Nicholas Tse Seeking Legal Advice and Pondering Divorce Options?
Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse’s divorce rumors gained in strength this week. Yesterday, Nic’s lawyer flew to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia to dispense advice regarding the pros and cons of the couple’s divorce. Meanwhile, Nic’s mother, Deborah Dik (狄波拉), was gathering information in Hong Kong to ensure no one harmed her grandsons, Lucas and Quintus. Nic and Deborah worked together to increase their chances of winning the children’s custody.
Nicholas Tse’s Friend: “They Will Eventually Divorce”
Nic’ close friend revealed that Cecilia had pushed the stakes too far by sending the text message, “I want a divorce.” Although Cecilia regretted her divorce request, it was unfortunately too late. Nic was thoroughly disappointed in Cecilia and his decision to divorce remained unshaken. “Nic was very disappointed in Cecilia and felt she was too willful and extreme in her behavior. Nic is intent on divorcing, while Cecilia is busy scheming how to win back her husband’s heart through their two sons. Even if Nic softened his heart and decided not to divorce this time, he will definitely get divorced from Cecilia in the future.”
Nicholas Tse Seeking Legal Advice
Earlier, there were rumors that in order to pacify his demanding wife, Nic transferred property ownership rights to Cecilia. As a result, Nic’s $500 million (HKD) net worth had dried. Considering his sons’ future as well as his own, Nic consulted the advice of his lawyer, who arrived in Malaysia yesterday to advise on asset distribution and custody issues in case of divorce.
Cecilia Cheung Threatened Suicide?
An inside source familiar with Nic and Cecilia’s divorce situation revealed, “Someone told Deborah Dik that [Cecilia] told her friends, ‘If Nic does not want me back, then he will see me at the bottom of the IFC tower!’ Deborah was concerned that [Cecilia] may hurt Lucas and Quintus and was gathering information about the situation. If the pair were to divorce, hopefully Nic can obtain the custody rights.”
Nicholas Tse Returning to Hong Kong in July
Currently filming The Viral Factor <逆戰>in Malaysia, Nic will fly to Beijing to attend the promotion for Treasure Inn <財神客棧>next.Nic will complete the filming of The Viral Factor in July. Returning to Hong Kong, Nic will film an ad for a watch brand. On July 19th, Nic will attend a fundraising event for Chiu Tsang Hok Wan Primary School. This will be his first public appearance in Hong Kong since the outbreak of divorce rumors.
In addition, there were rumors that Gillian Chung (鍾欣桐) may be the third party in Nic and Cecilia’s marriage. Gillian and Nic became good friends while filming The Spirit of the Sword <花洗劍錄>, sparking Cecilia’s jealousy.Allegedly, Gillian may be the third party, invoking Cecilia to demand Nic hand over his financial assets.
Patrick Tse Changed His Judgment About Cecilia
Since Deborah Dik’s good friend, Cha Siu Yan, revealed the inside scoop behind Nic and Cecilia’s intensive arguments, allegedly Cecilia and Deborah had a fierce dispute as well. Reporters reached out to Nic’s father, Patrick Tse (謝賢)regarding the rumors. “I have not heard about this.” (Will you continue to support Cecilia as you did in the past?) “Cecilia gave me a very good impression in the past. Afterwards, some incidents took place. Let them take care of matters on their own. When they come to a decision, I will be Nic’s representative. He is my son; I have the right to do so!” (No matter what happens, will you stand by Nic’s side?) “Of course; we share the surname Tse. We are a family!”
Excerpt from Orientaldaily.on.cc
Jayne: We have conflicting reports that Nic and Cecilia may have reconciled. At the same time, publications such as Orientaldaily continue to speculate that Nic is intent on getting a divorce, since he is thoroughly disappointed in Cecilia.
I think this article is true. I have a feeling each is planning their move. But I am still concerned all the articles seems to suggest Cecilia is to be blamed and Nic is blameless. If Gillian is a true fact, wow, Gillian may have just buried her career (again). But I don’t think it is true.
Funn,
If Nic and Cecilia are indeed contemplating divorce so soon, I am very disappointed. Nic is allegedly thoroughly disappointed in Cecilia but he claimed to have known her rash personality inside-out prior to marriage.
In addition, fengshui masters said that Cecilia belongs to the gold element, which is very bad for Nic. However, Nic said that he didn’t mind and was willing to risk his life for his biggest love, Cecilia. He recounted how in their first date, they were driving separate cars and he had a widely publicized car crash.
Marriage is truly about how well you handle conflict resolution. Communication skills can be improved. Divorce is not the answer as kids are still young. If there is still love amidst the anger, hurt, and pain, they should put in more effort rather than consider legal options of how to split assets.
From the sound of the rumors, no one knows where Lucas and Quintus went? Patrick and Deborah allegedly do not know where they went. Cecilia is filming in Shenzhen. Who is taking care of the children?
Jayne,
You made some good points and I do believe that IF they do still love each other that they should give each other another chance. However, I have a feeling that has probably been done before and Cecilia probably took it for granted and keeps on demanding this and that. Therefore, I think that is why Nic is tired of it all. They have probably been through this cycle of fighting and then reconciling but this is the last draw…
I also think that while it is good to give the marriage another chance for the kids. But there is only so much anyone can take regardless of how much you love anyone. It is also not good or healthy for the kids if their parents stay in an unhappy marriage.
I don’t know how much you believe in fengshui and fortune telling, but I don’t really believe it. If I did, I would not believe it 100%. There are times that I can sense some truth in it, but not much. Maybe it is just a coincidence that their marriage isn’t working out, not because of what some feng shui master said.
