Raymond Lam Loving Too Intensely: The Most Heartbreaking Of All

By on October 13, 2011 in NEWS, Star Interviews

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Early this year, celebrated TVB singer-actor Raymond Lam (林峯) was exposed to have fallen in love with Mainland female starlet Mavis Pan Shuang Shuang (潘霜霜).  However, after a period of intense love, Mavis Pan had repeatedly publicly divulged their secret dating history to the outside world. Since Raymond has always been portrayed to be a swinging single and dreamboat to many of his fans, this revelation naturally left the clandestine romance to be doomed, leaving Raymond with hardly any choice but to heartlessly cut off all the romance ties with Mavis Pan.

Heartbroken and crestfallen, Raymond tried to numb his pain by fully immersing himself into the endless pile of work, in hopes of recuperating emotionally and seeking consolation in his career life after tragically drowning in the sea of love.

However, despite that harrowing romance being a thing of the past, it was rather apparent that Raymond had been terribly scarred for life as he revealed that he still felt heart-wrenched upon thinking about it from time to time…This interview marks the first of five interviews revealing the inner world of Raymond Lam.

Raymond brooded, “To me, love is actually a very private and personal matter. This belief was further instilled in me after I became an artiste, such that I would do anything to protect my other half. However, as much as I want to, I absolutely understand that reality is always different from one’s rationalization. In that case, I shall just try my best then! Actually, everyone should have already known about the details of my love life so I shall not deliberately dwell upon it here. In fact, I can tell you that I have been portrayed dating in the tabloid fodders much more times than I have actually dated in real life.”

Buried himself in work to forget the romance but ended up physically and emotionally exhausted

Raymond continued, “Actually, what exactly is love? When I was much younger, I would think of love as being very simple. Dating meant that we would roam the streets, eat meals and catch a movie together. In fact, I thought of it as being something like a set meal. However, after growing up and undergoing some experiences, I realized that love isn’t that superficial after all. Honestly, if you asked me whether my previous relationship was most painful, I would reply you that yes, yes it was one of the most painful experiences that I ever had. In fact, the impact was so excruciating that I haven’t been able to completely put down this emotional baggage as yet. It is, however, perfectly normal to feel this way as it is only human to feel upset reminiscing about some scenes or a person after the end of every relationship hence I shall just take it as an experience in life! I still remembered that I was filming TVB ancient periodic drama, Back To The Three Kingdoms《回到三國》, at that time and in order to forget the unhappy matters, I even tried to use work to numb myself. Although I kept telling myself not to think too much, it was really hard not to, especially with the relentless pursuing from the media on a daily basis. To be honest, I was absolutely  physically and emotionally worn out. In any case, I have already said my piece on this matter in the previous interviews. With that being said, I would love to take this opportunity to thank the media for treating me well and leaving me some leeway at that point in time. Apart from that, I must say that the media does understand me very well on a certain level and had projected it in their reports such that everyone could view this matter logically by putting themselves in my shoes. For this, I truly am very thankful to you guys (the media)!”

Raymond Lam professed that he would tread more cautiously the next time he ventures into love

Feels that he should follow fate but accepts blind-dating

Raymond wondered aloud, “Actually, who doesn’t have an experience in love? My failure this time ’round doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t dare to venture into sea of love again. However, I would tread even more cautiously for now as the society in today’s modern times are extremely complicated such that the thoughts of many people are now distorted. It even comes to a point where their views on matters have become very perplexing. Although not everyone is like that, I would still tend to have my misgivings. This is also the reason why I don’t have many friends. Have I ever thought about getting married? Well, I don’t even have a prospective dating partner yet! I do, however, admit that I’m a contradictory person. When my niece/nephew was born, I felt that my sister had already helped us to fulfill the child-bearing obligations to our ancestors. However, on second thought, I am after all the eldest son in my family [re: An ancient Chinese belief that the eldest son has a responsibility to produce a heir or rather a son to carry on the bloodline of the family] and after witnessing such a scene, I found myself subconsciously imagining what would happen if I had a child of my own in the future. Actually, given my current age, it’s about time that I should set up a family of my own as I wouldn’t be as robust in taking care of my kids when I’m much older. Sometimes, I do think that I might even look handsome hugging my kids out on the streets! But of course I do know that this won’t be an easy task as it is very difficult to meet someone who is truly right for you.”

“Furthermore, it’s really complex to see the true nature of a person such that you can’t fathom what the person truly sees in you, what she actually likes about you. I must clarify that these are not afterthoughts left behind from being badly hurt in love but I just felt that I wasn’t mature enough to handle the matter at that point in time. In the past, there was no such thing as a dating life for me. As such, my family often thought about arranging for me to go on blind dates but, in actual fact, I secretly opposed the idea as I felt that blind dates were way too old-fashioned and kept thinking in my heart, “What kind of era are we currently living in?”. In the end, I did not attend any of the blind dates arranged. Despite my obvious signs of reluctance, my mother has recently resumed her former self of anxiously finding me another prospective girlfriend again by distributing a “gathering of heroes” invitation to all her distant relatives and friends, such that it’s akin to announcing that I’m ready for another relationship. However, this is really not the current case for me as I have become less of a forward-looking individual and more of a person who believes in following fate. But, honestly, isn’t life supposed to be like that? Having our upsides and downsides are only part and parcel of life. In fact, who doesn’t want to be loved and fondled in this world? After all, I’m always the one cajoling others when I step into character during filming hence it’s only natural to inevitably hope that someone else would please me after a long day of filming! But it’s okay, I’m not completely disheartened as I firmly believe that that day will eventually come.”


Analyzing each and every one of his rumored girlfriends; Raymond Lam feels that Linda Chung looks most compatible onscreen with him and thus hopes to continue their previous affinity

Raymond’s rumored girlfriends are simply too many to count by our bare fingers but it seemed like all of them were his ex co-stars from the previous dramas that he had starred in. The list includes frequent onscreen partner Tavia Yeung (楊怡) who had been paired up with him as early as in the year 2002 for TVB classic drama, Golden Faith《流金岁月》, as well as in the year 2010 for Mysteries of Love《谈情说案》and in the recently-concluded series, Men With No Shadows《不速之約》,  TVB Fadan actress Linda Chung (鍾嘉欣) who had collaborated with him for Heart of Greed 《溏心風暴》and Moonlight Resonance《溏心風暴之家好月圓》, former TVB renowned artiste Charmaine Sheh (佘詩曼) who had been partnered up with him for TVB-China commemorative production, Drive of Life《歲月風雲》, and The Colorful World of Sister Fa《花花世界花家姐》, promising young movie starlet Rose Chan (陳嘉桓) who guest-starred in two of his MVs (Music Videos) and etc. However, according to Raymond, none of them instilled a romantic spark in him and neither did he exchange any electrifying glances with them in real life. Trying to put his point across, Raymond analyzes the list of his rumored girlfriends one by one…

Linda Chung
Possibility of dating Raymond Lam: ★★★★★


Charmaine Sheh
Possibility of dating Raymond Lam: ★★★


Rose Chan
Possibility of dating Raymond Lam: ★


Tavia Yeung
Possibility of dating Raymond Lam: ★★

Raymond Lam revealed that he was on very familiar terms with Tavia Yeung as he has known her for more than a decade now, ever since their course-mates days back in the 13th TVB Artiste Training Course in 1998. Adding onto that familiarity, Raymond had also collaborated several times with Tavia for the filming of dramas. As such, Raymond professed in a joking manner that he had already gotten “tired” of facing Tavia all day long. Jokes aside, Raymond hugely praised Tavia for staying true to herself and not changing her personality for many years now. Raymond explained, “In my eyes, Tavia has always been a tomboy as she usually has these huge gestures such that she will move about freely everyday, in a non-stop manner. Apart from that, Tavia also loves to talk hence I hardly utter a word when she’s around as she is already enough noisy! However, I do work well with her when we film scenes together.”

