Yang Mi and Cecilia Liu Find Happiness in Love

By on November 14, 2013 in NEWS

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November 13 was a momentous day for Chinese entertainment relationship news, with Cecilia Liu (劉詩詩) publicly admitting to her relationship with Nicky Wu (吳奇隆), and Yang Mi (楊冪) announcing that she and Hawick Lau (劉愷威) had registered their marriage and were planning to hold their wedding in January. Both revelations were posted on the celebrities’ Sina Weibo accounts on the same day. Yang Mi and Cecilia Liu possessed a tight friendship in the past, and while they have less time to spend together due to their demanding careers, they did not forget to congratulate each other in finding happiness in love.

2009: Becoming Fast Friends

Cecilia and Yang Mi first met in 2009 on the set of Chinese Paladin 3 <仙劍奇俠傳三>, where they became friends in two days after discovering that they had similar interests and personalities. They grew so close that they would often pretend they were kissing each other when posing for photos, and even described their friendship as “love at first sight.” Fans held them up as proof that true friendship could exist in the entertainment industry.

“In many of my previous dramas, the friends I made would part ways after filming wrapped up,” Yang Mi once shared when asked about this rare friendship. “But that’s not the case with Cecilia and I. We are definitely that type of good friend who can still shop, eat, and chat with one another even after filming ends.”

2011: Soaring Popularity, Rumors of Discord

In 2011, the two shot to fame when starring in separate Qing Dynasty-era time-traveling dramas – Yang Mi in Palace <宮> and Cecilia in Bu Bu Jing Xin <步步驚心>. Because the two series shared many similarities, netizens took to comparing the lead actresses, leading to rumors that the two were at odds.

Recently, a netizen also revealed that during the filming of Chinese Paladin 3, Yang Mi angered the drama’s producer, Karen Tsai (蔡藝儂), by separately endorsing an online game. Tsai, who happens to be the CEO of Cecilia’s management company, expressed her discontent in an online post, and blocked Yang Mi from promoting Chinese Paladin 3. This reportedly caused Yang Mi to be on bad terms with Cecilia, who felt like she was caught in the middle.

Both actresses denied any feelings of discord, and Cecilia shared that she and Yang Mi always dismiss these rumors with a laugh. “Everyone wants to see us not getting along,” she said, “but that’s not the truth.”

Due to their rising popularity, Cecilia and Yang Mi grew increasingly busy and had less time for each other. Yang Mi said, “In the entertainment industry, one of my closest friends is Tiffany Tang (唐嫣). A few years ago, I was very close with Cecilia Liu as well, but we are a little more distant now. I’m not saying that we’re not good friends anymore, but we don’t have as much time to spend together as we become busier.”

Source: Hunantv.com; CRI.com

 

This article is written by Joanna for JayneStars.com.

86 comments to Yang Mi and Cecilia Liu Find Happiness in Love

  1. Terminator says:

    It’s ironic that both are into old geezers.
    LOL!

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    • Hannah replied:

      LOL

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      • windy replied:

        hahaha LOL….

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    • baibing replied:

      Except Cecilia got the “short” end of the stick…hahaha. Shorter and father looking.

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      • windy replied:

        To be fair, HL is NOT that tall either? hahaa… but def YES on Nicky Wu being shorter, older looking and a father figure. LOL…

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      • Terminator replied:

        But more importantly, RICHER!

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      • sky replied:

        but nicky is way better looking..

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  2. Hannah says:

    Is Yang Mi all natural? She looks like she had some work done. LSS looks natural though.

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    • ping0 replied:

      I believe Yang Mi shaved down her nose hehe, looks better then the old nose 😀

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    • HeTieShou replied:

      Yes Yang mi had work on her nose but I think that was it. I saw her childhood photos and she looks almost the same. Cecilia May have had some minor work done as well.

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  3. ping0 says:

    They S/O are not that old compared to other stars husbands. At least Hawick and Nicky aren’t old and ugly looking right? And they do make the two happy so, let’s just wish them the best!

