Andy Lau Flashes Daughter’s Photo for 3 Seconds

By on May 6, 2014 in NEWS

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Since the birth of his daughter Hanna Lau (劉向蕙) two years ago, Andy Lau (劉德華) has kept his family under extreme protection away from the public’s prying eyes. Buying a separate complex in Kadoorie Hill, Hong Kong, Andy employed four bodyguards to protect his wife Carol Chu (朱麗倩) and daughter when they step outside the residence. However, Andy did promise that he would introduce his daughter to his fans at his fan club gathering.

As promised, this past March 23, Andy attended a private barbecue event with his loyal fans and shared a photo of Hanna. Andy took out his cell phone and said, “You can only look at the photo for three seconds–one, two, three.” A fan recalled the moment, and stated that Hanna had short hair, a pointed noise, and large eyes just like her mother Carol.

Since Hanna was born, Andy has been a doting father. Although a workaholic, Andy scaled back his work to spend more time with his family. He often speaks about his daughter in social conversations, and praised his daughter’s beauty at a December fan gathering. Unlike many artistes, Andy wants Hanna to attend school in Hong Kong instead of studying overseas.

As if fans sensed that Andy wanted a second child, they urged him to try for another baby. However, with his busy filming schedule for the upcoming film Lost and Lonely <失孤>, the 52-year-old star will have to push his baby plans back until his work projects are cleared.

Source: Sina.com

This article is written by Su for JayneStars.com.

70 comments to Andy Lau Flashes Daughter’s Photo for 3 Seconds

  1. sky says:

    BORINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

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  2. wooo says:

    Celebrities always say no to marriage and kids when they’re young but when older, they’re desperate to get kids. Poor kids, their parents could be old enough to be their grandparents

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  3. Terminator says:

    I am also sick of the way this creep trying to toy with the emotions of his “fans” by playing mind games.

    Who the heck care at this point?

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    • Peter replied:

      agreed

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    • Karen Koh replied:

      Absolutely agree…! What’s so special about the child? Another toddler. Only the fans are…! NO interest from us.

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      • baby mia replied:

        What’s so special about the child? You asked.

        She is Andy Lau and Carol’s daughter, that’s what so special.

        If she is karen koh’s daughter, then you’re right, who cares. Just another toddler, no interest from me and us.

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      • san replied:

        LOL, agreed, @baby mia.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        Stefanie sun did not show any photos of her son,but no one says anything. In fact, we do not even know her son’s name so the press just calls him little Nadim,which is her husband’s name. Stefanie is a very famous and popular singer too.

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      • Charbydis replied:

        Any child is special!

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    • yuaida replied:

      Absolutely agree…………this guy has some serious mental issues.

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  4. sky says:

    i don’t get why do we care about much about what his kid look like? seriously…

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  5. Trini says:

    When Andy had the fan gathering, it was VERY PRIVATE, with selected fans only in attendance. He also had the placed secluded with black curtains and absolutely no cameras or mobile phones were let in. Then each fan was allowed only three seconds to see the princess.

    It is an insult to do that to his fans.

    @Terminator

    Yes, Andy is playing mind games with his fans and toying with their emotions. I remember a few months ago, one of his subjects asked him if a perfect god like him ever make mistakes. Andy replied by laughing and then saying, “ÿes, I forgot to tell you all that I was married”, and then he laughed again. What an insult.

    He should have told that fan that he is not a god and that he is not perfect. But then again, he believes he is all that so that is why he would not correct the sheep. If that was Fat Gor or Jacky Cheung, they would have thanked him for the compliment and then remind him that they are just mere mortals

    He did not forget. He did not tell them on purpose. To make matters worse, he kept telling them that when he is going to get married, he will let them know. He kept denying up to the day he got exposed, and even threatened legal action to media and certain individuals who insist on continuing to write and spread lies by saying such nonsense, when all along, he was the one deceiving his fans and telling the lies. Had someone not gotten fed up enough to expose him, he would have still been deceiving his fans and probably suing the media for saying he is married. He was forced through intervention by Eric Tsang to tell his fans he is having a baby, or else Andy would not have told his fans that either. He was denying it and getting ready to sue.

    There is so much corruption in this man’s life, and he rules all those around him with a tight, controlling iron fist. There will be a lot of heartache if the true nature of this man and his involved activities are ever found out.