Since Raymond was too overfamiliar with Tavia to be more than just friends, then what about Linda Chung whom he was heavily rumored with, due to their convincing couple image in “Moonlight Resonance”?

In reply to this, Raymond remarked that both of their external appearances made them look extremely compatible, such that the audiences were receptive to it, thus fueling the rumors to last for so long, even up till today! Raymond also laughed and admitted that given a chance, he would also love to continue his onscreen affinity with Linda Chung. As for TV Queen Charmaine Sheh, Raymond hugely praised her for being a good and experienced actress who often brought him into the scene when they were filming “Drive of Life” and “The Colorful World of Sister Fa” together. Raymond also added that he had observed Charmaine to be a senior with a strong resolution. Asked about being rumored together with Rose Chan, Raymond sighed that he was also helpless when their only collaboration had been for his MVs.

Mavis Pan’s fame escalated through the roof after the leakage of the fully clothed bed photos with Raymond Lam; Oddly enough, Mavis Pan kept her sexy image at bay by covering up after gaining notoriety

Ever since her fully clothed bed photos with Raymond Lam had been “accidentally” leaked, little known Mainland starlet Mavis Pan, who has the moniker of “Little Shu Qi” for her plump and luscious lips, became the highest search entry amongst the search engines. Upon searching or rather googling her name, one would easily chance upon sexy photos of her showcasing her stunning womanly curves. This thus made her a target of the paparazzi and stirred up an interest in the movie industry, catching the keen eye of movie producers as a potential movie actress. However, Mavis Pan soon became nonchalant about the notorious fame and did not accept all the job opportunities offered to her, even pulling out of the plans to release her autobiography (which she was invited to shoot after the bed photos scandal). Not taking into account the Wong Jing (王晶) movie, Treasure Inn《財神客棧》, which she filmed before she became this famous, Mavis Pan had only accepted one movie deal to date, which was none other than the Mainland action movie, Admiral《五星上將》. It was known that Mavis had apparently turned down filming movies which required her to be scantily clad, preferring to be known as a action gongfu movie star rather than revealing any skin.

Other than that, Mavis had uploaded a close-up photo of herself onto popular Chinese microblogging social site, Weibo, in recent days. In the photo, her brows were furrowed close together and she looked deep in thought, looking as if she was heavily troubled by some perplexing matters. In the accompanying Weibo tweet that Mavis uploaded along with the photo, she wrote, “I feel very lost and confused out of a sudden, like I don’t know him/her anymore.” Without even having a clue on what or whom she was implying to, hordes of fans left messages of concern for her once her Weibo tweet was sent out. Apart from that, the fans also complimented her for increasingly resembling famed Hong Kong model-actress, Angelababy (杨颖), in recent days.


Will Raymond Lam be moving his home to snip his rapid love luck or rather peach blossom in the bud?

Raymond Lam’s awesome luck in love may have allegedly stemmed from his “peach blossom” home. Following the leakage of the fully clothed bed photos with Mavis Pan, which were taken in his residence, there were also reports exposing that a female friend from his hometown, Xiamen’s Angel Fang (芳芳), had free access to his home, entering and exiting it as and whenever she liked! In the reports, it was noted that Angel Fang had snapped photos of herself with the surroundings of Raymond’s home and Raymond’s beloved dog and uploaded them onto Weibo thus stirring up rife speculations of being romantically linked to Raymond. However, the rumor eventually stopped when Raymond flatly denied any romantic allegations through the distribution of a press release to the media.

When the reporter pointed that the root of all his alleged scandals lied in his “peach blossom” home, Raymond remarked that he had always thought of taking an indifference stance towards matters and following the bed photos scandal with Mavis Pan, Raymond professed that he was even more determined than before not to discuss love-related matters with the media in the future.

Asked whether he would relocate his home elsewhere in order to snip the “peach blossom” luck by the bud or stop inviting female friends to his residence to play or have a tour around his home from now onwards, Raymond expressed that he did not wish to respond to this question. Raymond, however, later added that it would be hard for him to draw an absolutely clear line with his friends and it was hardly possible to restrict others from visiting his home.

Source: Oriental Daily

This article was translated by Ah K, a Contributing Writer at JayneStars.com.

193 comments to Raymond Lam Loving Too Intensely: The Most Heartbreaking Of All

  1. ahk says:

    Apologize for taking so long to put this up as school has been rather busy this week! 😛 Will translate the second part of the interview, hopefully soon! 😀

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    • Jayne replied:

      Ah K,
      Thanks for posting, especially amidst the hectic schedule and many things to do. Aiya, looks like you are staying up very late to do so too.

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      • ahk replied:

        @Jaynestars:

        Haha no lahs, I usually post articles when I’m printing my notes lol so it’s still okay, killing two birds with one stone! 😛

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    • Kaytie replied:

      Thanks for translating this article Ah K! You’ve translated very well and I’m looking forward to your next part of the interview translation. 🙂

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  2. exoidus says:

    he should hook up with Cecillia and they can attend therapy as a couple, hehe

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    • WhoAmI replied:

      She is doing quite well. I always think she is a **** (personal thought so be nice to me, her fans and supporters)

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    • yen replied:

      double agreee!!! ^^

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  3. Joan says:

    Barf, so fake!

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    • Lol replied:

      Exactly

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    • WhoAmI replied:

      But media and fans like this type of crap(^_°)

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  4. Chriselle says:

    Whether Raymond is telling the truth or lying, I agree with many of his thoughts, philosophies, and ideas that he said during this interview.

    Wah, still a part 2? This interview was long enough. 😛

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    • Fox replied:

      Part 2,3,4,5. Part 2 is about career, 3 is reward, 4 is Chok, 5 I haven’t read hehe.

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    • WhoAmI replied:

      This is called never mentiond MP name in interview. I love it, nicely done. I love TVB romantic dramas, “keep the pain inside” but I guess not many people can be silent after breaking-up. They somehow must tell it aloud so audiences can feel the same pain (fake one?)

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  5. HeTieShou says:

    Why can’t he just let bygones be bygones?? Life is shorter than we all think. Therfore, why waste your time and energy on people that are no longer important to you??? There is no use to keep on dwelling over the past.

    I still wonder if he would have even dated her in her original look without all of the plastic?

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    • Veejay replied:

      Maybe he won’t since he prefers tall, pretty and nice body shape girls. Since Mavis’ old looks wasn’t that pretty enough to be in his list.