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    • windy replied:

      Hawick Lau does look young still but I can’t agree w/Nicky one. Haha…LOL..

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    • baibing replied:

      Nicky is way ugly. UGH.

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      • baibing replied:

        Let’s hope cecilia can handle the pressure of being in the spotlight this much since she’s so low-key. God knows she cracked even when fans were questioning her when they had the weibo chat thing awhile ago.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        I think she can with a media savvy Nicky beside her. I think her previous cracking was because she was under pressure to keep quiet about the love affair. Good thing about China is they’re more relaxed on entertainers having a relationship. Since almost all fans want this coupling after BBJX, I think the fact this is now a reality and with fans’ blessing, I think Cecilia can handle it. Looks like things are pretty serious between the both of them.

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      • Joanne replied:

        LOL..Obviously that both of you didnt watch BBJX!

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      • advo replied:

        Can anyone elaborate this “cracking under pressure” thing? I only recall there was the weibo thing with Yuan Hong, is that what you’re talking about?

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      • msxie replied:

        Nicky is ugly? You need glasses.

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      • jinny replied:

        I had a magnifying glass and he looked twice as ugly.

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      • windy replied:

        msxie,
        If you really think Nicky Wu is handsome then you need glasses too? haha LOL..
        Yes, I didn’t watch his so called great series w/the girl but even if he is a great onscreen character, I will NEVER think he’s remotely cute let alone good looking. Haha sorry but true. Even the most expensive magnifying glass probably still won’t make him handsome. ahha…

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        Beauty is in the eye of beholder. I think Nicky is attractive and at least he is natural while Hawick got work done.

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      • choco-bunny replied:

        jinny and windy, i couldn’t help laughing at your comments, lmao

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      • windy replied:

        choco-bunny,
        Haha LOL… when i saw what’baibing’ & ‘jinny’ wrote, I was also cracking up cuz I also never find him attractive in any way but I don’t want to point it out so they made me ‘LOL’ so hard haha…. n this person saying we need glasses just cuz v don’t find him cute, attractive or whatever LOL…Are you serious? I mean, sometimes I think ppl like certain artists cuz they love their onscreen character n transcends that admiration into their off screen reality person but oftentimes that is NOT the case. He is not good looking in the traditional sense IMO at least. HTS – she says ‘Beauty is in the eye of beholder’ fine, thats her believe but at least she does not go, they you need ppl glasses if you don’t find him attractive or handsome. Hello, all of eyes tell us differently ok? haha LOL…

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  4. charlie says:

    which one is which?the one of the left has a big forehead

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    • sky replied:

      right is YM, left is CL

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    • E replied:

      Left is Cecilia Liu and the right is Yang Mi.

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    • Lori replied:

      Left is cecilia liu and the right is yang mi.

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      • charlie replied:

        ok thanks guys.

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  5. jasmine7 says:

    Those who critised these girls for falling for ‘old geezers’ still have a lot to learn about love or understand about loving someone (pardon if you’re married, single, older or younger set). It’s obvious that all you care about is looks.

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  6. zheni says:

    Nicky and Shi Shi’s relationship bought a lot of joy around but also bought out a lot of shamefully shallow, nasty people. Just because Nicky is 17 years older than Shi Shi that automatically makes him a creep and her an idiot apparently. I shake my head at those of you who cannot look past appearances/age and probably have never experienced real love that transcends beyond physical attraction. It’s absolutely disgusting to see the kinds of things those people write about Nicky and Shi Shi, who are both wonderful, warm and down-to-earth. I wish them both all the love and happiness possible and Yang Mi/Hawick a long lasting relationship!

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    • teru replied:

      Don’t over react. I think Nicky and HL are old but I still love them both.

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      • windy replied:

        hahahah EXACTLY… Lucky them on getting those young girlies LOL….