I guess Patrick is now seeing Cecilia’s true colors and no longer thinks highly of her. It’s good that he is there for Nic since they are father and son. Like I have mentioned before, they are connected by blood so they will always be a family. But husband and wife can divorce in an instant…
If Nic repeated gives Ceci 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th chances, then she will never truly understand how her actions effect other people in her family nor will she reflect on her behavior as a wife/mother. She will only keep asking for more and more and give less and less. There is only so much someone can give in a relationship, at some point you just have to say “no more.”
Edison Chen should be held accountable for this. He was the one who went to the press and told them about Cecilia acting friendly to him. I think it took a lot of guts on her part to lend an olive branch and forgive someone who has hurt her so much. And now she gets shit for making the situation less awkward for the two of them in the future. life is so unfair for women.
We are all hearing conflicting news but from the looks of it, the divorce rumours are most likely true.Rumours are usually true if they appear over and over again and don’t sound too ridiculous. I had a feeling that the marriage would not last ever since the Edison incident appeared. This is sad but then again, maybe it is for the best. I don’t think it is healthy for them to stay in an unhappy marriage. I feel sorry for their kids since they are so young but their parents are already having problems. I hope that someone reliable can take care of their kids…
Somehow I doubt the rumour about Gillian, but then who knows?? If this rumour appears again and none of them come out to clarify it then there is a higher chance of it being true…Time will tell what is true and what is not.
Gillian has always been accused of being a 3rd party to many of the relationships in Hong Kong and I somehow do believe that there might be some truth in it:
1. 2R – Race Wong’s BF: They met on the set of “EX” and Gillian often text him. It was reported that she will text him very early in the morning and also when she is on the set and he is not. She will randomly text him pictures and Race was unhappy about it. Gillian refused to talk about the accusation, but Chapman did indirectly admitted that Gillian did send picture texts to Race’s boyfriend because he admitted that Gillian likes to send picture texts to people. Race’s BF never appeared at any of the promotion event for “EX” as Chapman didn’t want Gillian to have any bad rumors (because it was suppose to be her comeback film).
2. Stephanie Cheng and Benedict Dong’s relationship – Gillian was said to be the reason why Stephanie and Benedict ended their relationship. Again, Gillian refused to talk about the accusation and acknowledged the media that she is not close with Stephanie. Gillian and Benedict met through music as he wrote a song for her. When the media asked if Stephanie is willing to take a picture with Gillian, she directly said that if it makes everyone happy then she will definitely “play along”! However, Gillian always get very heated when asked about Stephanie. Benedict is very much like Edison, he was born oversea and is into the whole rapping. Maybe GillianGate II might be happening soon. 🙂
3. For years, Gillian has been accused of being the 3rd person in Bobo and Edison’s relationship. Bobo was the only girl Edison got caught with, and their relationship was an opened secret but Gillian was reported seeing Edison on the side too.
It is NOT surprising that Gillian is accuse of being the 3rd person in Nicholas and Cecilia’s relationship. Cecilia is not close to Gillian at all, but she is friend with both Joey and Ah Sa (who happens to be very close friends with Gillian, umm, a little strange?).
Hmm… Gillian has always striked me as more naive in love. I’m not a fan of hers and didn’t follow her news in the past, but I did watch the episode of hers on Be My Guest where she explained the Edison photo scandal.
Chriselle, that appearance did her no favours. I ended up disliking her more and switched off the TV disgusted. Like I said before, she should have and must have sacked her PR. It was the worst PR move, ever.
@Funn, I was really bothered by the way she spoke too. It was like she was going to cry any moment. I don’t know, but hearing her speak made me felt so pessimistic, but I was also interested in what she had to say since I never followed her news. I thought Ceci’s version of her talk about the scandal was way better and had more depth to it. Ah Gil basically sounded like she was the helpless victim the whole time. While both were involved in the scandal and Ah Gil must have consented to those pictures, but I don’t see Edison as a good man either.
I guess Gillian is not as simple and innocent as she looks. We should never judge anyone on just their appearance alone. I have seen her act and it feels so unnatural to me. The way she talks is annoying too…
If she is the third person again, shame on her… However, I don’t think Nic would want to get involved with anyone that was once linked to the Edison scandal.
u have a point, maybe Gillian likes being the 3rd person? she sees couple in love, is jealous and tries to stick her head in. Either that or she is overly NAive..
Also, i dont think Gillian and Ah Sa are really close, i was never a twin fan, but everytime i see them on TV, interviews, concerts or what not, they try to cut each other’s speech out. that is not a very synchronized girl team or ‘friendship’ i should say. If they were close, they would be ‘agreeing to each other’ and completing each other sentences, and not try to talk at the same time and etc…
This is an observation i noticed in Twins over the years.
@hello,
Really?? I always thought that Ah Sa an Gillian were close friends? I guess I should not always assume that the members of any group are close friends, but that is the case a lot of times too. I heard that Gillian was saying that Ah Sa is a good friend and supported her a lot during the Edison scandal. Maybe they have other ways of showing their friendship? I would talk over my friends too but only when we argue…
I honestly do not think Twins are “good friends” either. They are probably friends but not as close as they are market for their fans. I have “follow” them since their debut just because they have always been in-my-face but I’m not fan. Gillian is definitely not a very simple person, and not as innocent as she looks but quite dumb as well. Recently she admit during the JSG award earlier this year that she has very “few” friends and the only friends she have were the artists from EEG. She also acknowledge that she don’t know any of the newbies in EEG. It is not even that the Hong Kong people don’t like Gillian, not much artists in the industry seem to know/like her too on a personal friendship level. The “real” Gillian appeared after the EdisonGate! If anyone use weibo, I highly recommend Gillian’s weibo! She is always having cat-fights with people on weibo, and her blind fans will make sure the other party suffers a great deal from the cat-fight by posting harsh comment towards the other party. From the top of my head, Gillian fought online with Sammi’s assistant, an Mainland actress, a reporter from Mainland, and had an issue with Yumiko’s bf Andy (who happens to be her makeup sometimes). She also fought many other random fights. Also, I don’t think Nicholas’ personal assistant Adrian likes Gillian. She had question him why he didn’t follow her on weibo and he ignored her and just added her. However, after a few months he quietly deleted her off his friend list. Maybe Gillian likes being label as a 3rd party?