    In the meantime, I guess his fans will continue to be used, insulted and controlled by this vain, evil dictating hypocrite

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    • windy replied:

      Hahaha LOL… and he probably won’t let this ‘princess’ date anyone until at least 40 years old. haha…LOL..OMG, this dude is so full of nonsense and BS sometimes and yet ppl still love him. Alot of insane fans out there.

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      • Trini replied:

        LOL.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        I do not think it is that bad. His daughter is still too young,he may be protective just like any father would be of their daughters, but I am sure he will know when to let go because he knows that he will have to marry her off one day.

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  6. soo says:

    Andy L. completed only high school and didn’t go university how far can he thinks of. .very shallow mind, all he could think of…only doing all these nonsense

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    • Stupid grads everywhere replied:

      This is an insult to all people who didn’t get to university. Big deal that you are
      one who does.

      I studied up to MBA level and yet does not share your low-down attitude.

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    • Trini replied:

      Your poor excuse for Andy’s behaviour is so asinine it is beyond the pale. I cannot believe you said this. You have insulted all people who have only been to high school. Academics or the lack thereof has nothing to do with Andy’s behaviour. Bill Gates and many other billionaires did not go to college and yet still they do not behave like this, living in such delusional secrecy, believing they are above even God,and everyone else. Controlling the lives of their workers, wives, children and anyone associated with them. In fact, their ability to think made them the billionaires that they are today. Not bad for the billionaire guys and gals who did not go to university. Oprah Winfrey was out of school by age 14. My neighbour who is worth 60 million dropped out of school at 12. Please, hahaha!!,tell me again how far can a person think who did not go past high school, lol.

      I still can’t believe you will say something so ……, so…. lol, lol, to try to defend his actions.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        Bill Gates was at Harvard and he chose to leave Harvard to pursue Microsoft which in retrospect is a brilliant decision. If he had stayed he would have graduated 1st class but maybe not the world’s richest man.

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      • kolo replied:

        talking afterwards is always easy,you never know what would happened if he had choosed the other way,maybe he became a new einstein now,lol.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        He is so rich because he saw the opportunity and he seized it. The timing was right but he knew exactly what he wanted and how to get it. He would never have been einstein. He was too ambitious in terms of striking it rich and striking it big.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        I do not think Andy is in this circle for money only. I am positive he loves to sing and act. He can easily just do business or anything else to make a living or strike it rich as some of you think,but he chose to sing and act which is what he had always loved doing.

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  7. EkinFan says:

    Prime andy lau was the man, this skinny decrepit monkey skeleton? not so much

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    • Trini replied:

      @Funn Lim

      You are right. Bill Gates would have never been the Bill Gates he is now had he stayed in University.

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    • san replied:

      @ekinfan , why u always said “this skinny decrepit monkey skeleton” ? LOL maybe u the brainless bald monkey ass.

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  8. sehseh says:

    Well he made a promise to show his daughter pic to his fanclub and he fulfilled it. The 3 seconds thing was probably made so everyone can have a glimpse during the fanmeet and not hogging the line. Also avoiding the incidence of leaking the pic if the pic was revealed on projector instead of phone. Don’t think his fans complained though.

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    • Trini replied:

      No cell phones or camera materials were allowed, the fan meet was a special gathering, with not that many people there, the surroundings were blackened, so how was it possible for a photo leak. He does this to his sheeple fans because he knows he can insult them, toy with them and they will defend him to the grave.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        I really wonder why you hate Andy so much? It is true that he has flaws and all,but who is perfect? Just like with Felix,I always thought he was the best guy around since he is not only a good actor,is modest,a good husband and father. But recently we all found out that he is not a good son. Once again ,who is perfect? You have some,you lose some.

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  9. bloom says:

    I can understand some ppl wants privacy but not to that extent. I honestly feel Andy Lau is overly protective of his family, I think worst than US President! His daughter is just another child and his wife is just another woman, why need to be so overly protective of them? This is really absurb.

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    • Charbydis replied:

      you still remember his history of crazy psychotic fans? One of them charged at Carol in their carpark and pushed her and since then, he has surrounded Carol with bodyguards. You never know when a crazy fan could pop up and stab Hanna so I think Andy should be protective of her.

