Prior to Jessica Hsuan’s (宣萱) 41st birthday, she suddenly announced breaking up with her boyfriend for two years, Ruan Bester. While they were dating, the pair were passionately in love. On Friday, July 22nd, after returning from Singapore to Hong Kong, Jessica and Ruan attended Hacken Lee’s (李克勤) concert together. Afterwards, Jessica’s break up news circulated suddenly. When contacted by the reporter, Jessica appeared to be very calm and explained the reason for the split.
Nothing To Do With A Third Party
Jessica said, “Thank you for your concern. I am feeling okay. Perhaps everyone felt that the break up was sudden. However, the problem existed between us for a long time. We tried to save the relationship, but it did not work out.” Jessica noted that the biggest problem between them was that they possessed different values in life. They were not teenage boys and girls and easily change for each other. Since their pace were inconsistent, they could not continue the relationship. Jessica emphasized that the break up was not due to a third party involvement and was unrelated to [lack of ] emotional connection.
Reconciliation Possibility Low
When the reporter pointed out that Jessica and Ruan had attended Hacken’s concert together last week, she said that they did not decide to break up at that point yet. They decided to break up several days ago. Asked whether there was any possibility of reconciliation, Jessica said that she can not be certain about the future. Since the break up decision was decided over a long period of time, Jessica indicated that reconciliation would be difficult.
Did Not Take Vacation to Heal Love Injury
Jessica admitted that breaking up was always painful. However, she and Ruan had experienced happiness while together.There was no need to take a holiday to heal her feelings. Jessica added, “Breaking up is not a big issue. It is a greater problem to realize that you can not be together after marriage. It is a pity to give up a two-year relationship, however their was no need to force staying together due to this reason. How will you continue to be together for the rest of your life?”
Never Possessed Marital Intentions
Jessica and Ruan met with their parents in the past. Jessica especially traveled to South Africa to meet Ruan’s parents and marriage rumors were rife. While dating, Jessica often picked up her boyfriend after work and meeting each other’s parents was the sweetest thing. This was often typical of lovers. Jessica said that Ruan never proposed to her and that they did not possess the intention to get married.
Regarding her break up decision, Jessica’s parents had no opinion. Her parents just wanted her to be happy. What qualities did a man need to possess in order to marry her? Jessica noted, “I will not think about when I will date again. My work can be within my control. However, love feelings can not be controlled. I will just entrust these matters to God’s arrangement.”
Source: Ming Pao
Jayne: It sounded like an amiable break up under mutual agreement and careful consideration. I hope Jessica finds another love relationship with someone who possesses the same values and direction in love soon!JayneStars Media LLC reserves all copyrights. Reproduction in whole or in part without written permission is prohibited. By using the JayneStars website, you accept and agree to our Terms and Conditions of Use.