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      • zheni replied:

        Please don’t try to tell me something like that as if I’m reacting for no good reason until you’ve read the kind of comments I’m talking about. People like windy are just very mild cases of what I’m talking about lol.

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    • Funn Lim replied:

      17 years is a huge gap and there is an accurate sense of wonder and concern for especially the younger party. But it does depend not just on the gap but also at what point of gap. Meaning Shishi is I believe 26? She is not some late teens or early 20s. So 17 years is not that huge “gap” per se. Maybe they do have the same mature mind.

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      • Fox replied:

        Lolz, if someone is mature, 15 can have mature mind whilst 26 or even 50 can be immature. Age isnt the matter but the mind. And Shi Shi doesn’t need to be mature to match Nicky, who noe if he loves her naivety.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        15 is not a good number to quote. In some countries it is statutory rape. And a guy should never approach a 15 year old even if she has the maturity of 50.

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      • Fox replied:

        In most of codes, 15 won’t be directly considered as statutory rape if the girl agrees with the sex deal. 15 is the age that many countries allow to start to work (only need the approval of parents). In many countries (including HK), 15 is already legal age. So 15 is the perfect number to quote :).

        13 is the sensitive number you wanna see. But hey, Islamic allows 8 to get married :P. A guy can approach a 15 year old with maturity of 50, but he needs to learn the penal codes in prior to protect himself.

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      • advo replied:

        @ Fox

        Actually, there is scientific studies that argue young people’s brains are not fully developed until mid 20s. So no matter how “mature”, they can still be prone to bad judgment. Ergo 15 is not the same as 26.

        Nicky doesn’t need to choose a gf who is mature, but we DO think SS is more mature. Hence she’s a 26 year old but more mature for her age, which makes the mental distance smaller. And no one is arguing that she has as much romantic experience as he does, which can cause just as many problems as not being on the same mental wavelength.

        Yes, Islamic allow 8 year olds to marry. And it’s gross. So I guess if that’s the benchmark then 15 is alright with you? Furthermore, aren’t you forgetting that a lot of countries also have an age cap on how much older the other person is allowed to be, or it is still statutory rape? That’s a pretty interesting detail in the discussion about large age gaps, don’t you think?

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      • Fox replied:

        I’m not the one who care for age gap, advo, from the very beginning. I’m quite supportive to big age gap couple unless it’s too big like 80 dates 30.

        I also dun think the teenagers are less maturer than the mid 20s, experienced by ppl around me. Today I watched the movie Ender’s game and it enhances my thinking that we should never underestimate the children.

        Talking about laws and legal, I just wanna provide facts. Law of many countries considered 15 as mature enough to make decision. Tat’s why I choose 15 in my post. 15 but not 13 or 18, other two important benchmark in one’s life in accordance with laws. Mind wise, it’s up to each person. 80s can make wrong decision while 10s can have wisdom sometimes. Brain is still a mystery to all scientists and nobody can say brain is understood fully by human. Who know if tomorrow there are some more researches to say that the children can make better decisions than the elders (actually have).

        As for Shi Shi, she seems to be maturer than her age, but she doesn’t need to be mature or else when dating Nicky. Because she just needs to be herself. Tat’s my point.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        Depends on which country. Most is 16. You may be able to vote at 15, you may be able to live alone at 15, you may think for yourself or work at 15, but if statutory rape states only above 16, then it is statutory rape even if the girl is mature, decided for herself, took of her clothes, etc. 15 is not a good number unless this is some middle eastern or african country. Yes some country’s min age is 15 but Hk, Taiwan, Singapore, Malaysia all are 16.

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Asia

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      • Fox replied:

        In accordance with http://www.atimes.com/atimes/South_Asia/JE31Df03.html, the average age for sexual consent across Asia is roughly 14.5 years (actually 14.7 for heterosexual relations and between 13.8 to 14.5 for homosexual sex of both genders)

        I took roundly 14.7 to 15.