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      • Trini replied:

        Carol was always surrounded by bodyguards, that is why all the pictures taken of her over the years were very grainy, because the bodyguards would not let the paps get close enough for a clean, clear picture. How is it that a fan could get close enough to push Carol. This is the first time this has ever been mentioned on this thread or anywhere else. Why are you lying to justify the erratic, abnormal and controlling behavior of this man?. How come this was never mentioned in the news, in the papers, the news mags. How come the body guards let this happened, how come there was no arrest or no charges laid for physical assault against Carol. Oh please.

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      • Trini replied:

        I WANT YOU TO TELL ME WHAT YEAR THIS HAPPENED. I ALSO WANT TO KNOW WHICH NEWS PAPER AND/OR TV STATION BROKE THE NEWS, HAHAHAHA. IF YOU CAN’T TELL US, THEN CEASE WITH YOUR REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY LIES.

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  10. Funn Lim says:

    Kinda like royalty! It’s easier for us to see Prince George than his daughter.

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    • bloom replied:

      To Funn Lim, yeah, can’t agree more with you. I felt the way he guarded his family’s life was way too much. He’s just an ordinary artiste, what’s so big deal? Yes, he’s famous but he’s not a legend so far, so please Andy Lau, relax. Not everyone is interested at how your daughter looks anyway.

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      • kolo replied:

        the big deal is,if his daughter will be kidnapped one day,then he cant blame himself for not having enough precautions.ppl just leave him,why blame so much? its his life,have he to ask your ppl permission for what he do?

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        I can’t wait for the day his daughter starts dating.

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      • Funn Lim replied:

        But I can understand his paranoia.

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      • MW replied:

        Maybe the triad threatened him before?

        Also, regarding Prince George (and others), they are supported by tax $$$$$$ so there’s a difference.

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  11. Trini says:

    Not like royalty at all. When Prince George was born, the Duke & Duchess of Cambridge did not hide his birth from anyone. That child is a bigger kidnap target than Andy’s daughter will ever be. Andy and his family are not even close to the league of the royal young family, yet he creates all this unwarranted hoopla about his family and their safety. He is the one suffering delusional paranoia and he believes he and his daughter are so important.

    Even Obama, the royal families of the world, blueblooded and titled families and world leaders do not behave like this. It is either you show your child like all the other celebs do, or don’t bother throwing out a bone teaser. It is rather distasteful and insulting.

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  12. tayna says:

    What’s all the fuzz about him wanting to keep his family from the public eyes? That’s his choice. He’s protective of his precious daughter … nothing is wrong with that. Ppl often say don’t judge, but here I see bunch of shallow individuals comparing n judging him left n right. Royal family n President family have a whole team of intelligence w/latest technologies n weapons to protect them every where they go. Do u think Andy Lau can afford that kind of security?The guy just try to do the best he can to protect his family so…give a break! You don’t like him, ignore him n don’t read news about himn don’t comment. Geez!!

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    • kolo replied:

      agreed,what is the big deal to share a photo for 3 seconds with his fans? andy is just playful with his fans,ppl are too sensitive in my opinion.

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  13. Trini says:

    OH MY GOD!!!!. sTOP THE PRESSES!!. Andy can’t afford the kind of protection these people have???!!!!. You could have fool me.I though he was the king of the world, and all kings are beyong filthy, stinking rich.

    The problem is not wanting to protect his family. We all want to protect our families. All of the celebs in Hong Kong want to protect their families. How Andy goes about protecting his family only draws negative comments to himself.

    You have to admit, the way he chooses to treat his fans Is rather shallow and insulting. He is the one who draws negative attention to himself. He is delusional and paranoid about the way he goes about his so called protection for his family. If his family needs all this protection, it is from Andy himself.