@ Pang
Gillian could have just been a very introverted person and not good at socialising. Thus, she has very few friends. She might be someone who does not open up easily to people.
I remember Mani talk about how Charlene always bring Gillian out to places etc when they first met. So, in the twins group, Charlene has always been the more sociable one.
Twins in their debut, didn’t like each other until the second year they are Twins. They said tat themselves. First, both the girl felt the other girl is annoying. Then I dun rmb wat accident bring them together (as they said) but they understood each other better and becomes closer.
I have a feeling that other than being naive and quite dumb, Gillian is also a very sensitive person (which explains her cat fights on Weibo). Normally, artists are quite mature and know better to start fights on a public micro-blogging platform where reporters seek news and build it up. Immature fans on Weibo start wars against who they perceive as their idol’s “enemy”, but I’ve never heard that artists deliberately do so. She feels like she’s been a victim in the Edison photo scandal and she probably feels some injustice. Is Gillian currently single too? If she was more outspoken, socialized more, and had more friends to turn to during rough times, she won’t have to take everything personally.
Edison is definately not a good guy at all. If you are addicted to sex like how he is, I don’t see how you can be a good guy…
EC said himself tat he is a bad boy. From the beginning, he is bad boy. He even stated that sex is his favourite sport.
@Fox, So Edison gave himself the image of bad boy? HK people is rather conservative and this can ruin his work opportunities. We know just how much sex means to him then. It’s a miracle he was even able to re-debut after the scandal. Was he reprimanded heavily by HK citizens back then?
@ Chriselle
Maybe the younger generation is not conservative anymore and Edison appeals to that group.
@Kidd, I think the younger generations in HK are much more liberal now, especially those who study abroad, but I still feel that HK society in general is still more conservative. So the older generation doesn’t have any say to this?
Ppl knew he is a bad boy and accepted that. But how bad he can be? After the scandal, they like opened eyes to see that he is even worse than they expected.
As for the youngster, meh, being fan is always bad in elder, so idolize a good boy or a bad boy, who really care?
Bad boy is one thing, being pervy about it is another. I suppose we are all attracted to being one of those who breaks the rules but do we really dare to do that ourselves? I saw MTV Awards the other day, censored non stop and I felt how crass those stars are acting. How crass and perv and all. Are we all that way now? Grabbing breasts, groping genitals, saying F word every other sentence, little girl lolitas, men sex starved… are we that sort of generation now? Is this progress or is this degression? I am not talking about morals, but I am talking about behaviour.
I can’t believe that he considers sex as a sport. It is true that the younger generation isn’t as conservative as the older generation. However, in Edison’s case, it is not just that… He seems to be addicted to sex and it makes me wonder why he didn’t enter the porn industry instead? That way he does what he likes and gets paid big bucks for it. Maybe he was afraid of STD’s and all so didn’t. But then again, in the sex photos, he probably did not even use protection so who really knows?
@ HTS
Why would he want to enter the porn industry when he’s already making big bucks in the mainstream entertainment industry?
Edison wants to be in porn industry? I doubt it. Liking something doesn’t always translate to a career choice unless he doesn’t have a career choice.
@Fox @HeTieShou
Isn’t sex every man’s favorite past time? It just happens that Edison had a photography fetish and he was vocal about talking sex. Some men regard sex as more private, while others like to talk to friends about their conquests and dirty jokes.
As a Chinese celebrity, Edison is one of the few men who openly talk about his sexual appetite. But does that make him a pervert or is he just sexually honest?
And how do you define a healthy sex appetite versus an unhealthy sexual obsession? While the photography fetish is odd, it’s not entirely abnormal.
Funn:
“I saw MTV Awards the other day, censored non stop and I felt how crass those stars are acting. How crass and perv and all. Are we all that way now? Grabbing breasts, groping genitals, saying F word every other sentence, little girl lolitas, men sex starved… are we that sort of generation now? Is this progress or is this degression? I am not talking about morals, but I am talking about behaviour.”
Since it’s the MTV Awards, it’s a show geared primarily towards American teenagers. To stand out from the crowd, many Hollywood celebrities adopt a sexually open and crass antics. The MTV Awards also have a “wild party reputation” and celebrities are encouraged to act this way to spur some controversy. Other awards shows, such as the Oscars, is criticized as too uptight, but you have some women pulling “accidental” nipple slips to grab headlines too.
American music videos have always pushed the limit in terms of sexuality. The amount of gyration, bikini clad models and skin shown has become the norm. Hong Kong music videos are adopting similar direction, where Kate Tsui and other celebrities have very suggestive dance moves.
Raymond Lam even “grabbed” his genitals in his concert and at press conference too. Is this a reflection of his crass personality or only an adoption of a more sexually aggressive persona to spur some controversy, grab headlines, and shock fans?
The majority of people have a healthy sexual appetite, as indicated even in a traditional society such as Hong Kong, where “3D Sex and Zen” has become a top-grossing film. People are not going there to watch only the special effects.