        Actually the age of consent can be separated into 2 categories in many Asian countries. For example, from 0-13: statutory rape in any case; 13-15/16/17/18: statutory rape if the girl disagrees (or in other word, the guy must prove that the girl agree with the sex deal).

        Apparently, sex isn’t the only factor to determine a girl/guy is mature or not. So why you only concern about sex? 15 is accepted in most Asia country as working age, age to have own assets or even to vote. Isn’t 15 fabulous?

        But alrite, you dun want 15 then I’ll use 18. 18 is legal by most means. 18 or 26, can be mature or childish/naive.

        @advo: Forget to mention: Islamic allows 8 to get married because Mohamed got married with his 4th wife when she was 8. Tat’s why they allow 8 and 4 wives. Shouldn’t be considered as gross as it’s their tradition/religion.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        ” For example, from 0-13: statutory rape in any case; 13-15/16/17/18: statutory rape if the girl disagrees (or in other word, the guy must prove that the girl agree with the sex deal).”

        Fox, Statutory rape does not require consent. The act of sex below the age of consent IS statutory rape whether the girl consents or not. But an easy mistake to make because even some idiot judges could not differentiate it or maybe they know people in similar situations. However the fact that the underage girl consents can be a mitigating factor so it could be conviction but zero imprisonment. Which depends on the age of the accused.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Tat’s why they allow 8 and 4 wives. Shouldn’t be considered as gross as it’s their tradition/religion.”

        Fox I am sickened you do not find it gross. Which 8 year old can understand the nature of matrimony and what sex entails? Many dies after sex or giving birth. Tradition or not, to have a probably 40 ish man marrying and wanting to have sex with an 8 year old is a paedophile, except they have laws based on religion to cloak them. It may be legal but it is immoral without just cause. Why not ask the 8 year old whether she wants to marry or not. Disgusting.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Apparently, sex isn’t the only factor to determine a girl/guy is mature or not. So why you only concern about sex? 15 is accepted in most Asia country as working age, age to have own assets or even to vote. Isn’t 15 fabulous?”

        In India 8 year olds work too. Are they mature? And I didn’t say sex as a pre determined factor about majority. You said

        “. In many countries (including HK), 15 is already legal age. So 15 is the perfect number to quote”

        I thought you said 15 being the majority age for consent rather than earliest age allowed to work. Neither is a good measure of maturity. I was merely saying most country is 16 and anyone who has sex with a girl below 16 meaning a minor it is automatic statutory rape. Same for boys.

        And yes sex is not a measure since these days 13 year olds are perhaps the average age of sexual activity?

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      • Fox replied:

        It isn’t so, Funn Lim. The law makers believe that girl up to an age can understand the intention of sex, so they can decide to have sex with a man or not. The man has to prove that the girl is fully aware of wat sex can bring to her and wat she does. As a result, although she is still minors, the guy won’t be accused of rape. Maybe you should read the codes more rather than based on wiki alone.

        Btw, even if a guy dates a 10 year old girl without sex, it’s still ok. Since when all dates need sex?

        If the judges are idiot, they can have wrong decisions in any case.

        I told you, sex is just one factor to maturity. And I won’t mind 18 if you wanna use it as example. I myself think of 15 as a special age (to laws, too) but even if you want to change to 18, my point isn’t changed. So can we go directly to the main point?

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      • Fox replied:

        Fox I am sickened you do not find it gross. Which 8 year old can understand the nature of matrimony and what sex entails? Many dies after sex or giving birth. Tradition or not, to have a probably 40 ish man marrying and wanting to have sex with an 8 year old is a paedophile, except they have laws based on religion to cloak them. It may be legal but it is immoral without just cause. Why not ask the 8 year old whether she wants to marry or not. Disgusting.

        It’s their region belief and who are us to judge them? Islamic ppl believed in it so it isn’t gross to them. It’s similar to how Western ppl think Chinese/Korean are disgusting to eat dog meat. But dog meat is simply meat to them, not gross at all.