    Obviously you worship the man and cannot see that he is paranoid. As for hypocrites, the hypocrites are Andy himself and anyone who chooses to defend or condone his actions. You miss the whole point of how he insults and plays with the emotions and intelligence of his fans. You obviously has not understood the comments

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    • tayna replied:

      OH MY GOD!!! Do you even understand why the U.S. President n his family, the British royal family or the Pope got that kind of level of security? And, do you know why they need that n how they can afford that? Their people need them to be safe n paid for their protection with tax$$$. This is why they’re rich…rich in both worldwide political power n money. Andy Lau…or you…might think of himself king n filthy rich…Idk…but he won’t be able to afford that kind of protection.
      It looks to me that Andy Lau only wants to protect his n his family privacy and he’s trying to do that in his own way. That’s his choice n his right. He didn’t put a gun nxt to anyone’s head forcing them to become his fan. They want to be his fan, that’s their choice. No need to judge n bash anyone’s reputation n career unless he/she actually doing something harmful. That’s my point.
      Don’t know why I’m wasting my energy on this cuz you n most others on this panel would still gonna continue negative n negative toward anyone who does’t “appear friendly” to you. Btw, I’m not a die-hard-fan of any celebrity n Andy Lau sure isn’t “king” of any thing. It’s only what some of you in asia think.

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      • Trini replied:

        Of course any sensible thinking person will know that Andy does not have the budget that the pope, the president, the royal family and other world known celebrities have for protection, but he thinks he does.

        Do you know that the president of the USA the president of Russia, The Duke of Cambridge, Brad Pitt Price Charles have all been asked by journalist/repoters/paparazzi how their wives and girlfriends and their children were doing. They said they are well .When Andy is asked that question, he angrily tells the person asking, Ï WILL NOT ANSWER THAT”. You want to tell me how that can affect his privacy and family protection?.

        He moved a couple of times because people who were not his family and his three friends found out where he was living. The president, the Duke and Brad Pitt’s families have more reason to worry about kidnappers than Andy ever will.

        Andy buys all these houses and then hides his family out in the hills in remote villages in Malaysia and Hong Kong. Some of the houses he never lives in. Everyone knows where the residences are where Obama, Pitt and the Dukes live with their families.

        Tell me do you not see this behaviour as being overboard.?. If you don’t, then give me a real good reason why not, or don’t bother to answer, cause even a deaf and blind sheep can see that this is the behaviour of a paranoid delusional man, or a man who thinks he is all that important and in danger of being hurt and kidnapped. I am anxious to hear what you have to say.

        You obviously do not understand what the sensible comments here are about. Leave the people on this panel alone who are only questioning Andy’s strange behaviour.

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      • kolo replied:

        it seems you know much about andy’s privacy lol,even when he dont ever tell a thing about his privacy, you must be his best “friend”.otherwise i cant imagine why you even know what he thinks?ah i see i already said you are a saint but im wrong you are not a saint,you are a god.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        I have never heard Andy get angry when people ask about his wife and daughter. At most,he just says that he does not want to talk about family affairs or just goes silent. I remember when they found out about his wife”s pregnancy,the reporters asked many questions,all he said was why so many questions? They the replied that they were just so happy for him,so he replied that he was happy too. They asked about his daughter wanting to enter the circle one day but he said it was still too far and that he will answer them when the time comes. There were also times that people requested him to hug and get close to other females like his co stars,but he refused and said that he had a wife! He is more open about it now since he has nothing more to hide. Andy may not be the best or most perfect husband,but I can see his good traits and that he loves his wife and family. He is a good son and brother too,so what is up with all of the hatred towards him? No one is perfect and I do not think it is fair to compare the amount of wealth he has to a royal family. He may have a bit of money,but how can that compare to the amount a royal monarchy has?

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        I admit that Andy is a bit overboard with his protection of his family but then you really wonder if something really bad happened to him that made him become this way?? Seriously,none of us know what truly happened and what is so bad about a man trying to protect his family??? At least he is consistent,unlike Wu Chun and Jimmy Lin who at first were trying to hide their wives and family but are now over exposing them like there is no tomorrow… You wonder about them too???

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  14. Trini says:

    Did you know that he moved because some people found out wherehis house was?. Now, anyone can understand if they found out and were camped outside his house waiting or spying on him. If that happens and he moves, then I would go and even help him pack That did not happen. For many years, the fans and media knew who Carol was and they never, ever hassled her in public. They never approached, asked her questions or harassed and threatened her. The media commented that she was the woman in Andy’s life. If you noticed, all the pictures of her taken by the media over the years were from a distance. They never even went close to snap her. All the fuss from Andy is uncalled for. He has really taken his crap too far.

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    • Funn Lim replied:

      There were suspiscion where his malaysian house is and my friend lived in that area for decades and I asked her, even seen a mask wearing woman or someone looking like Carol and she said never. Maybe he had her hidden somewhere in the mountains.