      I still dun believe his words kekeke.. to me he has never take the relationship with Mavis serious in the beginning 😉 and mavis should know that, LF is young, rich and famous..he’ll definitely won’t settle down just becuz of her.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        Well what you want is not always what you get. I know so many people including one of my brothers who ended up with someone completely opposite of what he wanted… When you truly fall in love, it is blind…

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      • Fox replied:

        I wonder why you think he wasn’t serious because all the sights showed that he was serious. Even Bobby knew PSS. Maybe in your mind system, watever he said = lied so even if he said the truth, you would deny :P.

        And refer to my post below :P.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        Well ever since Ray lied about this whole thing, a lot of people will not believe anything he says anymore.

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      • Fox replied:

        His only lie is: I haven’t dated.

        And before that he said: If I date, I won’t tell the public. But if I’m caught, I’ll admit.

        So the lie is also not really a lie :P.

        Other than that, he lied wat?

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      • Fox replied:

        And since when we can believe in their words? Just look at the actions and the sights, it’s more of facts than words.

        I dun tell Veejay to blv his words, I said that the sights SHOWED that he was serious. It’s more subjective.

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      • Veejay replied:

        @Fox,

        The whole LF’s news about him dated Mavis, bed photos leaked out, hugging & dancing with kirby and the housewife in his house issue gave me an impression that LF is a casanova and I didnt say he lied in my earlier post, I just said he never take Mavis serious from the beginning just because he’s a casanova and casanova won’t settle down just because of 1 chick 😛 I didnt say he was lying wor, everyone lies even I lie sometimes hehe

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      • Fox replied:

        A player needs more girls than 3 :P, and more than 2 at the same time. It’s my view on casanova.

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      • Veejay replied:

        maybe the 4th, 5th girls identity has yet to be revealed and that doesn’t mean he just stopped after kirby or the housewife 😉

        LF is already a casanova if PSS’ allegations on LF still seeing and allowed housewife entering his house and couldn’t decided to choose her or the housewife. IF PSS’ allegation is true, that means LF was seeing 2 women at a time.

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      • Fox replied:

        “If” phrase. PSS lied about FF and both AppleDaily and Face pulled her to water when they received the lawsuit letter from LF. Poor PSS.

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      • Veejay replied:

        but so far, LF didnt suit PSS on her “fake” allegations right? 😛

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      • Veejay replied:

        *sue*

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      • Fox replied:

        Guess it’s the purposes of AppleDaily and Face. He won’t sue her because watever, she is his ex.

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      • WhoAmI replied:

        No one knows 100% he lied or not. He might tell some lies, might tel lsome truth. In truth, there is lie. In lie, there is truth..the more he tell, the more lie he tell. The more truth he adds, the more truth he says. Sh*t, i just wrote a poem.

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    • Fox replied:

      She posted a pic of her when she was young and she looks quite similar. This pic is also used by the reporters BUT they edited it to make it look stranger. The pic she posted and circle the parts in body that reporters used photoshop to change it showed that she has quite big boobs and long V face, kinda close to her now. Go to her weibo and maybe it’s still there. PSS likes to delete her weibo frequently so I dunno if it’s still there or not.

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      • Veejay replied:

        It does not matter :P, she’s transformed into someone prettier now after she had P operation didn’t she? So it does not matter anymore whether she looks the same as b4 or similar to her old looks. The point is she’s transformed and no big deal about it 😛

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      • Fox replied:

        Look the same, isn’t it a sight of non plastic surgery :P? If looks prettier means plastic surgeries, all did. Can’t give her a opportunity to doubt?

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  6. Funn Lim says:

    Linda? I agree. Charmaine? No way. Tavia? Never!

    Anyway Ray, move on from PSS. Still crying about her?

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    • Veejay replied:

      I really don’t think LF has anymore feelings for PSS. The whole interview was either arranged by “someone” or just to gain publicity??. (not sure) but LF has definitely forgotten about PSS probably before she leaked out those pics. To me, LF is a casanova, he won’t stay with a girl for long, hehe just my persoanal opinion! keke

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    • Fox replied:

      Linda: Was. Rose: Maybe. Charmaine + TY: Friend only.

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      • Chriselle replied:

        I also can’t see Raymond and Charmaine as a couple. If they were interested in each other, it would’ve happened too. And the age gap and Charmaine’s maturity makes it a bit impossible as well.

        Rose resembles Linda at some angles.

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      • Fox replied:

        Rose is a stronger/healthier and less sweet version of Linda. But I think Rose is prettier. Maybe I like the kungfu girl look in her.

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      • Chriselle replied:

        Maybe because of I’ve seen too many self pics taken by Rose herself, she looks erm cheap to me. I think Linda is becoming to look boring… :/

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      • Fox replied:

        She is a 9x girl so self-photo is something I can understand.

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      • josie replied:

        So that “possibility of dating RL” is rated by the author, right? I don’t believe rose should only get 1 star. Even after their rumors, she still went to his concert. I think she is there for the taking. Go ray, go!

        BTW, why didn’t they mention rain Li? Is she confirmed so no need to rate or is she old news?

        “In fact, who doesn’t want to be loved and fondled in this world?”
        Indeed!

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      • Fox replied:

        @josie: Yeah, the star is rated by reporters. Go Rose go!

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      • NX replied:

        @Fox & Josie: I’m with you!

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    • Veejay replied:

      Linda = not sure, but I highly doubt she will be with him (but I could be wrong though) 😛

      Charmaine = not going to happen..

      Rose : maybe could hook up

      Tavia : not his type

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  7. MARS says:

    That is good fung had release out his stress, thats why now he become more happier already. Be strong my idol, will support you always.

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  8. Canto says:

    I have a few comments.

    1. I believe he was emotional.

    He mentioned how bad he felt when his love relationships did not work out. I believe him because he is a sagittaurus and he is quite passionate and emotional.

    2. I think he should change one of his stylist.

    In one of the photos above, he was wearing a red cardigan showing off his male cleavage and tight jeans. I puzzled over the look. It should be a trendy look, as male models in magazines have shown off male cleavage before and it was ok. But somehow there was something not quite right with his combo. Perhaps the red color was off, or the cardigan was too clingy. But the look didn’t convey the right nonchalant, I-am-sexy-but pretending not to care vibe to me. It even… dare I say it… seems a bit “auntie” and “old tired gay” to me…

    3. His quote: “Sometimes, I do think that I might even look handsome hugging my kids out on the streets!”

    Some of his quote are good and I do feel pity for him and all, but the one above, not good. Come on, bro, who cares whether you look handsome or not hugging your kids out on the streets. Kids are real, breathing human beings. Not an accessory for photo-taking opportunity.

    4. “Oddly enough, Mavis Pan kept her sexy image at bay by covering up after gaining notoriety.”

    Smart move. This may be the best move she has made yet. Hm, maybe there is brains underneath the plastic…

    By the way, she’s an Aries. Aries and Sagittaurus are compatible. Aries are also bold, straightforward talking so it is not surprising that she spoke out.

    Sagittaurus have “peach blossom” in their nature. So there would more girls in the future…

    No offence to any Ray’s fans out there.

