doesn’t engage her brain before shooting her mouth/actions. The type whose bark is worse than their (sinister) bite behind.

      I am a fan of neither. Used to think both were irresponsible and immature … problem kids.
      But on looking at how they react during divorce – she just comes across more open and direct, with her heart in the right place as a mother.

      Just because the dude works hard making money and establishing HIS OWN career = it doesn’t mean he’s doing all that, and working hard for family reasons, for the family vision.

      It’s for HIS own reasons – at the end of the day; it’s his own money, his own career, his own life.
      Ditto his playtime – wow he works hard and he’s divorced, so he’s entitled to date too.

      Isn’t there some harsh judgemental double-standards at play? Everyone tells her to concentrate on being a great mom = where would she find the time/energy to date and play, while a full time mom and working too?

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      • msxie replied:

        If the Tse’s were ‘image-conscious’ , Nick’s dad would have concealed his womanizing and playboy lifestyle.
        It’s open knowledge that since his teen years, Nick had to work hard to pay off daddy’s monster debts incurred from gambling, bad business decisions and reckless spending. It’s no wonder Nick had such a troubled youth.

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  32. sazzy says:

    So nic and Cecil in China and wonder if they would meet up?

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  33. Aces_Abuevers08 says:

    Just like the theme song of “Frozen”, Let it go! :D.

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  34. j00ky says:

    This Mani Fuk… yeah, so you are a single mother too, but not everybody is a cold hearted *itch like you! The first time Ceci and Nic broke up, we all saw how much it affected Ceci, have some compassion!

    If Nic and Faye have true love, good for them. I just don’t agree with hurting people in the process of obtaining their desires.

    Stay strong Ceci.

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  35. winnie says:

    not a flattering photo … looks like the claws are out

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