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      • irene replied:

        Now I am wondering if she steps out of the house in the first place.

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    • Trini replied:

      Where was it mentioned that anyone knows how Ady thinks. Get this please, I will explain it to you like you are a slow learning small child. Knowing things about a person, and knowing what they think are two total different things okay kid?. You are only looking to make trouble with you asinine comment. Take a hike DSkid. And yes, I am a god, hehehe!!!. Have a nice day, I know I will.

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      • kolo replied:

        although you exclaimed that you are a “god” by yourself im not impressed at your evangelical rhetoric,come try another one,lol.

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    • Trini replied:

      @HeTieShou

      No one, including myself never said that Andy has the amount of money that the royals in the world have.. Please be smart and read my comments carefully. I know you are a pretty smart young lady. I get irked when people cannot understand what is written. Andy has agrily said he will not answer in the past when he was simply asked how is your wife, or daughter, or how are both. He has since posed for countless pictures with his arm around many females in the circle after his marriage was exposed. When Carina Lau wanted to pay homage to Carol at his concert, when she was the special guest, Andy was very angry and nervous.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        @Trini,
        Well, I never claimed to be intelligent or smart. I am not that young either and bet that you are not that much older than me. I also wonder why you follow Andy’s news so much when you hate him??? I thought it would make more sense to follow news of people that you actually like.

        Honestly, taking photos with your arms around other women is not the biggest deal. Many men who are married put their arm around me and I don’t feel the big deal. It is just a friendly gesture like a hug or even kiss on the cheek. I am more westernized so those things are not a big deal to me. But of course, I know each person is different.

        Andy and Carina are long time friends, so I don’t think it would make sense for him to get mad at her over something like that. Why would she suddenly want to pay homage to Carol?? I have never heard of that. How do you know for sure he got angry?? We should not believe everything we read in the papers. I have learned to take most things with a grain of salt since you wonder how true any of it is, just like this article or any article for that matter. But I must say that I have noticed one thing, if you hate anyone, you would always strike them down at any chance you get. However, if you like anyone, you will always give them the benefit of the doubt. Not aiming at you or anyone, but just saying in general since that is what I have observed through my life. Hey, we are all bias to some extent…

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  15. Tavia Yeung says:

    Dear Fans,

    Your are right, who cares!!!!! Poor Carol…
    This is what she wants….can’t blame anyone, her life.

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    • Trini replied:

      I repeat, I am a god, lol. how can I impress anyone who is as thick as a brick, and who cannot understand when I am having fun at their expense?. How can I?, lol. Not that I care to, not worth my time. So you come again. Get sensible and get back tome.

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    • Trini replied:

      @HeTieShou

      My parents, wife, and friends were at that concert where Carol wanted to thank Carol and Andy was steaming mad, so what was written was not the tabloids making up rumors. You are so wrong about me. IThere are a few people I like and if they are wrong, I will say it. I am not a celeb worshipper, never was, never will be. I have chewed out a few I like. The difference between you and me is I do not invest in these people, I do not see them as gods or perfect beings, I do not think that they are above doing wrong as many that I dig have some serious character flaws, moral flaws and a whole lot of skeletons buried in their closets. You will be surprised a few I like and know got chewed out by me. If something is printed about them and it is true, I will not be a fool and live in a delusional world and blame the paps, the journalist and everyone in between. The real Andy is not a nice man. I never wanted his true self to be exposed, but many you and others need to see the real Andy Lau since you all are so fooled by him. I never said taking photos with arm around women is a big deal. You are the one who said that Andy told others he is married and will not take such photos, yet since the marriage got exposed, he took thousands of such photos. I smell hypocrite. Many photographers ask the lead male and female to putt heir arm around each other for promotional photos. of their movies, dramas, or a modelling shoot.

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      • Trini replied:

        I like Wu Chun, all the guys from the boy band Far. ||||Did you not see me go off on him????> How could you miss what I said.

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      • soo replied:

        Whether Andy is a nice or bad person who cares as for Carol being control by Andy that’s her choice no one is forcing her to marry Andy and her sacrificed.