Celebrities adopting sexually open antics appeal to people’s inner “Id,” instincts bent on instant gratification, including sexual pleasure and even foul language, a lot of words which have sexual references. Why do most curse words in all languages refer to sexual acts mainly? Because they address the more baser emotions inside us, including primitive sexual instincts, which are used to express anger, alleviate frustration, and rebel against more “refined” expected behavior in society.
Are teenagers of this generation more crass? Yes and no. Crass parents will have crass children. Also, some teenagers go through a dark period characterized by anger and dark thoughts, in which they especially find comfort in foul language. The teenage years are an awkward cross where people are trying to come to terms with baser instincts versus a developing conscience.
Hollywood is not a good place to look to see what is normal. They tend to celebrate any kind of controversial behavior. While celebrities influence how people may behave, it is the home and friends that will have greater influence. With more dual parents working and spending less time with their children, some parents park their kids in front of tvs and don’t monitor what they are watching. If they are watching shows such as the “Simpsons,” “American Dad” and MTV, what values can these kids learn?
Outlets such as Facebook allows everyone to be famous if they want to and get the attention they seek. Crass behavior, including cursing, is used to seek attention. Some people just have it inside them (due to upbringing) but I believe it is a temporary stage that teenagers pass through.
Raymond Lam even “grabbed” his genitals in his concert and at press conference too. Is this a reflection of his crass personality or only an adoption of a more sexually aggressive persona to spur some controversy, grab headlines, and shock fans?
It’s a part of the dance moves. If you notice all the dancers in this dance move put their hands at this place. I’m watching the dance crew competition (an US show) and I often see this dance move. So I don’t think it’s something really special or horny.
@Kidd,
I guess being in the industry is way more exciting than being in the porn industry…
@Jayne,
Maybe I am still naive in the “sex” department. I used to think that all of my friends that dated were virgins until they officially got married. I finally learned that that was not the case. I also don’t really have any guy friends to talk to and it would be weird to talk to any guys about this kind of stuff anyways. Although I have all brothers, they of course would never show that side to me. My parents always told me that all guys are pigs. One of my close friends told me that all guys want it, but it’s just that some control it better than others. I guess I don’t know guys that well…I still remember 2 of my guy classmates telling me that regardless of how nice or educated a guy is, they are guys…I think that is true right??
@ HTS: You are 30+, rite? I think in this age, sex isn’t a really serious matter to scare.
@Pang,
Thanks for the info! I recently heard that Gillian had a cat fight with someone else on weibo too. I don’t know if that happens often or not since I am not a fan of hers and never really follow her news. From what you are saying, I guess Ah Sa and Gillian are at least normal friends since they are in a group together. I wonder how you can work and be with someone if you hated them so much??
Gillian probably doesn’t have a lot of friends because she is more introverted?? But it depends since forming close friendships take a lot of time and work. Maybe she doesn’t have the time for that?? Or she just doesn’t bother… No one really knows…
It’s funny how Patrick came out to defend Cecilia as basically being the best daughter in law but now he’s giving a new feeling as if he regrets saying those good stuff.
Of course since this “marriage crisis” uproar already involves 2 people from Hong Kong’s biggest scandal then why not add a third person which is Gillian. I hope Gillian comes out address this rumor before it gets out of hand and destroy what she been trying build once again. I for one don’t believe it but look what the media did with just a few rumors about Nic and Cecilia. My God the whole thing is just a mess!
I think that scandal will always come back and haunt everyone that was involved in it… It is a black mark on their record that will never go away….
eh, i thought two months ago he just said i love my wife more than my children?. Hope they work things out. Person that suffer most are their children since they still very young. “Divorce word” is a no no in marriage, easy to shoot out, difficult to take it back.
Totally agree and I don’t think you should ever demand a divorce unless things got really really bad to the point that nothing can save it. Once you blurt the word “divorce” out, you can never take it back…
Hahah. Sorry but the caricature/illustration cracked me up
If the Gillian rumour is true, then Nic always runs after Edison? Kidding.
Nic has been taking Edison’s sloppy seconds for awhile. Edison even banged his sister, now that is the nail in the coffin. It’s a shame too cause you’d figure Nic can get any hong kong tail he wants.
Nic came first. Nic dated Cecilia before Edison.
@Ekinfan, Really? Edison and Jennifer had a fling together? She only entered the showbiz for a few years and I always thought she was with her current boyfriend.
EkinFan, you’re spreading lies. Jennifer and Edison never had any rumors together. They were never even seen together. You need to respect her and her boyfriend.
Nic dated Cecilia first.
@Chriselle, don’t forget that Nick and Edison used to live in the same city when they were teenagers. It is possible for Edison to know Jennifer.
Jennifer sounds like a nice person from her Weibo messages. She constantly have conversations with her fans over Weibo, but sometimes I feel like she’s being overly kind and it comes off as fake. She always speaks of how grateful she is of everything and thanking everyone. Maybe this has to do with her being westernized and being raised in Canada. Grace Wong acts similarly too.
It’s kinda sad if Edison and Jennifer really had a thing before. Seems like one messed up family right there.
i think Nic = 1st, Chan Siu Chun = 2nd and Edison = 3rd in the list.
Cecilia has such a rough past…only Nic can accept her.
If I rmb rite, Nic pursued her first, not she pursued Nic.
If what Jason ‘sleep and tell’ Chu said is true, Jason Chu should be first. There’s also Daniel Chan.
Oops I totally forgot about jason and daniel chan!! haha thanks for reminding me.
Ok the sleeping list should goes like this :
1)Jason
2)Daniel Chan
3)Nic
4)Chan siu chun
5)Edison
6)Back to Nic…
“If what Jason ‘sleep and tell’ Chu said is true, Jason Chu should be first.”