        And if you ever read Qur’an or read about Islamic, you’ll understand the story under 8 year old. It’s your style to force people to think the same way with you.

        No, I don’t find a culture is gross. I don’t accept it or hope it will be applied to my country, but whoever accept it and follow it, I have no problem with them or judge them as gross.

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      • Fox replied:

        And yes sex is not a measure since these days 13 year olds are perhaps the average age of sexual activity?

        If I rmb rite, in Asia the average age for sexual activity is now 12 to boys and 11 to girls. Asian girls soonest to have period the first time at 7 years old (normal case) and average at 11. Very soon indeed.

        You were wrong about India :). The children under 14 is ban, unless for learning a new trade/craftsmanship or vocation. Where do you read tat 8 works in India? Have you ever been to India?

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “It’s their region belief and who are us to judge them? ”

        I shake my head is total and absolute disbelief.

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      • Fox replied:

        I shake my head is total and absolute disbelief.

        Because you are not Islamic and perhaps to you, anything you aren’t a part, you won’t accept.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “It’s your style to force people to think the same way with you.”

        Well don’t blame me for thinking that there is a general consensus sex with a young child, such as 8 years old is morally and legally repugnant no matter the religion or so called laws that allow it. Laws are made, religion is interpretation, we as people have moral threshold and I thought perhaps my way of thinking is at least the veru basic sort. If anyone disagrees, well feel free to post here and write your name. I will keep an eye out for your future or current child abuses activities.

        And yes Fox, there is a very very basic moral element and you can say 13, 12, 14, 15 which are grey areas but a single digit as an age? How can any adult think a single digit aged child as sexually alluring? Sick.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        And please stop the excuses that they are using that the religious book allow it. That book was written how many eons ago. Why not drag the Caveman’s Way Of Life book out. It is wrong. I will not stand by and say it is their tradition, therefore I am ok with it since it is respecting cultures. Total and absolute BS. But anyway we have digress from the original point of discussion but Fox I am seeing you in a new darker light. I am shocked by what you said.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Because you are not Islamic and perhaps to you, anything you aren’t a part, you won’t accept.”

        What a stupid excuse.

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      • Fox replied:

        I’m here to tell you: I don’t judge Islamic people gross for allowing 8 as marriage age because it’s their own tradition/religion.

        I will teach my children that they have to respect others’ opinions/traditions even when they react differently to them and they have to learn why others react differently to them.

        Thank you for put an eye on them. Since you have no idea for why they do so, I suggest you to find out their reasons first, then we’ll continue.

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      • Fox replied:

        Admit that I’m pretty shocked at how stubborn you are, too. Never mind, it might be the last time I talk to you. You think you are always right, and it’s very pointless to discuss with you with that attitude.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        And if your daughter so happens to be the 8 year old muslim convert about to marry a 40 year old muslim? Will you say respect their culture? Whatever reason they may have, well why not ask the 8 year old. Do they want to? No? Sorry, it is culture. When things are wrong, they’re wrong. I will not respect such a culture. Not to say every muslim man is a pervert. I live in Malaysia, there are decent law abiding good muslim citizens who feels disgusted by your line of reasoning which those in the position to abuse take. It is misguided. You need not respect such a culture. So take away that so called respect, take away their reason, culture, law, tradition, Fox, I want to know, what is your position in such a situation?

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Admit that I’m pretty shocked at how stubborn you are, too.”

        I am stubborn for a good reason and I am glad you think I am stubborn rather than facing an obvious problem and then say I’m ok, since it is culture. You can be a pedestrian forever. There is a general rule to certain issues where it goes beyond legal, moral or tradition boundaries. I am surprised at your way of thinking but I applaud your honesty even if it is revolting.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        Correction;

        You can’t be a pedestrian forever. T

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      • Fox replied:

        I ask you: What will you do if someone told you that your region/belief/culture is sick/wrong whilst you don’t ever think so?