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        @trini,
        Whether Andy is a nice person or not,it is not for you to judge because you do not really know him. Honestly,you can know someone your whole life and not know them well. Since you have a special hatred towards Andy,you will pick on him at every chance you get. I am not an idol worshipper or a blind fan or any of that. I acknowledge when anyone is wrong. Andy is a human and has flaws just like anyone, I am sure that he has many good traits too just like anyone. I did not say that Andy is married and will not take such photos. Read my posts again! I just said that one time they asked him to,hug his co star by the refused to,because he said he had a wife. There is nothing wrong with taking photos with the opposite sex even if you are married. But I still do not understand why you hate Andy soooooo much but yet you still go to his concert. Did you go just provide proof that he is a bad person? Why do you have do you gave to,go around telling everyone what a bad person he is? I still do not get it. I admit that I like Andy and all but I am not blind to his faults or anyone’s.

        Shocked that you say you like Wu Chun,since you seem to hate his guts too.

        I agree with soo that Andy did not force Carol,to be with him. It was her choice and she may not living the perfect life,but you have to admit that her life is far from bad.

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  16. Trini says:

    This is not what Carol wants. This is the sacrifice she made because she is such a traditional Asian woman when it comes to loving Andy. Carol was a bright, vibrant, vivacious, social butterfly who loved dressing up and going out to parties, meeting people, talking, having healthy clean fun, cooking and eating. She gave up her social calendar to become Andy’s girlfriend, and obeyed every word he said. She was willing to become his invisible girlfriend because that what what he wanted. She gave up her life because she wanted to please him. A Young nineteen year old would do anything for the man she worships. I do not think she worships him so much now, but he is powerful and Carol is under his control. Carol never looks happy whenever she is photographed. She looks like a trapped little bird. She would be happy if her husband would take her out on his arm, that is a fact. The only place he ever took her out to publicly where there was a gathering of people including the media was to a funeral in Mainland china months ago.

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    • Funn Lim replied:

      You mean she gave up her identity for him?

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      • kolo replied:

        funn dont listen to her,how can she knows what carol wants? this is too ridiculous.this guy just drinks too much fanta!

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      • HeTieShou replied:

        Exactly,who knows what Carol wants? Only she would know that.

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      • Trini replied:

        I got the Fanta from you

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    • HeTieShou replied:

      Well, if that is what truly happened,then it is her choice, so I do not think it is fair to blame it all on Andy. It is not like he forced her. She made a choice and she lost some and she gained some. She lost her old social life,but enjoys a rich life without having to ever work. Some women are ok with that.

      It is not just with Andy and Carol,but I feel being the wife of any actor/singer, there are times that you need to be in the shadow,especially if you were not from the circle. I know that many will give examples of Jacky Cheung and other celebs,but each couple and situation is different so I wonder if it is fair to compare?

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      • Charbydis replied:

        Yes, Alan Tam’s first wife gave up her life and became a Buddhist recluse. She even let him keep a mistress that he drags around as his “wife” along with their kids.

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      • Trini replied:

        I agree that sometimes these wives do step aside and let their husbands be the one in the spotlight. There is nothing wrong with that. Please do not try to justify Andy’s strange and over controlling behavior with by comparing it to the relationship with these other celebrity men from hong kong. Jacky Chueng uses his wife’s name to address her. He says good and positive things about what a wonderful wife and mother she is, what a loving person she is. He is proud to let the world know he loves her. He is not rude to journalists when they ask about the well being of his children or wife. His wife does not have to walk behind him with her head held down to the ground and a mask covering her face. She looks happy the few times she or/and the children were seen out in public with Jacky. When Andy’s wife is seen out with or without him, her body language tells a story of a nervous, hapless woman. She always looks sad and depressed and frightened, even when she is with him. I do not see that with the other wives. These women are not totally controlled by their husbands, or are not hidden in different houses and apartments every few months way out in the Boonies. Please do not compare Andy’s marriage to these other celeb marriages because it abnormal compared to theirs.

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  17. Trini says:

    Funn Lim, to answer your question, YES.

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  18. P. Tan says:

    I’ve always thought that Andy was too protective and unduly worried over his family. What a life for his wife and daughter. Where Carol was brought up in her hometown I doubt she was at any time ‘improsoned’ as she is now and really, is she happy at all? She must be longing to be at her old home where she would have led such a carefree life. You can never see what she really looks like as she always wears a mask! I know, that’s his way of looking after his family, etc, but most people do think he’s just going overboard about it and I agree.

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