Actor Bob Lam (林盛斌) has made a name for himself as a successful matchmaker. With his wide network of connections, he has paired up 8 to 10 couples. His successes include finding partners for Queenie Chu (朱慧敏), Sammi Cheung (張秀文), and Master Clement Chan (陳定幫). Bob revealed that his greatest wish is to introduce Mr. Right to Nancy Wu (胡定欣), who has been single for years.
Appearing as a guest on Sharon Chan’s (陳敏之) YouTube channel, Bob admits that his matchmaking success is not as easy as it looks. He has also set up many unsuccessful dates. From his experience, he realizes people who are still single in their late 30s or 40s usually have severe drawbacks in their personalities or are not upfront about what they want.
The hypocrisy irritates Bob. “They are in denial and say one thing and mean the other. They pretend they are okay with someone who may not be good looking, but in the end want a woman with a big chest and long legs. Women will also say that they don’t need a rich man, but would judge men based on the cars they drive.”
If someone is the total package, Bob agrees with the high requirements. However, if the person is still single at 30 to40 years old then then it is unreasonable to still be picky. “The man will complain that she has cavities, and the woman will say that the man looks stupid and is lacking energy. I’m already trying my best to help you! I’m not promising that it’ll work out for sure, but you need to compromise.”
While initial attraction is important, Bob feels it is possible for someone to grow on you as well. “If you feel that they are smelly or aren’t dressing well today, don’t rule them out! They can shower or you can teach them to shower more. People will improve!”
Bob shared that his next target is Nancy Wu (胡定欣), stating that she is, filial, beautiful, independent, and focused. Although Bob sees Nancy’s feminine and gentle side, others have different impressions. “Some men would ask me whether Nancy is mean, because they feel that she has a strong gaze and thick eyebrows.”
However, Bob also knows that Nancy “has her requirements such as physical attraction and whether they can communicate.” Bob promised, “I’ll work on it–please wait, Nancy!”
This article is written by Kiki for JayneStars.com.