        The Islamic people know it, accept it, live with it, have you ever thought why they don’t against it?

        You ask my position in this situation? I’ll say: I’m a freethinker who is trying hopelessly to explain to you that you don’t have the right to judge them when you have no idea about them.

        Wrong or right, hello, you know exactly what is wrong and what is right? You think it’s right, it must be right?

        It’s kind of wasting time here.

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      • Fox replied:

        The way you interpret others’ opinion is so one-dimensional. Oh well, at least I’m honest and dare to respect. No, I don’t run away by an excuse: It’s culture. I’m facing it by trying to understand their intention and get to know their culture. I call it “respect”.

        On the other hand, you put an excuse that “moral threshold”. Who set those moral threshold if not human? Since human set it themselves, they can set something differently in different places. That’s why other ppl have to learn why they do so.

        Watever, I’m repeating myself here. So I’ll stop by here because you are thinking you are absolute right. With such stubborn attitude, I’m sorry, I don’t have the guts to continue.

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      • Fox replied:

        The last thing I want to tell you: You are the pedestrian

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        Fox I don’t even think you understand what I mean by pedestrian. I suppose after all the wondering as to whys, studying every micro details of everything to understand the “culture”, you will perhaps take a more favourable stand towards child rights.

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      • -- replied:

        Haha perhaps both of you should just agree to disagree?

        And Fox, I’ve always been dying to find out, why is your English so pidgin-like (as has been pointed out before)? Where are you from?

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      • advo replied:

        @ Fox

        Oh, I know you don’t care about age gaps. You just don’t seem to understand when the rest of us argue that large age gaps can be fine… As long as it’s not with teenagers.

        Great that you consider your anecdotal evidence on par with scientific. I don’t. NOBODY is arguing the brain is all understood. I said there are studies that show the part of the brain that deal with making good/bad decisions is not fully developed yet.

        80s can make wrong decision while 10s can have wisdom sometimes.

        More anecdotal evidence. I’m sure there exist 10 year olds smarter, wiser, etc. than some 80s. But it’s the exception not the rule!

        You don’t think SS has to be mature to fit with Nicky. That’s fine. WE think couples need to be on the close mental wavelength, OK?

        Forget to mention: Islamic allows 8 to get married because Mohamed got married with his 4th wife when she was 8. Tat’s why they allow 8 and 4 wives. Shouldn’t be considered as gross as it’s their tradition/religion.

        I know why that law exists. And it’s DISGUSTING. Yes, it should absolutely be considered gross even though it’s their religion. Religion is man-made. Emphasis on MAN! I’m APPALLED that you tried to suggest child sexual abuse (don’t even try to suggest forcing an 8 year old to have sex isn’t child sexual abuse) is on par with eating dog meat. Unless your comparison is human meat then there is not comparison!

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      • Fox replied:

        You don’t seem to understand my point, sadly. I don’t say it’s accepted to have sex with a 8 year old girl but you have to understand a region/belief to know why they do so. We are not Islamic, we can’t judge them. However, it’s worth to mention that if an Islamic man forced a 8 year old non-Islamic girl to get married, he will be accused. It happens within the Islamic community only. Last nite I forgot to write this: Maybe all of you don’t know that under Islamic law, 8 can get married but the man can’t have sex with the wife until she gets 13 or older :).

        Btw, both of you have the intention to mix two things into one. I say: Try to get understandings why they do so with their religion and you guys: They are wrong, wrong, wrong, no understandings. Since when I suggest child sexual abuse? I just suggest you to get to know them before judging them.

        Eating human? The man destroyed and killed all of ethics with tat religion, didn’t them?

        Oh well, this convo really reminds me of the movie Ender’s game. Do you watch it?