If the rumor is true, it’s more of “sleep and brag”. Eugh.
Veejay, you can’t trust the media with all those rumored boyfriends. Both Cecilia and Jordan already made it clear that they never dated. They are only very good friends. The list should be in this order: Jason Chu (though, I think he or the media lied about them sleeping together because Cecilia already said she only saw him about 20 times from an old interview),
Dong Dong
Nic
Edison
Nic
Dating does not always equal to sleeping.
This year, when Cecilia’s brother opened his bar, rumors circulated that Cecilia also had a fling with Andy Hui while on the set of chinese version of Sex and the City. When reporters asked Cecilia about it, she avoided the topic by saying it was a big day for her brother and the attention should not be diverted.
Also, prior to getting married with Edison, she had a Causcian boyfriend that she openly acknowledged. They were spotted at bars and nightclubs together.
Over the last 10 years, Cecilia was involved with roughly 10 men. She is a beautiful celebrity after all with a lot of men interested in her. I don’t think the number of lovers is that astonishing considering normal people may have the same experience.
Typo, I meant to type getting married with Nic, not Edison.
Which is why girls, always look far far farrrrrr ahead. Because whether you agree or disagree, your past always catches up with you so better behave first and not regret later.
I agree with Jayne that dating a lot of people does not necesarily mean that you are a slut or bad person and are unfaithful in love or anything like that. It just depends on the circumstances and what a particular person does.Therefore, just because Cecilia dated a lot of people in the past does not equate to her sleeping with all of them. My mom who is overly traditional always thought that dating a lot people meant that a girl was a bad girl and can’t be faithful in love. I don’t believe that although it may look like it from the outside. I don’t think everyone is lucky enough to meet their future spouse on just the first try although some do. Therefore, you need to date around and get to know people. It also depends on what stage you are in your life so timing is really important as well. I have known normal people who have dated way more people than Cecilia so I don’t see what the big deal is that she dated many guys in the past. Isn’t that what a lot(not all)of celebs do before they get married??? Of course, we don’t know for sure since many of them hide and lie about their relationships.
Hi Cloud,
I believe Jordan and Cecilia have indeed dated before from a chinese media which showed pics of them vacationing at Thailand’s beach if i’m not mistaken. Jordan was seen rubbing sun tan oil at Cecilia’s back who clad in bikini. Both had spent a week or less together in Thailand and they really look like a couple… I just can’t find or extract the pics to show you but I swear I’ve seen pics of them together being intimate at Thailand. If you said their action by rubbing each’s other back with sun tan oil isn’t being intimate like a couple…I really dunno how to describe their relationship then..and also Jordan’s wife Cherrie bans Cecilia from attending their wedding, isn’t that mere coincidence or fishy?
Veejay, I know about the Thailand incident. She talked about that incident with Xiao S. In the interview she said just because she was hanging out with her guy friends, it doesn’t mean she’s dating them. Rubbing sun tan oil on a friend’s back doesn’t suggest dating, at least where I grew up in Sunny California. Cecilia and Jordan did an interview together as well, and also said that they’re only good friends. Here’s the interview of both her and Jordan– http://video.sina.com.cn/v/b/1188855-1275653032.html
Hi Cloud,
thanks for the link to the interview, I still sense something fishy between them. LOL. But how do you explain that Jordan’s wife Cherrie bans Cecilia to attend their wedding?
Since Nic has only released one statement saying he did not ask for separation while Cecilia has not released any, I will keep my hope up that their marriage will stay intact.
Ever since Cecilia’s sex scandel I already knew they aren’t gonna last. Guessing it’s gonna be over within the next 2-5 yrs. It seems like is true. I personally don’t believe in divorce. You’ve once love eachother to death and that love will show once again if each of them step back and admits their own faults. Nobody is perfect and no couples are perfect, everyone fights even siblings, I fight with my parents often time but I always go back to them and love them the same…your love will only grow stonger if you work together as a team not enemy! Cecilia or Nick…if you once believe marriage is forever you should always stand by it. Don’t give up! My cousins in law, their parents was divorce…the mom sues for more child support etc while the kids blame themselves for their separation. It is just not healthy and it’s a life long damage. No kids deserve that!
My god, so much drama, now they dragged Gillian into it too. They should make this into a drama series…LOL
Can the paparazzi just leave Gillian alone? ‘The Spirit of the Sword’ was filmed way back in 2007. That was 4 years ago.
Reading the article, the one I feel most sorry for beside Gillian (who was innocently dragged into this mess) is Cecilia. It seems like everyone is against her. This article didn’t picture a bad woman. This article picture a desperate woman, an unhappy woman, a helpless woman. It’s like one against many.
Maybe she is, but you’re right, so far all the articles are either implying or outright claiming it is 100% without a single doubt Cecilia’s fault.
Hehe, if new filming period then Ah Sa should be doubted more than Ah Gill.
But as Ah Sa is in love relationship with William Chan (as she said), the reporters can’t have anyone to link but Ah Gill.
True, if it is a new filming period then Ah Sa will be more doubted but Cecilia often speak to Charlene on weibo. Ah Gill looks more guilty because she has had history of being a 3rd party to several relationships. 😉
It is true that many reports have put Cecilia in a bad light. I think it would be great if she spoke out but she hasn’t…Therefore, some may be speculating that the reports may be true because she is not even making any effort to defend herself.
I just hope that this article about Nic still considering divorce is not true. *fingers crossed!