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    • Kaytie replied:

      @Canto, I agree with your analysis. I didn’t like the photo w/ him wearing that red cardigan shirt. Sorry to say but that does not suit him. THAT fashion designer should be gone! LOL 😛

      Just a quick question for you, are you into horoscopes? It seems like you’re an expert on it. 🙂

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      • Canto replied:

        @ Kaytie

        Nah I am not into horoscopes, it’s just something I pick up as general knowledge.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Canto, AHH I SEE!!! What do you know about Capricorns? 😀

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      • Canto replied:

        Personally I get along well with Capricorn people 🙂

        Capricorn are hardworking, clever and smart. They are socially competent and they usually get promoted in work because they put in the effort and they have both EQ and IQ.

        Some Capricorn people I know can also let their hair down and go quite crazy and are playful, but usually only in the company of close friends who are on the same wavelength, on certain occasions.

        I feel the chinese horoscope makes a difference to the type of Capricorn too.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        HAHA!!! Wow, that says something about me! I’m a Capricorn and it’s mostly true about me. One part I agree the most is when Capricorns can be wild and crazy around close friends. That happens with me a lot. Does this mean that Capricorns have a high EQ?

        Chinese horoscopes are different because it’s based on the year you’re born. Most people believe in the Lunar calendar and base their horoscope on that. For example, I was born in January of ’87 and I’m supposed to be the Rabbit. Right? But it’s actually wrong because I was considered to be born in December under the Lunar calendar, therefore, I’m considered as a Tiger. It gets really confusing because it depends WHEN the actual Spring season begin.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        It gets really confusing with me because sometimes I don’t even know which one I should consider myself. The Lunar calendar is supposed to be the accurate one according to my family.

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      • Fox replied:

        The 12 chinese zodiacs based on lunar calendar. So if you are born in January, you might fall to the previous year animal if your birth date is before the lunar new year. Dun count it by solar calendar and find lunar calendar instead, then you will know what animal presented you.

        In your case, you are a Tiger.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        Yeah that’s what everyone in my family says. But I’m pretty “fiesty” for someone born in between the end of the year Tiger and early Rabbit. LOL

        Tigers are known for their loyalty, bravery, and protect the people they care. Am I right? What else can you tell me about Tiger? 😀

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      • Fox replied:

        Tiger girls are considered as the ones who is dynamic, strong and like to know new things. That’s why they are often successful in career line.

        For love life, Tiger girls are always be said as “hard to get married” because they are too strong, too independence (and some think that Tiger girls will “Eat” the husband”.

        Businessman is the most suitable job for Tiger girls.

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      • Stephy replied:

        @Fox,
        Well said….I’m born in a year of Tiger….hehehehe

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      • Fox replied:

        The year of birth only affect a bit. It also depends on your “命”. I guess you guys are 1986, mean your 命 is Fire. That’s why your character will be very hot temped and easy to get mad (talk in horoscope, not mean you are truly that).

        Avoid the water :). Some Fire 命 needs water such as the 1978-1979 ones, but 1986 Fire is serious anti-water. Wood 命 is the best for you. You will support the Metal 命 a lot.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Fox, how do you know which of the 5 elements your 命 belongs to? Like you said, Tigers love to learn new things and I’m just learning something new from everyone 😀

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      • Stephy replied:

        @ Fox,
        i’m 1974 tiger and my horoscope is Taurus, what is my reading then…hehe

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Fox, and you’re right about be hot tempered in terms of horoscope. I do get mad easily and it depends what it is too haha!!! =D

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      • Veejay replied:

        Fox,

        What about those born with element “earth”?

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      • Fox replied:

        @Stephy: 命 of 1974 is Water. The water tiger are less hard to get married the most among 5命 of Tiger because water will balance the character. However, your water is Big Canal Water so you are noisy, love to talk with friends, like outdoor activities.

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      • Fox replied:

        @Veejay: You can do the real estate job and will be successful. The “earth” ones are quite gentle, but when they got mad, be careful because they can become very crazy.

        However, depends on which kind of earth you are and also your animal. Give me your birth year and I can say more because there are many types of earth.

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      • Veejay replied:

        How about sheep with earth element?

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      • Fox replied:

        I guess it’s 1991 because 1931 is too old to join a forum :P. 1991 sheep are the confident ppl, friendly and willing to help. However, they have low EQ, always do everything faster than it needs, hence, make a lot of mistakes. They are also kinda stubborn. Somehow they are a bit selfish and irresponsibility when they can’t do this work well. They like to have large relationship and easy to make friend with other. This age also like to promise a lot but dun take the promises serious.

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      • Veejay replied:

        But I was not born in 1991 🙁

        (me same age with LF, TY, Ron & kate) hehe

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      • Fox replied:

        Oh I thought so because you asked for Earth Sheep. Earth Sheep = 1931 or 1991. 2051 will be another Earth Sheep.

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      • Fox replied:

        Since you are a 1979 girl, check the horoscope below.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Canto, so what kind of element am I if I’m a Tiger 1986? What does that say about me?

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      • Veejay replied:

        Thanks, but what element does sheep girl possess if born in 1979? 😀

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      • Kaytie replied:

        I mean Fox..sorry I got confused between you and Canto…

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      • Veejay replied:

        *COPIED THIS FROM THE internet*

        THE EARTH SHEEP 19l9 AND 1979

        The Earth element gives the Sheep a grounded effect. Although he struggles with a lack of self-confidence, this Sheep is a very stable person. They are independent and practical, leaning more towards conservancy than liberality. An Earth Sheep’s family is his most important asset and he spends his life working hard to provide for his loved ones. Earth Sheep are born with a joy for life that generally becomes infectious as you get to know him.

        I guess this also describe LF, TY, Ron, Kate and me hehe.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        That explains the sheepish grin.

        I am gemini which explains my need to post both sides of the argument and never quite could reconcile with either side.

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      • Fox replied:

        @kaytie: Fire, more detail: Fire in the oven

        @Veejay: Fire, more detail: Lightning fire.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Fox, Fire in the oven? Please explain.

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      • Fox replied:

        There are several type of fire and you are the fire in the oven.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Fox, I understand that but what exactly “fire in the oven” really mean? I still don’t know X_X

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    • Fox replied:

      Why a pretty girl will be considered as a brainless one?

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      • Canto replied:

        @ Fox.

        Fair enough comment. Upon review of my words, that statement was a little slanted in my view towards Mavis.

        So I retract that sentence… that there is brains underneath the plastic 🙂

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      • Fox replied:

        It’s kinda unfair for pretty girls.

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      • Veejay replied:

        Yeah Canto, why so unfair judgement on pretty girls?? hehe

        I must protest that pretty girls have brains too lol

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      • Canto replied:

        Yah yah… pretty girls like Fox and Veejay have brains too…

        Heh heh heh

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        Because life can’t be that unfair to us all that one should be beautiful and be smart.

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    • Kidd replied:

      Raymond’s Chinese horoscope is horse. Anyone familiar with Chinese horoscope can give a reading?

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Kidd, Raymond’s Chinese zodiac is a Sheep. How did you get Horse?

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      • Canto replied:

        Coincidently, horses people are also passionate in love. They are witty, interesting, could be stubborn and independent. It’s easier to win them over than to break their spirit by forcing them.

        They fall in love with the idea of love, having notions of great love or lost past loves.

        Heh heh heh

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      • Veejay replied:

        Kidd,

        I think LF’s chinese horoscope is Sheep, born in year 1979

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      • Kidd replied:

        Sorry Katie. I misread his year of birth as 1978 instead of 1979.