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Btw, both of you have the intention to mix two things into one.:

        Well I am sorry I can’t see the understanding (why) and the fact that they do it as two separate entities. I can’t desensitize myself that way. Gross is gross, wrong is wrong and it can be very certain in certain situations such as child sexual abuse.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Maybe all of you don’t know that under Islamic law, 8 can get married but the man can’t have sex with the wife until she gets 13 or older ”

        I never knew you could be so idealistic or maybe positive. Of course we know, since 13 is because usual age where they reach puberty. But from what i read, never stop any of them before. And 13 married to a 40 or 50 year old is still disgusting, law or not.

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      • Fox replied:

        We can’t never reach to an agreement. Wrong/disgusting is what you set in your mind, not what they think. Your definition isn’t applied to everyone, hence you can’t never make it fact.

        Last time I repeat: Think like an Islamic if you want to know why they do so.

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      • Fox replied:

        I mean “can never”

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      • advo replied:

        @ Fox

        I am far more concerned with the health and well-being of 8 year old children than I am about trying to understand very old, misogynist interpretations of the Quran.

        Of course wrong and disgusting is MY OPINION. I never claimed otherwise. I don’t need to be Muslim to have an opinion on the religion. You suggest I get to know Muslim people before I judge them? LMAO, I’ve known Muslim people all my life. I guess I’m free to judge them now. Or were you suggesting I get to know ALL Muslim people before I’m allowed to have an opinion on an extremely sexist, old law?

        And your example of how a Muslim man forcing a non-Muslim 8 year old to marry is funny. Because there’s a difference between a Muslim and non-Muslim girl’s body, sexual maturity right? So they realise it’s wrong to force non-Muslim girls to marry, but not Muslim little girls?

        Eating human? The man destroyed and killed all of ethics with tat religion, didn’t them?

        I don’t even know wtf you’re trying to argue with this?!

        No, we cannot reach agreement. Because I will most definitely NEVER not judge child sexual abuse! And that’s all I have to say in this discussion.

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      • Fox replied:

        Or were you suggesting I get to know ALL Muslim people before I’m allowed to have an opinion on an extremely sexist, old law?

        I suggest you to understand why they do so and their community still accepts it until modern days. If you have no idea about them, what is the point to judge them?

        So they realise it’s wrong to force non-Muslim girls to marry, but not Muslim little girls?

        Nah, but he violated laws if he force a non-Islamic girl to get married at 8.

        The convo is repeated once again. I won’t never agree that we can judge something we barely understand.

        I reckon that we are talking about two different things. Your concerns aren’t under my point. It means we are wasting time.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        “Last time I repeat: Think like an Islamic if you want to know why they do so.”

        Think like a decent human being and you will understand why whatever the tradition or religion, marriage with a minor (and sex with a young child) however justified by law is immoral and should be made illegal because all those quoting legality is peadophiles. You go and understand all you want but I am disgusted with the merest suggestion I should ever understand their POV. But since you so understand their POV then what is your POV? Let them be? Fox, make a stand. But like you said this is going nowhere but at least I know your POV and sorry to say it disgusts me to my core.

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      • Fox replied:

        From the bottom of my heart, Funn Lim, I’m sicken of your stubbornness and the way you think you are always right. You continuously twisted my POV and never try to understand mine (or others’). No doubt you are criticized as hypercritical. You are.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        Fox I understand your POV of other’s POV except unlike you I make a stand instead of saying respect others’ POV blindly. I am stubborn for a good reason; you’re stubborn for all those PC crap.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        And may I repeat; an endorsement to (young) child sexual abuse by way of religion/culture/tradition can never be a legitimate POV. Therefore any hypercritical assessment is always and will ever be reasonable. Your so called POV is non existent. I have been asking you several times your POV and all you say is understand other people’s culture before judging them. I am saying this cannot be the case for everything. When it comes a direct and serious breach of human rights, especially a young child and in the case of forced marriage, sex with minor (and very young minor) and the inability to even have a choice just because religion said so, just became law written by adult men said so, just because everyone in that country said so and is legitimised by the consent of the majority does not make the act itself less repugnant and does make anyone who pleads for their case any less disgusting. That is my POV. Yes I am stubborn in this because Fox, you are wrong to even give those PC thing about understanding them etc. I am telling you there are times we stop understanding and just make a stand. This is my stand. If I am accused of wanting everyone to agree with me all the time, well this issue is not review of a TV series or opinion of what an actor does or does not do. This is about a young human being, forced at a young age to marry someone probably 3 or 4 decades older, raped repeatedly every night eventhough she is at an age who probably can’t understand what marriage or sexual intercourse is, bound by a loveless marriage and may probably die at child birth because she is too young to push the baby out – and you are telling me understand their POV. If that is your POV than I am right to insist that I am right. I cannot believe there is someone who lives in a free country that can utter such irresponsible crap about POV and etc and refuses to take responsibility for her own views and push it to others and say one is too hypercritical when it is simple; Fox, just admit you’re wrong in this POV because anyway you see it, you’re in a corner and there is no where for you to run. But I am not forcing you to agree with me. I am done with that. I am condemning you for your dangerous POV. I cannot believe you of all people can utter such irresponsible words. I did not twist your POV. Re-read and your stand is understand their stand. That in itself is utter BS.

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      • Fox replied:

        I’m so tired to read that how right you think you are, how good you think your reasons are. Sorry Funn Lim, I lose to your game. I don’t mind the win-lose situation with you anymore because I know that whatever I say, you won’t read or stop twisting it. Being hypercritical as much as you want. I’m sick of you at core.

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      • Kidd replied:

        “Actually the age of consent can be separated into 2 categories in many Asian countries. For example, from 0-13: statutory rape in any case; 13-15/16/17/18: statutory rape if the girl disagrees (or in other word, the guy must prove that the girl agree with the sex deal).”

        If the girl disagrees, it’s not statutory rape, it’s plain rape.

        Statutory rape is when a person have sex with a minor below the age limit stipulated by law. Doesn’t matter there is consent or not.

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    • JennieN replied:

      I do agree with you. I read 1 person post after another calling Nicky uncle and a creep because he is dating ShiShi. Like seriously, if you don’t like them then leave it be why bother. Seriously, how shameful to be call a fan.
      I’m a huge Longshi fans and I’m still trying to sink in this news and to me this is still a SURPRISE but very very much indeed HAPPINESS. I can’t believe it and I really want them to continue to the end together. Because to me, they are the happy ending!!

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      • Bon replied:

        They will NEVER last.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        Whether they last or not, time will tell. I am sure that Nicky will treasure their relationship since he is older and has had a failed marriage and relationships. Not sure if LSS how many relationships LSS has had but she is younger so has more time and all. Hope they will last and will treasure each other.

        I was not sure about Yang MI and Hawick lasting but they are now getting married so you never know what can happen in the future. The next thing you know, Nicky and Cecilia may announce getting married and all so who knows??

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    • Bubblez replied:

      I agree with what you say, zheni.

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  7. kit-kat says:

    Both look fake and plasticky with unnatural double eyelids and doe-eyes and artificially high bridge nose which is so typically un-Chinese. The one on the right looks more obviously fake.

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    • windy replied:

      That’s why I always think the right one looks like a PS barbie doll. It’s pretty obvious.

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  8. Ann says:

    It is rather sad to note that for some it’s come down to how one looks and that it is acceptable to tear a person to shreds just because they are in the public eye or that you’re hiding behind a computer screen. When two consenting ADULTS are happy and committed in a relationship, others can’t be gracious enough to accept that they know what they want for their own lives and wish them well. Since when has it become socially acceptable to put a person down and pass it off as “just sharing my opinion”. If you believe that, I hope for your own sake, you will never have the ill fortune to meet with a similar person as yourself … one who will also tear you down to shreds for things that you’ve been given at birth, and not cherish and love you for the character that you have developed through your own capabilities.

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    • JennieN replied:

      well said.

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    • Crystal replied:

      You are my heroine.

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    • Bubblez replied:

      well said.

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