To be honest, I was taken by shock when the news about Ceci being so insecure, passionate about picking fights with Nic to control his assets, and controlling surfaced. I know Ceci had a tough childhood with her father being in a triad, Nic breaking up with her, and her scandal with Edison, but I always thought of her as a strong woman who isn’t as emotional as she is depicted in all these news articles. I remember reading an interview of her in Time Magazine and when she was asked if all that she has been through in her childhood has made it easier for her to convey her emotions onscreen, she said no. She is it’s actually the opposite and because she’s been through so much, there isn’t any emotion she hasn’t felt. However, that was back in 2000 and she went through so much after that. I thought she was much more mature. I’m quite disappointed that she turned out to be so insecure, especially when Nic is like the man of the century.
I also hope that the divorce rumours are not true. I am very surprised about all these rumours after Nicholas made that touching speech to Cecilia at the awards ceremony and publicly declared his love for her in interviews.
Oh pleeaase… dear Nic, get rid of the woman, she is definitely BAD NEWS!!! Get a divorce and start afresh with someone who is worthy of you. You are too good for the likes of her!!! If rumours about Gillian Chung is true, then I am disappointed in you. For heavens sake, you have better taste than that!!
I actually think that divorce is coming soon for the couple esp Patrick Tse change in words. A week ago, he was still in full support of his DIL.
Anyway, its easy to get married but difficult to mantain one.
I agree that its very easy just to sign a piece of paper and say the golden words, I Do etc… and love forever. Its very sad that alot of marriages break down these days. But in this instance I think Nic would be far better off and hope that the whole thing would be over soon so that he would be put out of his misery and start afresh with someone else. Someone totally different to her and hopefully much nicer. Good luck to him and I also hope that he gains custody of the kids.
This is getting too serious!!
Nic, time to move on! This is so strenous for everyone and ceci needs a therapist. I salute u for standing by her side for the past few years with all the scandals. I must say not everyone could do that, not me, at least…
I don’t believe in the Nic-Gillian rumor. I doubt he would want to get involved with somebody who has been linked to Edison.
I think it is time for Nick to move on as well, he can do better then having a wife like Cecilia who is constantly threatening him with the word “divorce”, using her children as “bargaining chips” and telling friends that she will committ “suicide”. This is not a marriage, its blackmail! If it is not a happy one then it is time to end it. If they survived this particular scandal this time, the atmosphere in this household will never be the same. It will forever leave a black mark in their marriage.
As for Patrick Tse, in all his interviews with reporters, he is constantly repeating the same things about Cecilia and he doesn’t say anything else aside from:
1. good daughter-in-law by giving him grandchildren
2. gave up her career when she was at the peak of stardom
He probably doesn’t have a high opinion of Cecilia but he can’t really say anything negative about her for the sake of his son’s marriage. After all, Patrick has been around the E-world for a long time, it is important for him to keep the Tse’s family name in a positive light with the public.
I don’t think it is just the scandal that is rocking their marriage but so many other things and it seems like Cecilia is responsible for a lot of it. I think it is important to compromise and give and take in a marriage, but it seems like she just takes and takes and it is straining Nic and his fiances.
But yea, the scandal will forever be a black mark on all of the people that were involved. Therefore, I wonder if everyone involved will ever be happily married to anyone since how many people and their families will be able to accept people with such a rough past?? I think Cecilia had that luck but sadly she messed it up. I guess that not everyone is able to enjoy and cherish everything they have but instead take it for granted which is sad…
I do agree with u. I guess I didn’t specify about other events must have taken place first before leading them to this irreconciliable stage. Yeah, she really messed it up.
She certainly is a good looking woman but beauty does fade. To me, inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. She certainly takes the famous line from a movie “Greed is Good” to heart.(sorry, can’t remember which movie this line is from)
I agree with you as well which is why I think that when 2 people love each other, it should always be based on more than just physical beauty. Inner beauty is always better and that is what lasts with time and defines you as a person rather than just physical beauty.
But if Cecilia is originally like that then nothing can change how she is. I thought that being a wife and mother can really change you but it did not seem to change her at all.
HeTieShou,
Being a mother doesn’t really change to a better one. I hae seen it with my own eyes… people around me like my frens and relative once they become a mother they becoming more selfish and behave like a monster mother. It is totally different generation unlike our mother generation whereby mothers is view as being gracious and open heart. I totally have a different view now on celebrating mothers day for this new generation mothers!
Alexis Lim,
Yea, I think you are right.. I have seen guys become more selfish after becoming a father too. They just care for their kids and wife and that’s it… But for some people, they do become better people after becoming a mother since they are more mature… It just depends on the person and it can go both ways…
You’re right…on some mothers, I used to know a mother who would hate anyone who does not love kids or say her baby is cute… pretty scary 🙂
Alexis,
What do you mean by being a monster mother? Loud and scolding children in public?
If I remember correctly Cecilia said that whoever she marries has to sign something like a contract on no matter what happens she gets the custody of the kids
it was when she went on Kang Xi (??)
I think that is so messed up of her to make anyone who marries her do that(if it is true anyways). Who said that she will be the best one to take care of the kids? Also, so what if you sign a contract. If the circumstances for the contract were not met, then you have the right to break it.
I hope this beautiful couple will discuss over this big issue, when the problem is money it can be solved then. Family they have built I hope they will not let this problem which is common to many married couples to destroy it. It is not worth it. Please give one another a opportunity to continue the marriage and to have more beautiful children. Do not let your children suffer for matters that can be solved. Money can be earned but happy family is from both of you, Nic and Cecila’s effort. In marriage there is no right or wrong when you are in either of their shoes. I hope they make amend before they take any drastic action against one another whom they love. We should be more forgiving to our spouses for we are not perfect beings.