        Sorry Raymond fans. Should have ask the experts (Raymond fans) instead of googling.

        Damn what happen to me? First, fake dyslexia, now, misreading stuff.

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      • Kidd replied:

        @ Katie @ Veejay

        Sorry for the misinformation. I’m deeply regretful for my mistake.

        Hope no more Raymond fans come pointing it out to me after this. 😛

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      • Kidd replied:

        @ Canto

        Please do reading for Sheep instead. I give out wrong into liao. But, thanks anyway. Although this reading does not apply to Raymond, it applies to Sammul. 😀

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      • Fox replied:

        @Kidd: take more rest.

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      • Veejay replied:

        No worries la Kidd, we’re humans after all and Humans made mistake sometimes.

        But thanks for the info on Sammul’s birth year, didn’t know he was born in 1978.

        I think Sheep ppl appreciate pretty things alot. Like Libra and Virgo who loves pretty things.

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      • Fox replied:

        Because sheep is the most gentle animal (view of Chinese, if you see the word “Fairy”, it has half from the word Yeung (sheep) and half from the word Yu (Fish)), the children who are born in the year of sheep are the gentle ones, have a lot of talents and also like to shopping and pay money on luxurious things.

        Sheep children are the ones who can organise well but also have a lot of dream. They have conflicts in them. Most of them are romantic and maybe seductive. Artists are born in the year of sheep are not rare. They love to be praised and loved, if not they will become upset and worried.

        Sheep children, if they have any loss in love life, they’ll be hurt very deeply and avoid to love in a long time. They are easy to get upset in the love. They are quite blur in everything they do. That’s why if you love someone born in the year of sheep, you can pursue her/him and they don’t mind.

        They care for their outside look, so don’t feel strange if they put too much time in front of the mirror.

        And overall, sheep children are the ones who always think too much and care for the view of other ppl. If they can put these views out, their life will be better.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Kidd, aww it’s okay!! People make mistakes and I don’t blame you. Are you really tired? Remember to rest up okay? 🙂

        @Fox, that sounds REALLY true about Ray’s personality. But at the same it’s very sad especially his love life. Since he’s a Sheep then that means he’s pretty fragile when it comes to love. Anything happens in his relationship will be very sensitive 🙁

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      • Kidd replied:

        @ Fox

        “Because sheep is the most gentle animal (view of Chinese, if you see the word “Fairy”, it has half from the word Yeung (sheep) and half from the word Yu (Fish))”

        You are mistaken here, Fox. 鮮 means ‘fresh’. The ‘xian’ who mean ‘fairy’ is 仙 (human + mountain).

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      • Canto replied:

        @ Kidd

        I think you are getting old. 🙂

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      • Fox replied:

        Oh, thank Kidd. That’s wat my Chinese teacher said and I dun rmb well. Maybe she also mistaken two words, lol.

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      • Fox replied:

        Oh yeah, I’m the one who rmb wrongly. I’m old too, Kidd :(. I checked again and she said that “Nice” is from Sheep and Fish, not “Fairy”.

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    • Kaytie replied:

      WOW! That doesn’t sound too good for me. I would have to agree on “hard to get” part. That’s what my ex said about me years ago and didn’t like that. That hurt my feelings. Great, now I wish I wasn’t THIS independent and THIS strong…lol..

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      • Kaytie replied:

        oops! i posted on the wrong thread. sorry 🙁

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      • Fox replied:

        YOu were born with the spirit of a tiger :).

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      • Kaytie replied:

        haha!!! i suppose i can’t run away from fate …right Fox…? =)

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      • Fox replied:

        Yes :P. However, just be yourself. Assume that you are 1986, still very young.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        Yes, yes! I will sure be myself and just go with the flow 😀

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    • Stephy replied:

      @Fox,
      Very damn accurate. Thanks a lot Fox

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      • Fox replied:

        Like most of girls, I had a craze on horoscope last time, haha =)). Now I can say a little, nice to know it’s accurate.

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    • NX replied:

      Aries and Sagittaurus greatly attracts each other. Some documents even say they’re born for each other as a perfect couple. “Both are independent, aND there must be some freedom. Sagittarius encourages enthusiastic outlook and honesty. Neither will tolerate the other being the boss. This couple will dance a fabulous fiery number that will warm both their hearts.They’ve got lots in common and will exude excitement and energy in delicious doses. Everything this couple do will be full of feeling and endowed with enthusiasm and their relationship will be overflowing with optimism.” But Aries girls are often too jealous and Sagittaurus guys are always surrounded by girls. I know 4 Aries and Sagittaurus couples, including LF&PSS, in all cases, the breaking up are caused by jealousy and the girls keep “haunting” the guys after the break up, even when he already has a new partner. Well, I think the theory matches with LF and PSS too.

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      • Kidd replied:

        How can they be perfect couple when all the Aries/Sagi pair you knew broke up?

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      • NX replied:

        The documents said it, not me haha. I think I believe the part they’re likely to become couples and attracts it other.

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      • NX replied:

        But I don’t think their romance will end up good. You know the reasons.

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    • Kidd replied:

      I wonder which actor is born in the year of the Dragon. Just curious. Dragon is like the most prestigious sign in the Chinese zodiac.

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      • NX replied:

        I’m a Dragon ^^ but just a nearly-become-artist haha, I gave it up coz it seems unstable.

        Anyway, I don’t rmb any Dragon HK Artist, but in China, Zhao Wei and Lin Xin Ru are Dragons.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        The only ones that I can think of off the top of my head that are dragons are Yu Bo(China actor)Lu Yi(China actor),Deric Wan, Roger Kwok, Yammie Lam/Nam, Sean Lau,Annie Man, and others that I don’t remember now.

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    • Kidd replied:

      Out of curiosity, I try to play the horoscope calculator to calculate the 4 females’ compatibility Raymond. I found out that Linda is also an Aries. Same like PSS.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        Horoscope calculator? Hmm…everyone sounds like a horoscope expert.

        Why is horoscope reading so popular in determining a couple’s potential compatibility? What if the horoscope said the couple is incompatible, would it become a self-fulfilling prophecy then?

        Do astrology and horoscopes unnecessarily label people and conveniently assign attributes and tendencies to a large pool of people born in under the same sign? I have many friends born under same sign, but we’re all different.

        Perhaps I’m lazy in keeping track of everyone’s signs to determine if we are all compatible. I think I also know myself and people close to me well to not need to depend on horoscope readings for more analysis of the psyche.

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      • Kidd replied:

        @ Jayne

        I do it for fun only. I myself didn’t study horoscope and never read the daily horoscope on the papers because I don’t believe in it. But, it’s interesting to read about your birth sign and see what it says about you and how much it match.

        I see horoscope as a field of statistics. Face reading and palm readings are also statistics. They are the result of many years of observation and documentation. There might be some truth in it. Some truth, but, not the whole truth, since a person’s temperament is influence by more than the 12 zodiac sign.

        Personally, I feel that my temperament match my numerology sign more than my star sign.