I think Cecilia is becoming a bit of a joke. Oh yeah, commiting suicide. Hell would freeze over the day she does that. She loves life too much and with all her money NO WAY jose!! If she does, I would be the last to cry at her funeral…
I think Cecilia is probably just using suicide to blackmail Nic so that he won’t leave her. I also highly doubt that she will actually do it.
Nic. got what he asked for. He should’ve known that Cec. is a little crazy. Ofcourse she won’t commit suicide it’s just a part of her plan to keep Nic. staying with her. Nic. should leave her anyway…
Agree. There is no way she will commit suicide, she is just saying that to gain sympathy from the public. While she still has her youth and beauty, she can always latch onto another unsuspecting man who can give into her endless demands.
Guess some guys wouldn’t mind doing her for fun since she still looks ok but with a freaking annoying voice. With regards to marriage only gwailo or some soft rice eaters would consider her as wife material. Why risk marrying a lunatic?
Agree with you and I feel sad if they do have to divorce. If they do, I hope that she will learn from it and not do that to another innocent guy.
@exodius: lol, you are hilarious.
It’s getting even uglier now because now I even see articles of Cecilia choose Lucas while Deborah’s side will take Quintus. Poor children
More like articles saying after divorce Cecilia choose to take Lucas while Deborah gain custody of Quintus since Cecilia can only take 1 child.
Yea, I heard about that too and I feel even sadder for the kids since they may be split up if that happens. I think it is sad that as siblings you will not even be able to grow up together. I hope that they will not become strangers when they grow up. It is sad that they may lose the bond that they are supposed to share as brothers growing up together…
I just think it is terrible to separate the 2 little brothers. My heart goes out to these 2 innocents.
It is extremely sad that those 2 little sweet kids have to suffer because of this whole ordeal. They are still too young and should be enjoying their childhood, but sadly things that don’t turn out the way that everyone wants.
Dont you guys think this sounds like a dramatic TVB series plot
you can choose many things but parents aren’t one of them!
Yea, you can’t choose your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles,etc… This whole thing does sound like a TV series plot. I wonder if anyone would dare to adapt it into a series plot though.. They may get some ideas and change things around or else they may get sued.
This scandal got many plots. In laws fighting, wife’s dark past secret blown out, husband and wife pretend happiness in public but have crisis behind the scene, brothers separated when still too young.
@Vivien,
Yea, it does but I think those plot ideas have all been used before…
it would be hard to sue TVB. “any similarities are due to coindidence” LOL It sure will be more interesting than retarded girl falling in love…
Well, I wasn’t thinking of only TVB doing it… I guess if they can turn it into a family drama, it would be really interesting…
As they all younger than 8 years old, I blv that the mom has advantages in competing the right to have both, except the part the couple do a deal and separate them.
I don’t think the court will split custody. It will be both or nothing. No midge will separate the sibling.
@HTS
Rofl that’s why this scandal feel like a TVB series it has the plot recipes for making of an epic family drama rofl
Well wouldn’t exactly call it a scandal as it’s normal for married couple to divorce.
This news have given TVB lots of material to study and hopefully they can come up with a interesting drama…
I also wonder if TVB will actually take some ideas from this whole ordeal to make it into a drama?? But then again, hasn’t all of these similar themes been used before??
Yeah pretty sure it has been done before but maybe not when both parties are celebs?
They all should be on Reality TV shows, now thinking of a name for the show shall be interesting.
HeTieShou, of course dating a lot doesn’t make one a slut. But people can make presumptions and also assumptions and you know once people form assumptions it is very hard to shake off such assumptions, especially if that is your boyfriend meeting 10 of your past boyfriends or your future mother in law finding out you once lived in with ex boyfriends or filmed sex tapes and she doesn’t like that. I know you shouldn’t give a damn to what people think, it is your life but sometimes before you act and feel you need your independence and your devil may care attitude, just stop and think, do I need to do this? Because you don’t know about your future especially when you’re young but maybe some day you wish to make something of yourself, and to have your very very naughty past coming back to haunt you, like your drug habits, your fondness for swearing, all those which you can control and you did not, will surely make life unnecessarily difficult. Life is actually a longer journey than many would think, decades on, you never know where you will end up. If you intend to end up somewhere decent, somewhere prominent, somewhere respectable, then perhaps you must treat yourself and every of your decision with respect. You reap what you sow.
What you can’t control, like your family, or what they do, I always believe family should come first unless they’re not worth a single moment of your life regretting not helping. But if it is your background that is causing you hardship, that abusive father, that gangster brother, that easy mother, that wanton sister, those which you can’t control, you can only accept, move on. But what you can control, what is within your means and ability, maybe it is time to do a bit of strategizing and thinking.
Problem with youngsters these days, they never think. They think a sex tape is the way to stardom, they think a bit of harmless sexy nude photo to a boyfriend won’t hurt, etc but in the end it will. Your boyfriend will show you off, that tape will mysteriously end up somewhere online and anything online is online for infinity. If you don’t want to subject yourself to such humiliation, then perhaps think about it first before doing something.
Is life all about short term things? Cheap publicity? Stupid mistakes? When it comes back to haunt you, you can cry about it but don’t blame others for laughing, pointing fingers, blowing up your picture as their face for their imaginary times with you etc. It sounds harsh, and disgusting but that is the truth. It is not ok to act easy, be easy, and get away easy. Same for men, not ok to let everyone walk all over you, act weak, act dumb. I am sick to death of people saying I can do whatever I want, it is my right. Of course it is. But when you feel shortchanged by what others make of what you think was right, go on and complain but you can’t stop the pervs and the critics from saying or doing something.