        What I see it, these studies all arise from human beings attempt to understand life, make sense of life, give meaning to life and have more control over their live.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        “these studies all arise from human beings attempt to understand life, make sense of life, give meaning to life and have more control over their live”

        Belief in horoscopes and astrology (in predicting daily destiny) also asks you to believe in pre-destination. That miraculously because of the timing of our birth, we are born with a set of characteristics that somehow determine our future fate. First, you have to believe that our lives are somewhat pre-destined a certain way in order to use horoscopes/ astrology to try to control it.

        As for making sense of life and give meaning to life, wouldn’t study of religion, philosophy, and seeking spirituality be better? These fields ask us to look into our nature and seeking wisdom, rather than reading cryptic horoscopes and looking for truths in them.

        A good book with interesting observations on human tendencies can be equally thought provoking. 🙂

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      • Fox replied:

        I think horoscope will be accurate if you only take the possitive comments of it, lol. And it’s quite fun.

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      • jayne replied:

        Fox,
        “I think horoscope will be accurate if you only take the possitive comments of it, lol. And it’s quite fun.”

        You mean it’s fun to read because they are written in cryptic language, so like a puzzle to figure out and apply to your personal situation?

        Hehe no need to seek out positive comments from a horoscope writer. Praise is more meaningful when it comes from people who actually know you, rather than superficial comments.

        Anyhow, just differences in preferences. I’m been in this philosophical/ truth-seeking mode for a year now. Can’t stop the urge to seek meaning in life, whether spiritual or not. Anyone with the same tendencies and suggested reading list?

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      • Kidd replied:

        As for making sense of life and give meaning to life, wouldn’t study of religion, philosophy, and seeking spirituality be better? These fields ask us to look into our nature and seeking wisdom, rather than reading cryptic horoscopes and looking for truths in them.

        Uh, just because religion, philosophy and spirituality can do that doesn’t mean it’s everyone’s cup of tea. and just because people have religion, philosophy and spiritually to find meaning of life doesn’t mean horoscope, fortune-telling and the likes are not used for the same purpose.

        “First, you have to believe that our lives are somewhat pre-destined a certain way in order to use horoscopes/ astrology to try to control it.”

        For many people, this prerequisite is easy to meet.

        You know, I get the feeling that you have something against these ‘fortune-telling’ art and that your view towards this kind of studies is veered quite far to the negative side.

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      • Kidd replied:

        Why all words are italic?

        @ Jayne

        As for making sense of life and give meaning to life, wouldn’t study of religion, philosophy, and seeking spirituality be better? These fields ask us to look into our nature and seeking wisdom, rather than reading cryptic horoscopes and looking for truths in them.

        Uh, just because religion, philosophy and spirituality can do that doesn’t mean it’s everyone’s cup of tea. and just because people have religion, philosophy and spiritually to find meaning of life doesn’t mean horoscope, fortune-telling and the likes are not used for the same purpose.

        Secondly, I said these field arise from human being trying to make sense of life. That is to say a long long time ago, very far into ancient history, people developed these field to make sense of life and have control of life.

        “First, you have to believe that our lives are somewhat pre-destined a certain way in order to use horoscopes/ astrology to try to control it.”

        For many people, this prerequisite is easy to meet.

        You know, I get the feeling that you have something against these ‘fortune-telling’ art and that your view towards this kind of studies is veered quite far to the negative side.

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      • Fox replied:

        I believe in fact, philosophies and also in something like horoscope, if it’s positive. Just light up the day with something nonsense a bit, for teenager and dun make you have to think much.

        Philosophical is interesting to me.

        Oh, many ppl tell me: Law is very boring, reading regulations is tired. And I tell them: Just put law into life and you will find it’s interesting, such as imagine your divorce and the way you divide the assets of your husbie, you will have a good laugh.

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      • Kidd replied:

        @ Jayne

        Want to add more. Lots of people believe in pre-determined fate. Even some religion teach it i.e. religion that believe in reincarnation and karma. Some field of spirituality also believe in this i.e.groups that believe that souls came to this world to learn lessons to elevate their spirituality. The person will keep encounter a certain issue in his/her life until his/she learn that lesson.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        “I get the feeling that you have something against these ‘fortune-telling’ art and that your view towards this kind of studies is veered quite far to the negative side.”

        I’m just a non-believer, but not overly negative about it. I am curious to hear from supporters why they like it. Questioning an issue doesn’t mean I am negative about it.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        “Want to add more. Lots of people believe in pre-determined fate. Even some religion teach it i.e. religion that believe in reincarnation and karma. Some field of spirituality also believe in this i.e.groups that believe that souls came to this world to learn lessons to elevate their spirituality. The person will keep encounter a certain issue in his/her life until his/she learn that lesson.”

        Yes, pre-destination is one aspect of religion which I have the most difficulty in embracing, possibly because it is hard for me to see my life beyond my current form, to believe that I existed in past lives or their will be future rebirth.

        But I find it is helpful and enlightening to take bits and pieces and apply to my personal journey where possible.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        “Uh, just because religion, philosophy and spirituality can do that doesn’t mean it’s everyone’s cup of tea. and just because people have religion, philosophy and spiritually to find meaning of life doesn’t mean horoscope, fortune-telling and the likes are not used for the same purpose.”

        Forgive me. I am in my question-asking mode lately, not trying to be difficult or zone in or target on anyone to make her feel uncomfortable. If anyone feels that way, feel free to just ignore my questions.

        If there is a true quest to seek deeper meaning in life, don’t you think religion or philosophy offers a more extensive evaluation? Or it is considered the more difficult method when horoscopes are the easier way? Horoscopes seem to be a quick, non-commital way to just accept what you are being told.

        At the same time, if the general response to reading a horoscope is to shrug off the guidance or forget about it, what good would it do? So it sounds like horoscopes serve more in entertainment value rather than offer any true guidance.

        As for fortune-telling, anytime you have to pay money to procure this type of guidance in life, wouldn’t the advice be skewed? Wouldn’t the fortune-teller devise some impending “crisis” is going to happen in your near-future life, so that you will consistently go back to the person and pay him to correct it?

        I find it difficult to seek guidance from those who do not know me personally.

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      • Kidd replied:

        @ Jayne

        “I’m just a non-believer, but not overly negative about it. I am curious to hear from supporters why they like it. Questioning an issue doesn’t mean I am negative about it.”

        I get the negative vibe is not because you are questioning it. It’s because your comments so far on horoscope are all negative.

        When I say human being use horoscope to find meaning in life, to have more control of their life, you go ‘Hey, religion,spirituality,philosophy are way better. Why need horoscope?’, when my point is just that these are some of the ways human being used to find meaning and control in their life, not saying which one is better or whether horoscope is bad or good.

        Anyway, maybe it’s just miscommunication and I’m reading your comments wrongly.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        “Anyway, maybe it’s just miscommunication and I’m reading your comments wrongly.”

        We were having an conversation in which we were exploring the purpose or reasons for popularity of horoscopes. Since I don’t understand the reasons for the popularity, I asked why. You mentioned the purpose was to offer people guidance in life. So I explored that there were other avenues to find this guidance as well.

        Isn’t it natural to further develop upon stated points? Again, this is just how I tend to think things through. Not that I’m trying to convince anyone of my perspective.