Just don’t be stupid.
I am one who thinks a girl who dates a lot is not a slut. She is just someone exploring her options. But just don’t get into situations where you compromise yourself. Everybody should strive to be classy, elegant, charismatic, chilvarous, gentlemanly, etc. If you must do what you must do, do it discreetly. Problem with human nature is the tendency to boast, to show others how they could and did and then think they got away with it.
You can blame your parents for not raising you well. But at some point you are old enough to raise yourself. Then ask yourself, what sort of person you wish to be? What sort of person you would like to be perceived? If you’re those who doesn’t care what people think, then go on. But every human being in the end does care what others think. Those who says they don’t is either unfeeling (deep emotional issues) or lying to themselves. Maybe you will think this is hypocrite isn’t it, but anything that will serve you well in the end is in the end must be beneficial. Kinda selfish of me, myself and I but I see all these young girls exposing themselves, guys dating 1 girl after the other, etc, I would like to know 5 years from now, what would happen? I will tell you what would happen. The girl will meet a decent guy and wants to marry him and then write to aunt agony column and asks “Should I tell him of my 20 ex boyfriends” . You don’t have to of course but it may eat you up.
So in the end after my long rant, it is not ok to disrespect yourself by exposing yourself. You will think what respect has got to with all these. Maybe not, but for me, my reputation is everything. I strive hard to build my reputation, I would like to maintain my reputation. Sometimes boring decent girls aren’t leading a boring non eventful life. You don’t need to be a bad girl to be interesting. You don’t need to be with a bad guy to feel dangerous. Be decent to everyone and most of all be decent to yourself, guy or girl. Learn the word NO and incorporate into your own dictionary. That’s what I am saying.
Funn,
Deep and philosophical as always. Thanks for sharing your passionate views and wisdom.
“Life is actually a longer journey than many would think, decades on, you never know where you will end up.”
Although you spoke primarily about one’s dating choices and impulsive actions while in love, the above statement applies to all things we do and the things we say.
Yes life is only a few decades long, but most people choose to live in the present and easily forget the collective past, only zoning in on certain hurtful or joyous moments. Most people can’t see themselves one or two years into the future and derive deeper meaning, especially for non-religious folks it is even harder.
Thanks for your long and insightful post Funn. I actually never thought that a girl that dated a lot is a s***. I just said that my mom thinks that due to her overly traditional views since she is from the older generation. I often argue with her because of that… But she is better now and knows that it is not easy to meet your future husband/wife when you date only a few people. It varies from person to person of course. My friend was lucky to meet and date only 1 guy in her whole life and is happily married to him. However, that does not happen that often.
Of course everyone cares what others think to some extent, but some care more than others. My mom cares more than I do what others think and face means everything to her. I do care but it depends on who the person is as well. Also, as long as I am not doing something stupid, illegal, bad or anything that will hurt anyone, then I should not be scared to think how others will think of me.
No one knows what the future will hold. Heck, when I lost my father, it just happened that fast and I did not even expect it… Your life can change right the next day without you even realizing it. I want to live the life for the present and future and not remember the miseries of the past. I cherish my fond memories from the past since it makes me happier person… Life is short so we should all live it to the fullest if we can.
Also, you don’t know how long you would live. My grandma lived until 100, but not many people can live that long.
Agree with you on most of your views, however i still think you can achieve great things even with a messy background. For instance Bill Clinton is still doing alright and the most talentless “s***” ever Paris Hilton is also making lots of cash for doing pratically nothing…
This is deep and inspirational. Thanks for sharing. 🙂 Most definitely agree that many youngsters only think about the present and don’t plan ahead for their future. Responsibility seems to be too much for them.
I hate Edison & I pity her current girlfriend.. Hv to bear all the rumours after all these years.. As for Cecillia.. I dont blame her.. She’s in the entertainment line.. It’s a friendly gesture to smile or say hi.. even to someone u don’t like . What happens is Cecillia ignored Edison on the plane..? I am sure that the media will write something like Cecillia is still hurt after all these years & does not have a forgiving Heart..
As long as she is not caught cheating behind her Nic anymore, I will still support her.. Anyway the scandal between her & edison happened before their marriage.
If Cecillia does not love Nic, she wont try to reconcile. Knowing her, I am sure she can still find other man if she wants.. Moreover, she has most of Nic’s assets.. So if $$ is wat she want’s she already got it. That shows tat Cecilla still love the hb & family.
If Nic is reading this blog.. I hope he can reconsider. I am sure hurt takes time to heal, but don’t talk like Cecillia is very happy about it either. Every mother can’t bear seperating with their children and children need a father & mother to be considered as a family.
Don’t make harsh decisions just because of the media’s reaction.
To reconcile, it takes 2 to clap .. If you have firmly decided tat is the girl u want, then make the best out of the marriage.
“I pity her current girlfriend.”
I think it was Fox who mentioned that Vincy doesn’t care about his scandal… but that also makes me wonder what type of woman Vincy is. So she doesn’t mind her boyfriend sleeping with other women or is she merely tolerating his behavior because she loves him that much? Still, I find it hard for any woman to have any long-term relationship with Edison.
I think Vincy have insecurity issues just like Cecilia. Every photos I seen of her, she has her head down whether she with Edison or solo. I’m thinking Edison was her very first love so it hard for her let go so easily. I also feel Edison refuse to leave Vincy because he knows that with his reputation that another woman will not put up with his perverted ways. Even if Edison were to admit in public he has 3 girlfriends Vincy isn’t going anywhere. A sad situation!
I still wonder why VIncy is with Edison. I wonder if it is because of fear or some other reason??