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      • Kidd replied:

        “If there is a true quest to seek deeper meaning in life, don’t you think religion or philosophy offers a more extensive evaluation? “

        Sometimes, more extensive is not good, especially philosophy which has a wide possibility and many different ideas. Even the students of a certain philosopher ended up with their own philosophy. Studying too much might end up making you more confused.

        Or it is considered the more difficult method when horoscopes are the easier way?

        Yes, it’s more difficult. But, is difficult always better?

        Horoscopes seem to be a quick, non-commital way to just accept what you are being told.

        Well, studying philosophy is also just reading someone’s idea. If you read the philosophy of Plato and think they are great and you agree with what he said, wouldn’t it be just the same as accept what you are being told.

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      • jayne replied:

        Kidd,
        “Yes, it’s more difficult. But, is difficult always better?”

        No difficult is not always better. Thorough is what I’m looking for. It depends on the issue and the level of time and effort needed to understand an issue. For the topic of “seeking guidance/ meaning in life,” wouldn’t thorough be better than simplistic? And there is no time limit, only limited by your own patience, as to how long you want to devote to the effort. Even if the answers don’t come easily and may be met with discouragement, confusion, and frustration along the way. If something is important (and it applies to the chasing and fulfillment of goals in other aspects), then you will not give it up just because it is difficult. Hopefully the chase/ process will not lead to unhappiness, as fulfillment may be the goal, but being on the action path is just as important.

        “Well, studying philosophy is also just reading someone’s idea. If you read the philosophy of Plato and think they are great and you agree with what he said, wouldn’t it be just the same as accept what you are being told.”

        It requires a somewhat deeper understanding of another’s thinking, a questioning and evaluation before deciding on the value of the material. Obviously, how much of our thinking is truly novel and hasn’t been reflected upon centuries ago by other people before us? I do think that humanity’s quest is the same, and tendencies and human nature as well, although circumstances may be different.

        Reading and studying subjects such as philosophy is really meant to open up a curiosity of seeking “truth” and that may sometimes be a personal truth. Usually, it will likely pose more questions than give you answers that you automatically accept. The process involves understanding of your own perspective, other differing perspectives out there, evaluating the reasons behind it and applying it to your own personal circumstances before you can evaluate it and there will likely not be a conclusive determination, as our thoughts continue to be shaped by new ideas we come across. Reading philosophy is intended to set you off along the self-discovery process. If you have not carefully evaluated the material first before acceptance, then it becomes blind-acceptance. Hopefully getting wiser with age, but that is what I enjoy about growing older.

        Thus getting back to the horoscope/ astrology discussion. I was only asking a few questions to understand before I can evaluate. I’m open-minded and just trying to understand the differing perspective, as long as you enjoy the exchange along with me. 🙂

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      • Canto replied:

        Hi Jayne

        I feel that you are a philosophical person who thinks below the surface and with substance about people, matters or news, as shown from your insightful comments on your articles which we all enjoy.

        Horoscope does have its mass appeal as seen from the popularity of people who wrote to comment about it.

        I don’t think any of us, Fox, Kidd, etc really believe in it. For me, it’s just something harmelss and entertaining, to while away time, like gambling during Chinese New Year or something. You are not really a gambler but during CNY, it’s tradition to play a few hands with your cousins to try to win some pennies or something like that. 🙂

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      • jayne replied:

        Canto,
        “I feel that you are a philosophical person who thinks below the surface and with substance about people, matters or news, as shown from your insightful comments on your articles which we all enjoy.”

        Thanks, I enjoy thinking about many subject matters. The process of understanding something a little deeper interests me. Human relationships and tendencies also interest me. I should have studied psychology hehe, but not too late to become an amateur one.

        One of the great things about an open community like this is that we can bare our thoughts without “proper discovery.” Coming across like minds or different minds is as necessary in our self-discovery process.

        Beneath the gossip stories, they are stories of human interest, of relationships, of friendships, of betrayal, of experiences we can relate to more than we think. Our favorite celebrities just happen to be the subjects of the news.

        The horoscope conversation is just my way of trying to dig a little deeper below the surface. I understand it is of mass appeal, but there should be a good reason behind it.

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  9. Fox says:

    I think he has a lot of good thoughts on love life that I can agree.

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    • Chriselle replied:

      Same here! 😀

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      • Fox replied:

        Maybe these wise comments make him look suitable with ancient look more. Too bad he has never had a scholar role.

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      • Kaytie replied:

        Agreed!

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  10. Chriselle says:

    His flirting pic with Linda is rather cute, but too bad I can’t see them as a couple anymore after he dated PSS.

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    • Veejay replied:

      Well Lf and Linda sure looks cute together and they would make a pretty couple if they are together.

      There was 1 radio prank I heard b4, it was LF calling Linda and LInda’s voice tone was like surprised like didn’t expect LF to call her and she said “Fung? yeah…anything?” and LF said “sorry for disturbing her filming” Ok, the whole prank was just a common prank played by many artist but Linda’s tone shows she was stranger to Fung, and not as close as describe by some reporters who stated they dated b4. But then again, LF could had dated Linda after the prank 😛

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      • Fox replied:

        Ah the one Linda showed her tomboy side to me :P.

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      • Snow replied:

        i actually thought her voice turned sweet when she knew it was fung lol

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      • Veejay replied:

        haha, same here. Linda didn’t show any sign of tomboyish but was rather sweet and cautious when she knew it was Fung.

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      • NX replied:

        And her sweetness sounded fake to me ^^.

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      • Vivien replied:

        I thought Linda suddenly turn sweet when she knew she’s on air

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      • Fox replied:

        @Vivien: Yes, she turned to sweet after knowing he called her from the radio station.

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      • claimine replied:

        I believed all these so-called spontaneous prank calls are actually all pre-arranged between the callers and their ‘victims’. It is just a matter of showing courtesy to their colleagues to not put them in a predicament of not their doing, or catch them unaware or at a bad time, or invade their privacy with such prank calls on public radio, no less.

        Just like how even close friends would not show up unannounced at someone’s house without a courtesy phone call first to indicate their intention and to make sure they are at home, what’s more catching your colleagues unaware on a public radio during their off time and having them promptly put on high alert with their words.

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      • WhoAmI replied:

        Of course this kind stuff is faked. Who still thinks reality show is real this day?

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  11. Fox says:

    Another comment: The sashimi looks so delicious. :(, hungry.

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    • Kaytie replied:

      It sure looks delish! Now I’m jealous that I can’t eat that yummy sashimi RL has in front of him 🙁

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    • NX replied:

      Yeah, who cares about LF anyway, the sashimi is more eye catching…

      Oh…

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  12. WhoAmI says:

    This Raymond Lam will be doing fine, no matter what happen, he will sleep with other 20 girls before he gets 45. Cry, unable to sleep, depressed..are nothing, the sheep will be back on track and more horny.

    If anyone wants to prove I am wrong, then keep it in your heart

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    • Fox replied:

      Nobody want to prove you are wrong, don’t be worried. We are busy with the horoscope :P.

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      • WhoAmI replied:

        Proving is okay but wait until he is 45 is. . long

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      • Kaytie replied:

        @Fox, haha!!! i think we’re still busy with horoscope 😛

        @WhoAmI, LOL how do you know for sure Ray will be horny and sleep with 20+ other women by the time he’s 45? That’s a very interesting theory…

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      • Fox replied:

        Fortuneteller?

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      • Kaytie replied:

        ahhh!!!! agreed! =D

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        He’s a sheep right? What if he is a tiger in sheep’s clothing?

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      • NX replied:

        I’ll like him even more LOL

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      • Veejay replied:

        I see NX likes someone rough, cunning 😉 very kinky hehe

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      • NX replied:

        Yeah yeah, for an entertainer, that’s my type lol

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      • WhoAmI replied:

        I once predicted Lam had slept with someone and yes, it was MPSSSSS.

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  13. WhoAmI says:

    I am not a master of love but I think:
    1. If Raymond Lam is deeply in love with her then forgive her for leaking the bed photos. They were real photos.
    2. Instead of telling how hurtful it is in the media. Find MP, tell her about it. Hold her tight and tell her how much he loved her and how hurtful it was when she did this thing to him.
    3. If he cannot let her go out of his heart, kneel down, and beg her for another chance
    ————-
    He can do anything because a girl is a girl, he can get another one anytime, his fame, his famousness is important.

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    • Kaytie replied:

      It’s pretty hard to say and I’m no master of love either. But I think that if he really could find it in his heart to forgive what she did (if she really leaked the photos) then he would have done that a long time ago why do it now?! It’s because he hasn’t healed from his breakup and it clearly shows that he was madly in love with her. It takes time to heal when you’re really in love with someone and you can’t get over someone right away.

      I agree that he doesn’t want to let go fame since he felt he worked so hard for it and he wouldn’t want his career to go downhill. It depends what is more important and what comes first. Obviously his career is more important at this rate.

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    • NX replied:

      For many people, betraying is what they can never forgive. No matter what happened during the time they were together but for PSS selling their story like that, it’s like stabbing LF with a sharp knife and he would never ever forget it. For more, PSS did say he cheated behind her back. When trust is nowhere tobe found, how can they get back together?

      As artists, there are alot of things they need to consider when it comes to love. Well, “holding her tight”? Talk to her? What if she recorded the conversation and edited it? Next would jump over the moon for this.

      “If he cannot let her go out of his heart, kneel down, and beg her for another chance”

      If he really do that, I’ll look down on him.

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  14. Funn Lim says:

    Why suddenly so many in italics???

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    • Veejay replied:

      My bad, I didnt close the properly. How do I close it properly inorder it wont Italic my other sentence which I don’t want them to be italiced?

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  15. shadowrain604 says:

    Hey fox, can you tell me my horoscope? It’s 1990 water house 😛

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    • Fox replied:

      Water house? I guess you mean water horse? Nope, you are Earth, exact: Earth in the street. Ppl born in the year of horse are the one who like outdoor activities, bright character and like to laugh. Irresponsibility is the weakness. A horse never really belongs to anyone although they are also loyal, but in their mind, there is no one lover. That’s why they are loyal to the lover but still look at the other handsome/pretty around.

      Earth ppl are gentle, don’t like to argue much with others but don’t make them get mad, they can become very crazy. Earth on the street is the type of ppl that like to go out and experience new things. So don’t feel weird if you like to travel.

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      • shadowrain604 replied:

        Lol, must have been a typo. Born april 1990, is that earth horse?

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  16. sarah says:

    More translations for Part 2, 3, 4 and 5 please? Hahas :$

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  17. passerby says:

    This guy is fugly.

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    • NX replied:

      But he’s cute and handsome haha

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      • passerby replied:

        Eughh lol

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  18. Addu says:

    I got to say, I see Raymond most compatible with Michelle Ye. Yes, I’m still living in the past, lol.

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    • Fox replied:

      Personally, I think so, too.

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    • NX replied:

      Addu, you can still hope for the future reunion 🙂

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  19. WhoAmI says:

    No mater what Raymond’s purpose of telling the pain, he made MP look like a b**** now in his fan eyes. That is the point, if he loves her, he should not tell how painful he is to the public.

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    • NX replied:

      He loves her no more.

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  20. Hello World says:

    No matter what his purpose of telling the public how painful he is after the relationship ends, he is making MP look bad in his fans’ eyes. Yes, he might “ACCIDENTALLY” once again hurt his ex-lover.

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    • ahk replied:

      @Hello World:

      Hi! Sorry about the delay in your comment as the system caught some improper word used. Hope you don’t mind that I amended a particular word and thank you for your patience in the meantime. 🙂

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    • Fox replied:

      Uhm, if she didn’t sell the love story and the pix to Next (admitted by Next), then she wouldn’t look too bad in his fans’ eyes like now. And if she dun give comment on this article, his fans wouldn’t bash her because this one’s content is too so-so and uninformative. To sum up, PSS also accidentally “hurt” herself.

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      • NX replied:

        She said she didn’t want attentions, but what she did attracted attentions. He’s no one for her now but she seems so “care”

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    • NX replied:

      Yeah, the pix is enough if she wants everything all out. But selling her own love story for fame is so cheap. There are tons of better guys in this world, don’t have to scratch her own face like that. It’s her own move that made her look bad.

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    • NX replied:

      After all, they all artists, just see who have the higher EQ and smarter in handling situation.

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  21. Melody says:

    I for one dun think RL is making MP looking bad in other ppl eyes. When a relationship fails, both parties are wrong. And when you do love someone, time is needed to heal.

    He gave his thoughts on love and abit on his past relationship which was an experience to him. Anyway, this is a interview that they split into 5 parts.

    At the end of the day, no one knows the real him so whether he beds another 20 girls, seriously who cares?

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    • Fox replied:

      I think many ppl care (but again, not me haha).

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    • NX replied:

      A lot of people care and a lot of them believe that everyone cares 🙂

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  22. Kidd says:

    Just testing to see whether it fix the italic problem.

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    • Larry 3 replied:

      Someone forgot to closed the italics, there should be a preview button before even to publish your comments right away and make a last minute changes to submit comment.

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  23. loungegirl says:

    Don’t care for this guy at all. I’d choose Wayne Lai over him in a heartbeat.

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    • NX replied:

      You still seem so care when commenting his news 🙂

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      • loungegirl replied:

        I meant I don’t like him. But you’re right – I still care… about the gossips. Admittedly, I like to read about people/things that I don’t like or that upsets me. lol

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      • NX replied:

        If you have fun doing so then it’s great, I support you. However, if those news make you feel upset then don’t read them. It’s no good torturing yourself by some strangers you do not like.

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  24. Pineapple says:

    I think he should just make a fresh start and find someone else and forget the past. Of course easier said than done. I’ve been hurt before so I know what the feeling was like but I really hope that he finds happiness with the right girl. I like Raymond despite rumours or whatnot, and thinks that apart from being a good actor, he is a nice person. Maybe 2012 will be a better year for him.

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    • NX replied:

      2012 is end of the world! LOL, just kidding!
      Hope to see more of his movies in the upcoming years, I kind of like listening to his Mando now.

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  25. ada says:

    He should know better than to touch anyone who’s thinking of breaking into show biz.
    Maybe learn a thing or 2 from the likes of the 4 heavenly kings. Andy Lau kept his wife under wraps for years.
    Or like Leon Lai date/marry someone who’s famous & glamorous as well.

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